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hotmessmarisa · 6 years ago

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HOW TO GIVE HEAD LIKE A PRO. 🍆

We all want to be the proverbial goddess when giving head. There’s something sexy in being completely confident and knowing you’re going to send your man into ecstasy. It’s a pride thing... probably not gonna wear a shirt that says “DICK SUCKING CHAMP. EST 1995” (well, I might) but we do like knowing our man is well PLEASED. Walking around with a big goofy ass smile all day, kinda pleased. So here are a few of my best tips for giving amazing head.

NO TEETH. Unless he specifically TELLS YOU to use your teeth a little, the penis is so damn sensitive and nothing is worse than dragging your teeth on him. Open your mouth wide enough for him to only feel the soft inside of your mouth and tongue. If you’re pleasuring a more endowed man- cover your teeth with your lips if you have to. You do NOT want to be known as “The Dragon” behind your back. So don’t bite or drag your teeth!

Positioning. Have him sit, stand, lay down, or whatever position he enjoys the most. I’ve known some men who can only cum standing up, others are just happy to be there. 😂🤷🏼‍♀️ I like giving head in 69 bc the position is GOOD for taking him down my throat. (And you can sit on his face 😈) And this applies pressure to his chest/stomach which makes it hotter for him as well. Another crazy sexy move, is to be in sexy lingerie, laying on your back on the bed with your head hanging off the edge while he stands. It’s perfect for practicing deep throat. And for access to his balls with your hands and mouth.

What to wear. I like to be topless so I can tease him by rubbing my breasts against his thighs and pelvis. Or put his cock between your breasts and suck the head when it comes up to your mouth. 🤤 Ok, rabbit trail... back to clothes. This is personal preference. I suggest losing your inhibitions (and your clothes), bc you’re hot. If you weren’t, you wouldn’t be giving this blowjob to begin with. But do what works for you! The more comfortable you feel, the more fun you’ll have.

Start out slow, and focus on making him feel good. You can get him to cum in a bit- first just center in on his enjoyment. Tease him. Kiss him in his groin area and lightly touch. Kiss from his mouth down his stomach and all around his cock. Lick up and down and around his shaft. Take the head in your mouth and rub your tongue around it. Flick his frenulum with your tongue. I like to then start sucking just the head, lifting off, go down further, lift off, then slowly take him all the way into your mouth. (Use one hand to hold in place)

WET WET WET. The more spit, slobber, etc, the better. *pro tip? If your mouth is dry, take him all the way down your throat- it will hit your gag reflex and help your mouth make more spit. 😈 We will get to that in a min. You want this to be WET. Sloppy wet. Like, rub your face against his cock and balls and EVERYTHING is slippery, wet. Grab some lube if you need to. (I also keep a glass of water by the bed, or on the go 😂🤷🏼‍♀️)

MOAN. Humm, Moan, breathe heavy or whatever works for you. Let the noises come naturally. The dick sucking slurp noise itself is HOT. 🔥 The more ENTHUSIASM you have for doing it, the hotter it’s going to be. If you’re enjoying it, he can really relax and enjoy it too. The more verbal and sloppy this is- the hotter it will be and then faster he’s likely to cum.

Don’t ignore his balls. Gently hold, fondle/tickle them while you play. Also, take the time to lick them and put them in your mouth.

IF HE IS INTO IT- you can also lick/massage/press the perineum. Or go further back and give him a rim job as well. It totally depends on what your man is into.

Variety. You want variety. Alternate between licking his shaft, sucking the whole thing (or as much as you can), licking the frenulum, swirling your tongue around the head. Roll your tongue around him while you suck. Suck and lick his balls. Don’t neglect the shaft. The head has the MOST feeling, but the whole thing feels good- so mouth everything you can! If he’s particularly large, use both hands on his shaft to help alleviate the pressure to take it all into your mouth. If you need a break to breathe, it’s ok, just use your hands and go back to your mouth when you’re ready.

Go with his cues. Is he moaning? Keep that up. If he starts thrusting? Prob getting close- don’t change up your rhythm. I like to start out slow and be in full control. Then when he starts to get close, nothing is hotter than him holding my head and thrusting/face fucking me. It’s an amazing feeling for both of you, and I definitely recommend. Yes, there’s time to take quick breaths between thrusts. 😉 If you don’t like this loss of control, just stay in charge of the situation but don’t change up your rhythm when you can sense that he is close. (If you don’t know, have him tell you.) You CAN pull back if you feel uncomfortable. (Men, keep in mind that some women struggle with this due to sexual abuse. Make sure she’s into it before you start face fucking her) Seriously though, highly recommend- 5 stars. Lol

Use your mouth, tongue AND hands. When you get your hands involved, it typically makes them get there even faster. (Every man is different) I like to use one hand on the shaft with my mouth, and the other to play with his balls. You can jerk him up and down, line up your hand with your mouth while you suck or do a two handed twist combo on him while you suck. (One follower called this the GUCK GUCK 9000 🤣)

MAKE IT A SHOW. Men are SO visual. Look up and make eye contact with him while you suck or lick it. (Or while you spit on it, if you’re nasty 😈) Let him SEE and hear how much you like it and how much you want him. This is the most important part. Enthusiasm is literally everything here.

LOSE YOUR INHIBITIONS. It’s not going to be pretty. You’re going to possibly be a hot mess- mascara running down your face, slobber everywhere, maybe even snot. Don’t stress out about these things! You getting so freaky with him is a HUGE turn on. Gag away. I promise he’s NOT going to be grossed out by you.

Go for the deep throat! We are going to talk deep throat specifics in a separate post. You will need to train your throat to not gag as easily. It’s a whole subject in itself! But- gagging is hot. He’s NOT going to mind the sound, and you can always pull back if you need to. To deep throat- be in a position that lends easily to this. Upside down on the bed, 69, etc. You want his dick to easily go all the way into your mouth and throat. Keep your tongue and mouth relaxed, open wide - take him in then wiggle your head a little to take him further in. The more relaxed you are, the better! Jess the Prequel did a great little video on throat training your gag reflex to calm down. Will discuss this in detail later! I do like to practice on my man rather than a toothbrush but that’s me. 😈

Know beforehand if you’re going to let him cum in your mouth or not. Personally, I think swallowing is hot, but some men may prefer to cum on your tits/mouth/whatever. If you don’t want to swallow- you don’t have to! I wouldn’t make a big show of spitting in the sink and brushing your teeth though- no one wants to feel like they grossed you out. Be very discrete with that if you choose not to swallow. Men think it’s HOT when we want their cum. If you need a sucking break, you can keep working his cock with your hands while you tell him how you want him to cum in your mouth. 🔥🔥🔥 (and of course this is with someone you know and trust- if not- use a damn condom and for sure, don’t swallow- no one wants to get an STD here)

FINISH strong. You start out playing and teasing, build up until you can tell he’s close and then do NOT lose your rhythm. If you do, you may need to start over. 🤪 (think about if you’re about to cum and they start doing something completely different. Like “WAIT, NO NO! GO BACK!” It’s the same for men.) Once you have that rhythm and keep going- he’ll cum. Suck the cum out and swallow. (My opinion- you do what your comfortable with!) I like to suck it all up and off. 😈 So much freaking fun.

Annnddd now my mouth is salivating! 🤤 Just to wrap up- EFFORT and ENTHUSIASM are everything. If you’re putting your all into it and he knows YOU LOVE IT, it’s going to be hot as fuck. Trust me. You’ll end up with a face full of mascara and a VERY happy man. 😈 Got tips of your own? Feel free to leave in the comments! I’ll add some follower comments there as well. Happy Blowing! 😈😈😈🔥🔥🔥

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