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[hqrise]

i know the member who submitted the ask was still in the group instead of being the ex member you claim i'm trying to attack. i believed this ex member when they said they weren't the one to submit the ask, because i know no person in their right mind would go to the lengths they did to prove they're innocent if they're not. why do u think i gave current members a chance to come forward? i am an adult with a full time job. any small amount of free time i have to spend on rping i wanted to dedicate to writing and helping people with character work. i have no time to sit around playing kpop rp sherlock because one person in this group doesn't want to grow up and talk to me. asking you and giving this member a chance to step forward was the quickest and most direct way to the truth. i wanted to give you the chance to be responsible for what you said. i didn't lay out these details for everyone because i wanted to shield everyone as much as possible from all of this. i'm not stupid

u guys can believe what u want. u know exactly what kind of admin i am and have been to every single member of this group. if u think i threw away a plot i spent half a year writing, threw away hours i spent helping individual members with detailed character work and answering anons in extensive detail, for the sole reason of bringing hate down on any ex or current member/s then u can believe that. if u think i wanted anything but the best for a community i literally started then u can believe that.

at the end of the day none of this would happen if vent blogs didn't exist. vent blogs are a parasite to this community that bring more harm than good. whatever accountability for writers and admins u encourage is immensely undermined by the resulting environment of mistrust and invasion of privacy you create. allowing anyone to say and submit anything, allowing people's private conversations to be spread without their consent for any reason, far beyond the borders of a community they elected to join, cancels out and far outweighs any potential benefits you claim to bring to the community.

i do blame you for rise closing along with that one member who decided anonymous hate was worth a dozen other people losing a community they worked hard to build. i let a lot of things slide and ignored a lot of unkind messages while running this group, but this level of ooc drama is one thing that i will absolutely not put myself through.

hi everyone  ! a now-deleted strongly worded anonymous vent was sent to the vent blog , sincerely-krp , along with screenshots of members’ personal conversations . i’ve asked sincerely-krp if i could be provided the source of this vent and these screenshots but was denied , as is their right under their blog’s rules . as such , i will give the sender of this vent and these screenshots until march 20 , 6 pm kst to come forward with proof that they were the one to send the vent otherwise i will take down the directory .  i will absolutely not tolerate drama in a group that i run . i do not want to cultivate a culture among writers where you have to be wary of who you talk to , and afraid entire private conversations will be screenshotted , taken out of context and spread around without your consent . i do not know if the sender is still in the group ,  and i refuse to pour all the effort i do into a group where i have to constantly worry that someone has so little respect for the community and myself that they opt for hateful anonymous venting instead of seeking constructive solutions to help their community grow ; where i have to constantly worry that i’m leaving members vulnerable to being subject to this kind of behavior by having them stay in a group with this person . i want to thank the vast majority of you who have contributed positively to the group . it is because of your kindness, understanding and helpfulness that i’m compelled to take these measures . i want to continue running the group  and see characters’ stories develop , but everyone’s safety and well - being is my priority . i refuse to subject any more members to the unnecessary stress this has caused to those involved , and i want to do all that i can to protect the positive atmosphere that the majority of members have worked hard to maintain . thanks for understanding .

[hqrise]

this group is now closed. thank you for your interest and support. please note that i do not grant permission for the use of plots and concepts i created for this group.

[hqrise]

hi everyone  ! a now-deleted strongly worded anonymous vent was sent to the vent blog , sincerely-krp , along with screenshots of members’ personal conversations . i’ve asked sincerely-krp if i could be provided the source of this vent and these screenshots but was denied , as is their right under their blog’s rules . as such , i will give the sender of this vent and these screenshots until march 20 , 6 pm kst to come forward with proof that they were the one to send the vent otherwise i will take down the directory .  i will absolutely not tolerate drama in a group that i run . i do not want to cultivate a culture among writers where you have to be wary of who you talk to , and afraid entire private conversations will be screenshotted , taken out of context and spread around without your consent . i do not know if the sender is still in the group ,  and i refuse to pour all the effort i do into a group where i have to constantly worry that someone has so little respect for the community and myself that they opt for hateful anonymous venting instead of seeking constructive solutions to help their community grow ; where i have to constantly worry that i’m leaving members vulnerable to being subject to this kind of behavior by having them stay in a group with this person . i want to thank the vast majority of you who have contributed positively to the group . it is because of your kindness, understanding and helpfulness that i’m compelled to take these measures . i want to continue running the group  and see characters’ stories develop , but everyone’s safety and well - being is my priority . i refuse to subject any more members to the unnecessary stress this has caused to those involved , and i want to do all that i can to protect the positive atmosphere that the majority of members have worked hard to maintain . thanks for understanding .