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Too This

I am SICK and fucking TIRED of this you’re too this and you’re too that bullshit.

My friend just texted me telling me she was just told she was too fat and too short to do cheer this year. They told her to come back when she lost 26 pounds.

Who are YOU to tell someone of they are too fat or too short?

I replied to her with “still do it, you are beautiful the way you are.”

She told me, “But I am fat. I’m 110.”

When did being 1 FUCKING HUNDRED AND 10 MOTHER FUCKING POUNDS BECOME FAT?!

Society sickens me. It makes my question what people think now. Its being curvy and thick wrong? Why do people think its okay to tell someone they are fat? What gave them the right?

AND DO NOT HIT ME WITH THAT ITS A FREE FUCKING COUNTRY! BECAUSE LIVING IN THE U S A DOESN’T MEAN YOU CAN DOWN SOMEONE FOR THEIR HEIGHT AND WEIGHT!

I lost way to many people to bullying. If you don’t think suicide is serious, obviously you haven’t lost someone to it.

Rethink what you say before you say it. Thanks.

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P!ATD

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For Once

For once I just want to make SOMEONE happy. For once I want to do something right. For once I don't want to be scared. For once I want happiness. For once I want love. For once I want acceptance. For once I just want a nice long hug. For once I'd like to be called pretty and it be meant. Just Once!

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When I was a freshman, my sister was in eighth grade. There was a boy in two of her periods who would ask her out every single day. (Third and seventh period, if I remember correctly.) All day during third and seventh she would repeatedly tell him no. She didn’t beat around the bush, she didn’t lie and say she was taken—she just said no. One day, in third period, after being rejected several times, he said; “I have a gun in my locker. If you don’t say yes, I am going to shoot you in seventh.” [[MORE]] She refused again, but right after class she went to the principal’s office and told them what happened. They searched his locker and there was a gun in his backpack. When he was arrested, some of my sister’s friends (some female, even) told her that she was selfish for saying no so many times. That because of her, the entire school was in jeopardy. That it wouldn’t have killed her to say yes and give it a try, but because she was so mean to him, he lost his temper. Many of her male friends said it was “girls like her” that made all women seem like cockteases. Wouldn’t have killed her to say yes? If a man is willing to shoot someone for saying no, what happens to the poor soul who says yes? What happens the first time they disagree? What happens the first time she says she doesn’t want to have sex? That she isn’t in the mood? When they break up? Years later, when I was a senior, I was the only girl in my Criminal Justice class. The teacher, who used to be a sergeant in the police force, told us a story of something that had happened to a girl he knew when she was in high school. There was a guy who obviously had a crush on her and he made her uncomfortable. One day he finally gathered up the courage to ask her out, and she said no. The next day, during an assembly, he pulled a gun on her in front of everyone and threatened to kill her if she didn’t date him. He was tackled to the ground and the gun was taken from him. When my teacher asked the class who was at fault for the crime, I was the only person who said the boy was. All the other kids in the class (who were all boys) said that the girl was, that if she had said yes he would’ve never lost it and brought a gun and tried to kill her. When my teacher said that they were wrong and that this is what is wrong with society, that whenever a white boy commits a crime it’s someone else’s fault (music, television, video games, the victim) one boy raised his hand and literally said; “But if someone were to punch me and I punched him back, who is at fault for the fight? He is, not me. It’s self-defence. She started it, so anything that happens to her is in reaction to her actions .It’s simple cause and effect.” Even though he spent the rest of the calss period ripping into the boys and saying that you are always responsible for your own actions, and that women are allowed to say no and do not have to date them, they left class laughing about how idiotic he was and that he clearly had no idea how much it hurt to be rejected. So now we have a new school shooting, based solely on the fact some guy couldn’t get laid, and I see men, boys, applaudin him, or if they’re not applauding him, they’re laying blame on women as a whole. Just like my sister’s friends did. Just like the boys in my Criminal Justice class did. This isn’t something that’s rare. This isn’t something that never happens, or that a select group of men feel as if they are so entitled to women that saying no is not only the worst possible thing a woman can do, but is considered a form of “defence” when they commit a crime upon them (whether it be rape or murder-as-a-reaction-towards-rejection). Girls are being killed for saying no to prom invites. Girls are being killed for saying no to men. They are creating an atmosphere where women are too scared to say no, and the worst part is? They are doing it intentionally. They want society to be that way, they want women to say yes entirely out of fear. Even the boys and men who aren’t showing up to schools with guns are saying; “Well, you know, I wouldn’t do that, but you have to admit that if she had just said yes …” If you are a man and you defend this guys’ actions or try to find an excuse for it, or you denounce what really happened, or in any way lay blame on women, every girl you know, every woman you love, has just now thought to themselves that you might lose your shit and kill them someday for saying no. You have just lost their trust. And you know what? You deserve to lose it.

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“Wouldn’t have killed her to say yes? If a man is willing to shoot someone for saying no, what happens to the poor soul who says yes? What happens the first time they disagree? What happens the first time she says she doesn’t want to have sex? That she isn’t in the mood? When they break up?” -vampmissedith.tumblr.com

THIS IS MANDATORY READING!

(via feminist-space)

EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU’RE DOING AND READ THIS.

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if u like jealous psychopathic horny annoying clingy girls I am the one for u

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okay this is gonna be kinda deep

so i wanted to take a minute and talk about my new EP. it’s almost completely finished and i’m super excited to share it with you guys. it’s been fun releasing the past 2 EP’s but this one is different. over the past 6 months i was totally out of it. i was constantly either tired, sick, depressed, or all 3 at once and i just didn’t know what to do or who to ask for help. i was tweeting super depressing stuff and i wouldn’t leave my house for weeks at a time and i just felt lost and unwanted. this EP saved me. it all started with the second song on the EP (Sunny) which i named the EP after. it’s super simple and fun but the thing was i hadn’t written anything happy since february and it was a huge turning point in my life. somehow my ability to write a happy song reminded me i was still a good person and that i could still find happiness in things. then i wrote want me more, then battle cry and all the rest, and then i starting actually going places and talking to people. i did shows with fanrave, i reached out to old friends and a lot of them have started talking to me again. and i started skating which introduced me to some of my best friends today. i kinda realized that it’s not beneficial to shut the world out around you. there are people everywhere, nice people too. sometimes you have to break out of your own box in order to grow, and i’ve learned that over the past 6 months. hope you guys enjoy the EP. stay rad.

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Gay Rights.

I feel the need to point out that if you are happy and you love someone then its okay. God (if you believe in him) isnt going to stop you at the gates and tell you that you cant past to heaven because you are gay. It's idiotic because if that person was following their hearts and loving who they love then why deny them the right! Gays and Lesbians are people too! Its like Male and Female, Black and White. Its Straight and Not. They are happy! HAPPY! How would you feel if you couldn't love someone of the opposite sex because people who love he same sex say no. You would feel upset and hurt. Put yourself in their shoes before you say anything or do anything. How would you feel? Grow up and see what you are doing and saying. It's done so much damage already! Now it is Legal in all states and people are still angry about it.

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the level of happiness I have is through the roof!

GAY MARRIAGE IS LEGAL IN 50 STATES IN THE USA.

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Lone

The empty feeling of being alone. At times satisfying. Other times it feels like the world is against you.

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“Seems like these days I watched you fall on the floor Just trying to make you understand.”

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it sucks but when they talk to you its like your life is complete and you can live knowing they know who you are. Love sucks though because when you find out the person you love, doesnt love you back. It crushes you. guess thats why they call it a crush

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Superheroes

Regular people can't be superheroes. Saving people is impossible. When your in shit deep, there's no going back unless you get yourself out.