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I MISS MY MAN

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if my personality is completely different than me here in my dr is that still me ?

I’m back answering questions! I thankfully feel a bit better.

I mean, yeah..But your personality is what makes you, you. So why change it?

(my dumbass misspelled something on this post and realized hours later.)

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Hello! I saw your post and was wondering if I could do a tarot reading for you? [Not to sound like a scammer lmao I do them for free as practice] I'm not sure if it goes against your religion or not but if you're interested lmk if not feel free to ignore!!! [I love your page and seeing the effort in your advice/posts] Have a great day-evening-night!!! <3

Of course!! I just messaged you about it 🤍

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Coming to terms with the fact that I need to take my own advice.

I don’t know if anyone else goes through this, but I feel like I give decent shifting advice. But I can never take that advice. I feel lost, spiritually and mentally. I’ve said countless times, “You need to know when to take a break when it comes to shifting.” Yet, I never do that. I never know. And if I do know, I don’t act out on it.

So, I’m finally coming to terms with the fact I need to lay shifting down in God's hands and let go for a while. I’ll still answer requests on here..Eventually. Because I don’t wanna answer people's questions when I, myself, am still lost. I hope you guys can understand. I know you guys weren’t DYING to hear my shifting advice but I just wanted to be honest on my blog like I said I was. God loves you all, so do I.

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Heyyh so I was trying to shift but suddenly I felt itching in my body js when I was almost losing touch w my body and j had to itch and squirm 😭😭

That’s completely normal. I understand feeling frustrated but that doesn’t mean you weren’t still shifting..You were. Maybe the itching and squirming was you in your dr..?????? 😭

Don’t let stuff like that take you out of that meditative mind state. To shift, you have to meditate, to meditate you can’t let things like that bother you. You have to ignore them.

Signs aren’t what make us shift, it’s us.

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Shifting tonight 😛

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLASE 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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Idk if someone’s already asked you this but have you shifted before? If so then where and how?

I’ve mini shifted a couple of times. I only have 1 desired reality which is my the outsiders dr.

How? Having motivation and actually believing I can do it. I ignored all the bad thoughts and didn’t rush myself. I let go and let it flow. (Do I sound like Shakespeare yet? No? I sound like a crack head??? Oh ok)

Easier said than done, I know. If you’re interested in knowing what happened, feel free to ask. :)

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this isn’t really a shifting question but I can’t choose my aesthetic for my dr and it’s stressing me out SO BAD !!

I mean i wouldn’t really say ‘aesthetic’ but idk how else to describe it. I mean my clothes, my personality, my looks, etc !!

I am also making my own script temp so I need photos to match my aesthetic, except I have like four different ones and I cannot choose… I’m in desperate need for help. ANYTHING. I’m on knees digitally.

Well, you’re personality should stay the same..Thats literally just you in a different reality. Same soul and everything. You’re not becoming a different person. So don’t try to change yourself. :)

For aesthetic pictures for your script and stuff just search up “Aesthetic pictures” Or search up the place your shifting to with aesthetic next to it.

Example ; “The outsider’s aesthetic”, “Euphoria aesthetic”

And for dividers just search up aesthetic dividers.

I don’t use a face claim, I just use my face because I think it’s more healthier to use your own face. It’s definitely helped me to feel more confident. I also just think it helps you connect with your dr more. But, if you want a face claim also just use Pinterest. “Face claim”

For clothes I recommend looking at Pinterest. I search up “clothes png” and then make a Pinterest board and pin the clothes I like in there. I actually have a Pinterest you can search up and look at the boards I already have that are full with clothes. I’ll be making more boards on there soon but for right now I only have clothes.

MY PINTEREST : https://pin.it/ED7PSjSPQ

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Hi! I was wondering if I could ask you something. I’ve been trying to shift for a while now and I understand the basics like intention, persisting, and affirming. But I keep seeing so many different opinions and it’s honestly left me kind of confused. Some people say you just decide to shift while others say it’s a gradual process. And then there are people who say you don’t even need to affirm or persist, that all you need is YOU. But what does that even mean? Like how do you actually shift if that’s the case? I’ve been trying things like going to sleep with subliminals and making my last thoughts about waking up in my DR but nothing’s happened yet. And part of me is starting to wonder if I’m subconsciously scared of my DR or resisting it somehow. Have you ever felt like that? What helped you finally shift? I’d really appreciate anything you’re willing to share. 🩷🩷

Girl, I always feel like that. Don’t worry, it’s perfectly normal. :)

I tell shifters all the time that shifting is THEM. Let me break down what I, and other shifters mean.

Shifting is what you make it. If you make shifting hard, you make it hard. If you make it easy, you make it easy. There are so many different shifting opinions because shifting is never the same for anyone. It’s like math. One person could find math easy and simple while the other finds math hard and stressful.

What I recommend is for you to take a break and figure out what shifting is for YOU. Not what it is for other people..For you.

And if you are scared, it’s perfectly normal. It’s a scary thought. I struggle with that too..But that’s why I think a break for you would be great so you could figure that all out.

Shifting is a form of meditation, meditation takes time and practice…You know why? Because you’re learning how to be able to get into that meditative state and to let go. That’s why people call it a shifting journey. You aren’t gonna shift on the first few tries. You have to be okay with failing to shift. Lower your expectations and take care of yourself. (NO SHADE I SWEAR)

Bible verse I think resonate with your situation :

Hebrews 11:1 : To have faith is to be sure of the things we hope for, to be certain of the things we cannot see.

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Romans 8:18 : The pain you’ve been feeling cannot compare to the joy that is to come.

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If I didn’t get what you meant, or you were hoping for a different answer please tell me so I can try to help out again :) BUT if I did help, also please tell me. Thank you.

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People on here and tiktok overcomplicate shifting. Shifting is so easy once you finally get it. Once you finally get into the right mindset and stop stressing out about it, that’s when you become a “master shifter”.

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Asking this so I know if I need to change the way I word things lol

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To shift, you have to be okay with failing sometimes. And, you have to also be okay with change.

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Accepting to take a break when it comes to shifting…Is hard. But, necessary.

Like I’ve stated many times, I’m a Christian shifter. So I must know when to take breaks to get closer to God and fix my life again.

Many people don’t talk about it but, shifting can be so mentally draining. When you feel yourself beginning to resent shifting, and when you feel yourself beginning to not care about this reality, and focusing on all the wrong things..That’s when it’s time to take a break.

Key word, break. Not leave it behind forever…Just because you feel mentally exhausted right now doesn’t mean you need to leave shifting behind forever. It just means you need to put it to the side and focus on THIS life for a bit.

Don’t use shifting as an escape. I don’t think that mindset is healthy. Remember to take care of yourself, no matter what reality you’re in. Sure, it’s easier said than done, but you can do it.

Remember to still love yourself. No matter the reality. To figure out shifting, try to be in a good mindset first.

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Verse of the day : Now I am glad I sent it, not because it hurt you, but because the pain caused you to repent and change your ways. It was the kind of sorrow God wants his people to have, so you were not harmed by us in any way.

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sharing a bible verse because I think I should (I know this isn’t shifting content, I’ll get back on my grind again soon💔💔💔)

Psalms 34:18

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I might get hated for this, but if you’re a shifter, DO NOT read fanfics about your s/o or use character AI bots of your s/o.

It isn’t healthy and I’m tired of seeing people normalize it. From now on, I’m going to use my blog to be completely honest because I think a lot of shifters need to hear it.

You’re trying to treat your dr like a real thing, because it is..So why are you reading fanfics and using character AI? You’re actively dehumanizing your s/o by doing that. Treat them like a real person because THEY ARE a real person.

If you had a crush on someone in this reality, would you go on character AI and make a bot for them instead of just going over to their place (ahem—metaphor for shifting) and asking them out? At least for me, no.

This might be hard, but just act like you’re already in your dr. Because you are. Stop dehumanizing the people in your dr. The people in your dr have feelings, thoughts, and emotions. Just like you. And, I’m sorry to say this and I don’t mean it in a mean way…But you guys aren’t the main characters. That’s not what shifting is. It’s not some TV show. It’s real life. Please create healthy habits instead of spending all your time talking to a character AI bot or reading fan fiction.

GO SHIFT AND GO EXPERIENCE IT FOR REAL??? If you put as much effort into shifting as you did making character ai bots for your s/o, you probably would’ve shifted by now. Just saying.

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I hope you guys know people literally shifted in 2021 even with a bunch of misinformation. So, what’s stopping you??

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Thank you for all the requests! I love giving shifters advice. If you truly do think my advice helps you, please keep requesting!

Or if you guys ever need anyone to talk to in general…Or even if you guys wanna talk about faith. You can always message me. God bless y’all :)