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[ijustneedadvice]

My boyfriend 23 M wants me forget 19f to my forget my past childhood assualt so I can live happy present. Is this a bad?

So there are alot of things I don't know where to start, for background we have been together for like 7 months now, and we were friends for a year before that, he has had alot of girlfriend in past like if I a girl cheated on him he would just jump on another, when we met he was single since last 2 months,We are in long distance and we have just met once for 3 days he visited me,

I got abused as a child by own father while I was Younger I have forgotten alot of my childhood but still I get flashbacks of it and I realise that what actually happened in that particular moment.

Few days back, I was looking at my old school pictures and realised that the extent of abuse I faced was bigger than I realised,

I was telling him that I am trying to regain memories of my childhood and he thinks that I am overthinking all of this and I should not try to remember it cause it will hurt me more

I realise he has good intension but I am not actively forcing myself to remember things it's just like a flashback it comes naturally to me. I try to explain it to him but it doesn't seem he understood and he thinks that I am being illogical trying to remember it. I

For more things that concern me,

We were in a gc where his girl best frnd and her boyfriend were there and we were reacting on a very brutal rape and murder case and he was also

saying how world is fucked up and I said "men" And his best frnd said how you cannot trust men cause you don't know what can happen, I agreed.

And he got so mad at me that I am generalizing men and all that but we have had this same convo in private and he always agreed with me on this topic, like always it surpised me that he didn't this time,

I understand I shouldn't have said men but I was talking about a specific type of men on that specific topic and he knows that cause we have had this kinda convo multiple times.

He said mad cause his best friend 19 and her boyfriend were there.

Also I have seen to noticed whenever his best friend is even slightly included in our fight he gets madder. He tells me how she cheated on her boyfriends and he can't trust her but as soon as fight ends he still will act like she's his best friend it confused me very much

Am I going crazy? Or this actually a concern?

[ijustneedadvice]

My boyfriend 23 M wants me forget 19f to my forget my past childhood assualt so I can live happy present. Is this a bad?

So there are alot of things I don't know where to start, for background we have been together for like 7 months now, and we were friends for a year before that, he has had alot of girlfriend in past like if I a girl cheated on him he would just jump on another, when we met he was single since last 2 months,We are in long distance and we have just met once for 3 days he visited me,

I got abused as a child by own father while I was Younger I have forgotten alot of my childhood but still I get flashbacks of it and I realise that what actually happened in that particular moment.

Few days back, I was looking at my old school pictures and realised that the extent of abuse I faced was bigger than I realised,

I was telling him that I am trying to regain memories of my childhood and he thinks that I am overthinking all of this and I should not try to remember it cause it will hurt me more

I realise he has good intension but I am not actively forcing myself to remember things it's just like a flashback it comes naturally to me. I try to explain it to him but it doesn't seem he understood and he thinks that I am being illogical trying to remember it. I

For more things that concern me,

We were in a gc where his girl best frnd and her boyfriend were there and we were reacting on a very brutal rape and murder case and he was also

saying how world is fucked up and I said "men" And his best frnd said how you cannot trust men cause you don't know what can happen, I agreed.

And he got so mad at me that I am generalizing men and all that but we have had this same convo in private and he always agreed with me on this topic, like always it surpised me that he didn't this time,

I understand I shouldn't have said men but I was talking about a specific type of men on that specific topic and he knows that cause we have had this kinda convo multiple times.

He said mad cause his best friend 19 and her boyfriend were there.

Also I have seen to noticed whenever his best friend is even slightly included in our fight he gets madder. He tells me how she cheated on her boyfriends and he can't trust her but as soon as fight ends he still will act like she's his best friend it confused me very much

Am I going crazy? Or this actually a concern?

[ijustneedadvice]

My boyfriend 23 M wants me forget 19f to my forget my past childhood assualt so I can live happy present. Is this a bad?

So there are alot of things I don't know where to start, for background we have been together for like 7 months now, and we were friends for a year before that, he has had alot of girlfriend in past like if I a girl cheated on him he would just jump on another, when we met he was single since last 2 months,We are in long distance and we have just met once for 3 days he visited me,

I got abused as a child by own father while I was Younger I have forgotten alot of my childhood but still I get flashbacks of it and I realise that what actually happened in that particular moment.

Few days back, I was looking at my old school pictures and realised that the extent of abuse I faced was bigger than I realised,

I was telling him that I am trying to regain memories of my childhood and he thinks that I am overthinking all of this and I should not try to remember it cause it will hurt me more

I realise he has good intension but I am not actively forcing myself to remember things it's just like a flashback it comes naturally to me. I try to explain it to him but it doesn't seem he understood and he thinks that I am being illogical trying to remember it. I

For more things that concern me,

We were in a gc where his girl best frnd and her boyfriend were there and we were reacting on a very brutal rape and murder case and he was also

saying how world is fucked up and I said "men" And his best frnd said how you cannot trust men cause you don't know what can happen, I agreed.

And he got so mad at me that I am generalizing men and all that but we have had this same convo in private and he always agreed with me on this topic, like always it surpised me that he didn't this time,

I understand I shouldn't have said men but I was talking about a specific type of men on that specific topic and he knows that cause we have had this kinda convo multiple times.

He said mad cause his best friend 19 and her boyfriend were there.

Also I have seen to noticed whenever his best friend is even slightly included in our fight he gets madder. He tells me how she cheated on her boyfriends and he can't trust her but as soon as fight ends he still will act like she's his best friend it confused me very much

Am I going crazy? Or this actually a concern?