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Bela's mom immediately understanding what Bela was trying to say and embracing her comforted my queer Indian heart so much. This is why representation matters

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i hate when people say that kitty and yuri have no chemistry and that kittys crush was "forced and out of no where" CLEARLY THEY HAVE NEVER HAD A WLW CRUSH BEFORE 💔

when ive had a crush on a girl especially one of my friends (#notfortheweak) one day everythings fine and everythings normal then the next im like "oh shit..." and i cant be normal around them again because it legit happens like that 😭

anyway netflix pls give us kitty x yuri endgame

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I’m okay with Kitty and Minho being together, temporarily, bc I still think Kitty and Yuri will end up together in season three, but a lot of people who like them are so annoying and are now starting with the “why is Kitty attracted to women” and im gonna need those ppl stop stfu. Not saying it’s a fandom thing, but there were people who said the same thing during season one, and it infuriated me. Let bi girls exist in peace!!!

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local woman who claimed she will "cross that bridge when she comes to it" arrives at said bridge

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That's not fair.

(If you want to see me vent I'm on tiktok, @cryingbard)

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Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

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for those of u who dont follow my main blog i finally got around to watching it…theyre part of my personality now

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big fan of anything that shuts my brain off for a little while

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i hate crying but that's the only coping mechanisms that doesn't hurt anybody I guess

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im grilling absolute cheese

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2 creams + 5 sugars 🎧

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If no one can wrap their mind around it then why is it happening

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Not to jump on the discourse train but I've seen the "pathologizing vs humanizing your behavior" post, and takes about that post, a few too many times and now I have thoughts.

I'm aware that this is the hating nuance website, but please try to remember that nuance is a thing that exists. We don't only have the two options of "telling people you have symptom/disorder to avoid responsibility for your actions" or "never acknowledging your symptoms and pretending you function exactly the same as someone without your symptoms/disorder."

Saying "I have this symptom/disorder" isn't the same as believing your symptom or disorder is a free pass to act however you want. It means giving the people in your life a better understanding of the context for the way you act, and the way certain things are more difficult for you than they are for most people. It means you can work on managing your symptoms, but that's not an easy or linear process, so you're letting the people in your life know that you're trying and telling them how they can help support you.

The examples given in the original post are "Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive," versus "Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me."

And those things aren't at all mutually exclusive! It is, in fact, possible to say ""Hey, sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me feel very attacked and overwhelmed sometimes, but I know you didn't mean to offend me with what you said and it was unfair for me to blow up at you."

You can humanize yourself and still acknowledge that you have a disorder, because disorders are part of the human reality.

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If tumblr did memories like Snapchat, it would be fucking chaotic. Imagine opening this app and getting a message saying "last year this time, you lost your marbles over someone breathing too loud and considered murder" or "two years this time, you saw a puppy and stopped forming coherent thoughts and keysmashed 679 posts" or we'll you get the point

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girl who goes to therapy for the first time and attempts to explain her mental state to her therapist by pulling up tumblr posts she tagged particularly for the occasion