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always love how when AO3 does not appear to he working, I go, “is it just me? let me go to tumblr” and go to the AO3 tag to find other ppl losing their mind as well.

the only thing that would be better would be if AO3 was like, actually working

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I had a friend this week very bluntly tell me that they didn't think we were compatible and.. honestly it felt so nice to know I did not have to keep putting in effort into a relationship where it was not going to be received like I don't have to waste my time on that relationship because it's not a good fit and I don't have to question myself or anything. But when it's unclear I actually seem to doubt myself more bc I dont know where I stand or what's going on in that person's head

Maybe this is just the autism talking but I wish we could have more honest and direct conversations with each other when our relationships have run their course- like say when a connection is no longer serving someone, I wish we could just be more upfront about it instead of like slowly ghosting each other or using subtext for people to infer what's going on. Because I think it would save a lot of time and energy and pain.

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Maybe this is just the autism talking but I wish we could have more honest and direct conversations with each other when our relationships have run their course- like say when a connection is no longer serving someone, I wish we could just be more upfront about it instead of like slowly ghosting each other or using subtext for people to infer what's going on. Because I think it would save a lot of time and energy and pain.

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Stray cat breaks into Lynx’s enclosure at zoo

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This thought is all of reality right now. You make up what exists right now. You get to create the peace that exists. This singular moment in time is an act of creation by you.

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An interesting demonstration of how the human brain works.

But also something of a lesson regarding perception, and the unreliability of subjective perspective versus objective reality.

You can be extremely certain about how you perceive the world, your "lived experience," that which you "feel it in my heart." But that doesn't mean it's actually true. And it doesn't mean we have to endorse it, or ignore or outright deny objective reality.

That's a "you" thing, not a "we" thing.

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by inaws61

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2024 LESSONS

jan: being alone does not have to mean being lonely

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