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I'm like a cat in that I'm traumatized by things most people wouldn't wouldn't guess would be traumatizing

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I like this a lot.

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my five year plan? read a lot of books. visit museums. walk through woods. stand in a river. adopt a little kitty. drink lemonade while sitting in a rocking chair on my porch.

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How? I have no idea how to do this.

I generally think it's just that I fit nowhere and no one likes me. Because I am nice but I am never myself. I don't show myself, bc I'm afraid to. All people see is the nice but shy quiet person with 0 personality. I mean who likes that. They maybe like them but you're forgettable. Not someone you choose choose hang around. I don't think they would like my real self either so...

You shouldn’t have to change who you are in order to make friends. It’s okay to try out different friend groups, who might be more compatible with you rather than trying to fit in with a group of people that just are very different. That said, if you find that you are consistently struggling to make friends, even with different types of people, it may be time to see whether your behaviours may be the issue. You can learn healthier coping skills, or better ways to interact with other people without changing who you are

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so weird when people are normal about things that i have complexes and deep emotional issues about

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eye-opening tumblr post for me included the words "people are meant to be burdens" as in humans rely on and support one another and it's not a bother it's our purpose; to love and be loved in return. so if you ever think you're being annoying just remember we were made to love and it's going to be okay

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to be a woman and feel so deeply and intensely about everything is a beautiful trait. don’t let the world take that from you. to be able to feel emotions throughout your body, to be able to openly cry when you’re happy, sad or mad, to be able to feel the emotion you feel completely so you don’t cause trauma. to feel is to heal. to feel is to survive. you are not broken, you are living.

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to be a woman and feel so deeply and intensely about everything is a beautiful trait. don’t let the world take that from you. to be able to feel emotions throughout your body, to be able to openly cry when you’re happy, sad or mad, to be able to feel the emotion you feel completely so you don’t cause trauma. to feel is to heal. to feel is to survive. you are not broken, you are living.

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uh oh! you misunderstood a social cue and said something mildly awkward. you will think about this and cringe everyday for the next 20 years