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make me choose → anonymous asked chair or dair

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DAIR in GOSSIP GIRL ⏤ 5.02, “Beauty and the Feast”

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Honestly, the 5 love languages are cool and all, but superior and an instant indicator for my all time faves is the 6th and imaginative form: Banter.

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A Blair/Dan Moodboard

I just want you to be happy. Tell me what would make you happy, Dan.

sources: (x)(x)(x)(x)(x)(x)(x)(x)(x)

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do y— do you guys think that maybe blair had The Glow (tm) during the dair relationship because...nobody had ever been that happy to just be with her before?

not to say that she hadn't been in love before, or the other people she'd been with didn't love her but there were always these external things that were causing strife for her partners, and even if she knew that it wasn't about her, she'd have had to internalize that, at least a little.

nate in s1 & 2 was dealing with some shit. like some difficult, hard to untangle, adult shit, and he carried a lot of discontent within him for that, and I think that's why blair and nate's dynamic at the onset of the show was her being very much like, "you're not happy, and I don't know why, but I really want to fix it" her methods, of course, the brunches, the scavenger hunts, the plans to have sex, are not what he needs, but they all tie back to her need to Fix It.

and chuck...he's never satisfied, I don't want to get into All of It, but the most telling moment is That Episode (3x17) when he says something to the effect of "you are not enough" i.e., he's lost his hotel, and he can never be happy without it. he always needs something Beyond, that blair can never seem to give him.

louis on the surface comes close, until he doesn’t. like the sweetest moments of him (when blair tells him about her pregnancy, when he says to serena "can you believe it? she's marrying me!") that's all undercut by the way he behaves in the rest of the relationship (again, not getting into the All of That rn), he is always setting her up as the one needing to prove herself in the relationship, and in 5a he turns so unhappy, and blair cannot find a way to untangle it.

But dan??? I just want to spend the day with you dan? I was hoping I could have a sleepover with you dan? It's you. It couldn't be awful dan? dan, who when blair asked him tell me what would make you happy kissed her? kissed her like she was the answer? because what would make him happy was her?

I don't think she ever had that before, that simplicity of accomplishment of just knowing that she made someone happy by being with them, by wanting them, by choosing them. and the way she talks in 5x09, she probably was walking around feeling...cursed, like she was doomed to always let the people she loved down, and I have to think that in That Moment at the end of 5x17, when she shows up at the loft and dan blinks himself back to life at the realization that she wants him, I have to think maybe that gave her a little bit of faith back.

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“your rent should be a third of your income” well wouldn’t that be nice. wouldn’t it. lower the rent pussy

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The problem with “senseless violence” narrative around the UnitedHealthcare CEO is that it ignores the inherent violence of the insurance industry. Denying someone lifesaving care is violence. Subjecting someone to drawn out periods of pain before treatment is violent. The industry is made up of millions of acts of violence everyday, with the CEO at the helm guiding it all. This is not unprovoked and it’s not an overreaction; it is just harder to ignore

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via weheartit

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On edge today bc i watched a TikTok about unlikeable astrological placements and I have at least two! Lilith in the first house and Aquarius dominant WHICH apparently come off like “RBF know-it-all bitchy conflict hobag” but for me feel like “here I have helpful information for you and aside from that I will recede into the cave of my own mind where I can busy myself with thoughts and brainrot memes and book lists.” Not to discount anyone’s experience of my behavior of course. I can be pushy, but I try to always back up my shit. Big time mom vibes. I just…why! All i want is to be loved gdi. (Pisces Venus-Aries Moon conjuction, 4/5h; I bruise like a ripe peach on the inside. 🫠 )

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