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*bleeding to death because the paramedics can’t break the windows to get me out of my stupid fucking truck* heha well at least i dont have to worry about the friggin Zombie Apocalypse… awesomesauce 😎

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Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

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noncon friendship

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being self aware suuuucks like yeah this thought pattern/behavior is stupid and pointless and a symptom. i know this. [does it anyways

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Been a while since I showed Tumblr this being from the goodwill bins

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Hello, I am Hanan from Gaza. I am married and have three children. We escaped certain death four times, thank God. My house was destroyed and I and my children were left homeless. I ask for help, but it's not easy. Your donation will meet my needs. I need to buy a tent that costs $1,300 due to its high cost before winter and the extreme cold come so that we can cover the travel costs for me and my children and travel outside Gaza and live safely 🙏💔🇵 🇸🍉 Greetings via the link (please see my CV) My account has been verified by @90- ghost

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Bra shopping

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this is my daughter now

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Frog and cranberries it must be fall.

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Joe Biden put down his fork and knife and patted his belly. "That was bidenlicious!" He had just finished a big plate of COVID-19. "I wonder what's in the news" he wondered and picked up a days-old newspaper. Joe Biden gasped. This is going to change everything about the election! Donald Trump has just invented a special glue that lets him walk up and down anything

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FREE PALESTINE Fundraiser List

(Update 7/7: Asks and new messages temporarily closed. However, the Tumblr users on this list are free to message me at any time.)

For campaigns with under 1000 donations, go here.

For more extensive campaign lists:

Operation Olive Branch

Gaza Funds

Vetted Gaza Evacuation Fundraiser list

Here's a list of fundraisers from Palestinians who have reached out to me. I'm not Palestinian, but to the best of my knowledge, all campaigns listed have been verified by Palestinians on Tumblr. This list updates daily, so be sure to check back. If you follow me, follow these folks too.

If you can't donate, reblog.

LAST UPDATED 9/15

Less than a fifth funded:

#91 The Al Tibi family @mahmoudeltibi1 Nearly 12K!

#140 The Sharif family @amnehsharif10

(Reblogged) The Atalla family @mohammed-atallah @atalah-mohammed Nearly 16,700!

(Reblogged) The Hor family @salahaldinhor

(Reblogged) Amal's family @amlanqar Nearly 9200!

A fifth funded:

(Reblogged) Walaa's family @ahmed79ss Nearly 12,500!

A quarter funded:

(Reblogged) The Shamaly family @familydeea STAGNANT FOR A WEEK Nearly 24,700!

#125 The Alostaz family @ahmed-ostaz @rehamjawad33 @momenalstaz

#196 The Aburass family @sameraburass @samerpal Nearly 138,600!

A third funded:

#112 The Shorbaje family @tahanishorbaje2 @tahanibaby Nearly 19,400!

(Second on this list) The Ismaeel family @m0hammed1 @m0hammed2 Nearly 10K!

#231 The Abushammaleh family @bshaeromars-blog Nearly 18,200!

(Reblogged) Ahmed's family @ahmed-ziad Nearly 10,600!

(Reblogged) Zaen and Yehya @mohammedshehab111 @hyamshehabnew Nearly half funded!

Half funded:

(Reblogged) The Sami family @eyadeyadsblog Nearly 11K!

(Reblogged) The Shehab family @fahedshehab-new @danashehab @yehyashehab Nearly 54,100!

#151 The Khalaf family @mahmoudkhalafff Nearly 30,500!

Two thirds funded:

#152 The Shaqoura family @lailashaqoura Nearly 30,300!

Three quarters funded:

(Reblogged) Amira's family @ameera-anq Nearly 29,800!

#212 The Aldeeb family @mohammedaldeeb Nearly 41,600!

Nearly complete:

#179 Issam Aziz's mother @haifaaziz98 2034 TO GO!

#182 The Saftawi family @nadasaftawi 1856 TO GO!

#218 The Alnabih family @ahmedalnabeeh11 @ahmed-nabeeh32 3451 TO GO!

(Reblogged) Ashraf's family @ashraf-baker 1981 TO GO!

(Reblogged) Aya's family @ayaalanqarsblog @ayalanqar 2434 TO GO!

#174 The Alanqar family @mohammedalanqer 9915 TO GO!

Complete:

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Will Earth win? We'll see.

And while you're here, please share and donate of you can to help a family with 2 young children trying to survive a genocide that has already left the children without a father.

Flyers + art raffle + personal items raffle

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get revenge on those who wronged you by continuing to like the things you used to enjoy together, then re-contextualize and re-interpret them to suit your own personal enjoyment without worrying about what they might think. it’s yours now. reclaim your joy