isasimone

[isasimone]

i am not my mother and i am not my father but a third worse thing

[isasimone]

Ryan Coogler on Love Jones

[isasimone]

I get to be more free as an adult than I ever did as a child and I think more kids need to know that. as a high schooler part of what made my depression so bad was being told over and over again that it was the most carefree time of my life. while I was trapped in an abusive home + amongst bullies at school + in a body that wasn’t right for me. opportunities to be carefree don’t end when you turn 18. you can be more you than ever as an adult and that’s such a gift. I know ‘it can get better’ is an annoying thing to see over and over when you’re as trapped as I was back then. and I know that if you’re still a kid you deserve to be free right this second. but it can and will get better and this is not where life stops being interesting. promise

[isasimone]

Don’t tell them until it’s already done, secured, completed, accomplished.

[isasimone]

[isasimone]

Wow

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[isasimone]

Make sure you don't accidentally punish people for communicating their needs and boundaries. When someone cares enough to have the uncomfortable conversation, that's a compliment and a clear sign that they are invested in the relationship. Yes of course it's uncomfortable to hear that something you've been doing has been upsetting someone you care about when that was never your intention, but people generally only bother to have these conversations with the people they want to keep around - the people they trust to care. If they just didn't like you, they'd probably just try to avoid you. So make sure you don't make it into a more punishing experience than it has to be. Try to see the care and the trust behind the criticism, even when it triggers uncomfortable emotions. It's a good sign that they're there telling you.

[isasimone]

always remember the Final Girl Code:

- do it alone

- do it scared

- do it with a knife in your hand if you have to

[isasimone]

Beliefs✨🫧🦋🏹🌌

How to answer the big questions

🫧What we believe & how we believe usually represents 9th & 12th house. Also neptune&jupiter show a way of believing and our imagination. Jupiter always puts us under questions that are bigger than ourselves. 12th house represents higher service,universal & collective,spirituality. Represents global spiritual outlooks. 9th house here u will find moral philiosophy you espouse. 🫧

🪐9th house saturn-here you will find it harder to find your faith or start believing in something. Because your beliefs will always be directed towards the difficult part of life. You can also be a pessimist.Your questions will often cover seriousness, maturity, lessons. You will get the answer to the questions with maturity and determination. You will take faith more seriously and responsibly.

🌜9th house moon-your belief will involve emotions. Emotional attachment to religion and includes your family. This can mean that they can be a reason for you to believe in something or that they have some family tradition. You will get the answer to the question within yourself. The moon here also represents an emotional attachment to a certain place.

🧚🏽‍♂️9th house pisces -you believe in supernatural power, illusion, spirituality or something related to it. Many times you can wonder if this is the world I live in or if it's all just an illusion. You can see the world through dreamy eyes. You long for escape into the blue yonder without knowing where you are going.

🎨9th house sagittarius-optimistic outlook on life, you don't like to be defined by one religion, you prefer independence and are dedicated to yourself. Many times, however, your view can be quite psychological and rigid. A view can include two pages. Your questions are many times bigger than you. The world might seem an open place to you.

🌊12th house mars-you find spiritual connection through energy (people, places, things...) Here you can predict the actions of others without being told what they will do. You have a good intuition for the energy of the people around you. At the same time, you can find yourself through unknown, deep, subconscious things. Psychological books, deep films will help you a lot. Here you will delve a lot into things that are hidden. Here, intimacy and sex can represent something that can be deep, emotional for you.

🍓12th house venus-here is a big connection with love and what love means to you. Love is hard to find because sometimes you don't understand it best yourself or you don't know where to look for it. Pisces are often prone to illusions about a person who does not exist, they are looking for a soul in the wrong person. Here it is very important to believe in yourself and your worth. Many times you may wonder if your soul mate will come at all or if it doesn't really exist. Here you can have an in-depth look at love.

❣️12th house libra-here you can be divided between what you want and what you are. You want to remain neutral but at the same time belong to someone. You can look for spirituality in romance, relationships, beauty things. Many times relationships with others bring u peace. But you can look too much at others and not enough at yourself. Deepening into relationships and justice is greater here.

🤍12th house aries-you like to follow passion, energy. Spirituality manifests itself in different ways. You like to focus on one thing and you take it to the end. You don't necessarily believe in spirituality, maybe you believe more in energy. Your image is hidden deep within you. The focus on yourself and your needs is quite different and mystical here.

-Rebekah🎧🎸💗

[isasimone]

Moon in the houses....🌙

🌙 I find comfort and safety in...

Moon in the 1st house: anything I identify with and a feeling of true accomplishment. 

Moon in the 2nd house: the everyday family life and how I can use my material possessions to emotionally and spiritually progress myself further in life. 

Moon in the 3rd house: getting out of the house and travelling short distances. Talking to trusted loved ones is also a buffer against any life stresses. 

Moon in the 4th house: learning about my heritage and the subconscious mind. 

Moon in the 5th house: creating something fun and short-lived but passionate flings.

Moon in the 6th house: self-improvement and finding a purpose for things. 

Moon in the 7th house: learning about my behaviour towards other people and being in a committed relationship. 

Moon in the 8th house: anything psychological that allows me to use my natural detective skills. 

Moon in the 9th house: learning and understanding abstract concepts and gaining qualifications. 

Moon in the 10th house: when I finally allow myself to feel the recognition from my work and conscientiousness.

Moon in the 11th house: being with friends and perfectly-timed synchronicities.  

Moon in the 12th house: the peace my soul has from retreating and the intangible beauty found in all forms of art. 

- don't plagarize or use without crediting yours truly thanks lol ;)

- imagineastrology 🌙🌸

[isasimone]

Mom & Dad: Your 4th and 9th House 🧔👩👧🏡

How can we see how your parents are represented in your birth chart?

As we know the 4th house represents Mother.

The 9th house represents the father. Some sources consider the 10th house as the house representing the father, however from the Vedic Astrology POV, the 9th house is one’s biological father & the 10th house can represent one’s “figurative” father.

4th house:

Your mother’s qualities & traits

Relationship with the mother

9th house:

Your father’s qualities & traits

Relationship with father

What you inherit from your father

How To Read The Post?

Read from Ascendant or Moon sign (Whole Signs) *I’m making this post from the POV of Vedic Sidereal Astrology*

*Disclaimer: This can apply to your primary caregivers growing up, not just “biological” parents. I know this can be sensitive topic, so take it as it resonates ❤️ This is “generally speaking” but ofc other parts of your chart can alter these interpretations*

WHOLE SIGNS CHEATSHEET:

(Can Apply To Ascendant Or Moon Sign)

Aries: Cancer 4H & Sagittarius 9H

Taurus: Leo 4H & Capricorn 9H

Gemini: Virgo 4H & Aquarius 9H

Leo: Scorpio 4H & Aries 9H

Virgo: Sagittarius 4H & Taurus 9H

Libra: Capricorn 4H & Gemini 9H

Capricorn: Aries 4H & Virgo 9H

Aquarius: Taurus 4H & Libra 9H

Pisces: Gemini 4H & Scorpio 9H

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Aries 4H:

Mom who is ambitious, independent, strong-willed, dominant or blunt

Having a mom who was concerned with her own pursuits, life, or hobbies

Often with this placement one learns how to be independent quite young due to mother’s behavior

Mom could’ve been an entrepreneur or self employed

Likely that mom was into fitness, health, or some sort of athletic pursuit

I’ve often see those with this placement have very attractive or “young” looking moms

Through relationship with mother, one experiences competitiveness, individuality and autonomy

Aries 9H:

A father who is assertive, bold or aggressive

Having a disciplinarian as a father

A father who was involved in military, police profession, sports, health or anything physical

A father who is self made or individualistic

A dad who is masculine and has strong extroverted energy

I’ve seen it manifest as a father who is “selfish” or overall self oriented

From the father, one inherits a sense of bravery, courage, and independence

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Taurus 4H:

Having a mother who is wealthy, self reliant, stable, traditional, or rigid

Likely that one’s mom/mom’s side of the family has stable material wealth, or assets

I’ve seen sometimes with this placement one comes from a wealthy family or even old money

Can have a mom who is artistic, creative or involved in artistic endeavors

Mother can be traditional or “old fashioned”

Through the relationship with mother, one experiences material indulgence & how to be self reliant

Taurus 9H:

Having a dad who is stable, rigid, patient, reliable, grounded, indulgent or artistic

One could have a father who is very materially oriented, or concerned with assets or making money

Sometimes manifests as having a wealthy father

Father is someone who is considered attractive by others. Aka a “dilf” (Respectfully)

From your dad you inherit a sense of aesthetics, artistic talents, material indulgence, or ability to create wealth

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Gemini 4H:

Mom who is restless, changeable, resourceful, intelligent, or humorous

Can point to mother having a lifestyle where she traveled a lot or created an unstable environment

Mother could be crafty or have many different skills or hobbies

Through relationship with mother, one experiences a student-teacher dynamic, where you learn directly from mother

Gemini 9H:

Dad who is intelligent, playful, witty, changeable, or sarcastic

Dad could’ve been one to have many skills or hobbies

Sometimes points to a father who traveled a lot or was unstable interns of lifestyle  

From your father you inherit certain skills he might teach you. Even intellectual ability or “street smarts”

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Cancer 4H:

Having a mother who is caring, nurturing, or emotional 

Your mom may have been a housewife/stay at home mom

A mom who is a “homemaker” or is home and family oriented

Through relationship with mother one experiences emotional support and affection  

Cancer 9H:

Dad who is caring, nurturing, protective, supportive, emotional or moody

Sometimes manifests as a father would can seem “motherly” or even be literally more motherly than the mom in the parenting dynamic

Father can be patriotic, traditional, or loyal to his homeland/family

From the father, one inherits a sense of emotional intelligence or awareness.

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Leo 4H:

Could have a mother who is independent, enthusiastic, glamorous or flamboyant

Can indicate having a mother who is famous, popular, well known or influential

Mother/mother’s side of the family can be influential or be from high society

Mom who participates in own hobbies and is independent (can have a career based on hobbies)

Can often indicate a entrepreneurial mother

Through relationship with mother, one gains a sense of identity & confidence

Leo 9H:

Dad who Is independent, charismatic, dominant, creative, or ambitious

I’ve also seen it sometimes manifest as one having a father who is “childish” or immature

Quite possible that one’s father is famous, well known, popular or influential. (I’ve seen this sometimes as having a famous/well known grandfather too)

Father could be of high status or be from a high status family

From your father you inherit certain creative gifts, talents or hobbies

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Virgo 4H:

Having a mom who is orderly, critical, picky, service oriented or dedicated

Can have a mom who is passionate about health or wellness (encourages a healthy way of eating)

I’ve seen a lot of people with this placement be raised vegan/vegetarian/gluten-free etc (dietary restrictions)

Mother can have high expectations or be very critical

Through relationship with mother, one experiences how to be discerning and manage one’s health

Virgo 9H:

Dad who is practical, analytical, logical, critical, hardworking or helpful  

A father who is “of service” or is helpful in practical ways as opposed to affectionate/emotional ways

I’ve often seen this manifest as a father who is in the health profession: doctor, dentist, therapist etc

From your father you inherit a sense of work ethic or health-consciousness

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Libra 4H:

A mother who is artistic, diplomatic and balance oriented

Mother could be involved in aesthetic endeavors or do that as a profession

You can have a very beautiful mother or mom others consider a “milf” (respectfully)

Having a mom is harmonious, easy going or charming

Through the relationship with mother, you experience a sense of balance and taste for culture, art or aesthetics

Libra 9H:

Having a father who is fair-minded and diplomatic

Father could be involved in politics, architecture, law, design or art

I’ve seen this sometimes manifest as one having a wealthy father (Venus influence)

Father who is a “peacemaker” or mediator

From the father, one inherits a sense of fair-mindedness, and ability to be discerning and logical

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Scorpio 4H:

A mother who is mysterious or secretive.

Mom is involved or interested in the occult.

Having a mother who is turbulent/unstable mentally, emotionally or literally

Mom could’ve been controlling, possessive or smothering.

A karmic bond is seen here with one’s mother.

Through relationship with mother one experiences profound psychological and spiritual transformation

**TW: won’t apply to everyone** but I’ve noticed it’s common here for one to experience a mother who is “toxic” (ie: psychologically abusive or narcissistic)

Scorpio 9H:

Dad who is domineering, possessive, controlling, intense or cunning  

Father could’ve been involved in spiritual practices or the occult

In some cases this placement show a father who is involved in the underworld or crime, or in some type of corrupt activity

Sometimes manifests as a turbulent or troubled relationship with father (or one that’s non existent)

Through the father one inherits a sense of rebelliousness, and ability to adapt to transformation and change

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Sagittarius 4H:

Having a mom who is free spirited, open minded, adventurous, philosophical, or intelligent

A mom who is a teacher, a guide or advisor to you or other people

A mother who is spiritual or religious

A mom who is an immigrant or from a different culture/country

During childhood, mother may have traveled a lot or been away from home due to international circumstances

Through relationship with mother, you gain wisdom, knowledge, and life lessons 

Sagittarius 9H:

Having a father who is optimistic, open minded, generous and supportive

Can have a father who is wealthy or generous with resources

Having a dad that is literally a teacher, or one that teaches you lessons and brings you wisdom

A dad from a different culture than your mom. (immigrant/foreign/international)

From your father you inherit a sense of open-mindedness and bravery

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Capricorn 4H:

Mom who is reliable, traditional, old fashioned, practical  and hardworking

Mother can be more direct/straightforward instead of “nurturing”

Mother could prefer a traditional parenting style

Mother could be strict, unyielding, judgmental or a be “disciplinarian”

Through the relationship with mother, one can become aware of what it means to have discipline, work hard and have responsibilities

Capricorn 9H:

Having a strict father, one with high expectations

A father who is realistic, logical or shrewd

A dad who is an authority figure in society (boss, entrepreneur, politician etc)

Father can be serious, stern (non emotional)

One could literally have a older father, that is older than most dads

Can manifest as distance with father or receiving coldness from father

From your dad you inherit a sense of discipline and persistence

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Aquarius 4H:

Mom who is eccentric, unconventional, aloof, rebellious, or unique

Sometimes manifests as a mother who is literally or emotionally distant

I’ve often seen it manifest as experiencing some sort distance or even “rejection” on mother’s behalf

Mother’s parenting style not considered traditional or “normal”

Through relationship with mother you experience individualism, friendship  and humanitarianism

Aquarius 9H:

Having a father who is unpredictable, eccentric, quirky, unique or unconventional

A father who is invested in humanitarian causes

Father can be distant, aloof or independent

From your father you inherit a sense of individuality or rebelliousness

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Pisces 4H:

Mom who is spiritual, free spirited, artistic, wise, generous, or kind  

Sometimes manifests as a mother who was aloof, absent or unreliable

Mom could’ve been religious or spiritual

Karmic or past life bond with mother

Mom would have sacrificed a lot during raising kids or even during pregnancy

Through a relationship with mother one experiences unconditional love, humility, or loss/sacrifice

Pisces 9H:

Can have a father who is freedom-loving, open minded, or “bohemian”

Sometimes manifests as a father who was absent or non committal

Father teaches one spiritual lessons

Father could be a musician or involved in religion

Father could be selfless or sacrifice for you or family

From your dad you inherit a sense of humility, spirituality or unconditional love

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🐣 Case Study: North West 🐣

North has her 4th house in Leo with her 9th house in Capricorn. She’s a Taurus Ascendant as per her Sidereal chart.

North’s 4th House In Leo ♌️

Her mom (Kim Kardashian) is famous. Leo represents fame/celebrity

Her mom is independent and involved in her own passions & hobbies. She’s an entrepreneur which is represented by the Solar energy in her 4H

Her mom is glamorous/creative (Leo archetype)

Her mom comes from high society and was born to an influential family. Sun = high status.

North’s 9th House In Capricorn ♑️

Her dad (Kanye West) is considered an authority figure in society, represented by the Capricorn archetype 

Her dad was relatively “older” when she was born (age 37)

Kanye has said he wants to restrict with North’s social media usage (in response to her having a TikTok account made by her mom). Restriction= Saturn energy

Kanye has voiced that Kim dresses North “too grown”. Again going with the theme of restriction/disapproval 

Her dad has been known to be someone with high standards, also considered “shrewd”, serious and grumpy (Capricorn archetype)

🐣 Case Study: Stormi Webster 🐣

Stormi has Cancer Ascendant with her 4th house in Libra with her 9th house in Pisces. (Sidereal Chart)

Stormi’s 4th House In Libra ♎️

Her mom: (Kylie Jenner) is a Sidereal Libra. Her Moon is in Swati.

Her mom is known to be beautiful, and has a knack for aesthetics.

Her mom owns a cosmetics company which Stormi visits the headquarters/offices of as a child.

She receives lavish gifts/lifestyle from her Mom due to the Venus influence of her 4th house.

Stormi’s 9th House In Pisces ���️

Her father (Travis Scott) is known to be free spirited, rebellious and mysterious (Key themes of Pisces)

Her dad is a musician. Music can be represented by Pisces/Jupiter influence.

Her dad is relatively controversial (we know why)

Her dad is somewhat of an elusive or mysterious public figure.

Not much can be said about his parenting style (there’s not a lot of public info on it so I’ll keep it superficial here. Ironically enough Pisces can represent the unknown)

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-starsandsuch ✌️💕

[isasimone]

Women are literally co-creators with God. We decide who’s bloodlines continue on into the future. We need to stop acting like anything less.

[isasimone]

why are you celebrating someone's death?

[isasimone]

aaliyah by juan algarin for fader #54, 1999

[isasimone]

Over the past few months I have asked a male architect for ideas & drafts for the renovation of the farmhouse, and at every turn I am stunned by his utter disregard for any cleaning-related concerns. For example, he is very into the idea of having in the living-room a big, non-openable window near the ceiling—which, granted, looks pretty, like having a piece of blue sky when you raise your eyes, but immediately I’m like, with a high ceiling, how will I clean this? You can’t open it so you have to clean both sides separately, and you can’t easily reach either side. I’ll need a tool with an absurdly long telescopic handle. He says, a stepladder. I’m like, but I’ll need to carry it by myself to the living-room and the front of the house every time. “So?” So a very tall stepladder is heavy? And it will be hard not to get dirty water dripping down the wall. He reacts like he can’t believe he is being asked to bring the concept of dirty soap water into his grand designs, like these are base, trifling considerations, when to me it’s a crucial factor in the decision to add this decorative window.

Similarly we both agree on leaving most of the wood beams exposed because they’re old and beautiful, but when I ask if we ought to insulate in such a way as to cover every other one, so the remaining ones are farther apart and it’s harder for spiders to use them as ready-made anchors for their webs, he just looks disgusted, like “I am talking about Architecture and you bring up spiderwebs.” At this point I start to entertain the idea that men make horrible architects. You design someone’s house to give them a nice, convenient space to live in, not to make their life more difficult. A man who has never used a sponge in his life should not be allowed to graduate from architect school and that’s the end of it.