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Here is the secret to fandom:

Give zero fucks about what anyone else is doing.

Seriously.  I mean it.  Because inevitably you will love something that no one else loves.  Or you will love something that everyone loves and people will shit all over it because it’s “so trite and unimaginative and done.” Or you will love something that no one else has ever heard of.  Or you will love something dark and edgy and or obscure and people will roll their eyes and say, “What, do you want people to think you’re dark and edgy and obscure?”

Alternatively, you will not love the thing that everyone else loves, and you will wonder what precisely is wrong with you that the sight of that thing is aggravating the shit out of you now when the whole world sings its praises as one.

People will irritate you.  They’ll irritate you with headcanons that make no sense and misinterpretations of canon.  They will make the same jokes 500 times.  They will overwhelm your corner of fandom with something you either are tired of hearing about or don’t care about.  They will post art that isn’t theirs.  You will meet people who think you are the greatest person ever and bombard you with messages  only to wander off when they find someone new or shinier; you will meet people whom you admire and who do not really seem to notice you exist. 

So give zero fucks about it.  Seriously.  Like what you like, blacklist what you need to blacklist, and ignore everything else.  Be friends, play nice, enjoy it.  And in the meantime, just do you.  Like what you like, love what you love, and to hell with all the rest of it. 

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alice oseman, radio silence

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I'm curious

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The subservient part of you isn't a girl. That's to say that women are weak, and we know that's not true. The subservient part of you is a dog.

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we all got that one mutual that we’re lowkey studying

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Emily Dickinson, from a letter to C.H. Clark, dated 1 May 1883

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editing is such bullshit. what do you mean i have to read my own writing?? unfair absurd torture even

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You guys really liked my last poll so

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Snigdha Koirala, from "longing so flawed"

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You guys really liked my last poll so

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“If it is destroying you then it is not love my dear.”

— Unknown

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New type of narrator. Not unreliable narrator but narrator whose need for therapy is definitely influencing this story.

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i dont know how to explain it but joining extremely small fandoms with only a few people in them feels like this

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i do enjoy in survival-esque escape-type movies when someone gets hurt and someone else is like “i can help, don’t worry i’m a doctor.” like. they’re probably not lying, but they totally could be

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“why’s he always covered in blood” he needs enrichment. What’s not clicking

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TIMOTHY OLYPHANT as Raylan Givens in Justified 1.03