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I just remembered I forgot to water the seedlings in the greenhouse so I went back outside, and I was too lazy to look for the small watering can for seedlings at this hour so I just knelt down near the fish tank and took some water in my cupped hands and started tossing it towards the seedling tray on the table behind me

—only the fish are starting to be very friendly by now, as soon as they see me they come wriggling happily to say hi and check if I have a little insect or some other snack to give them, and suddenly I found myself accidentally catching a friendly little fish in my cupped hands and throwing it in the air behind me. I literally realised what I was doing as I was doing it

I have bad reflexes usually but this time I jumped up and flailed around desperately and managed to catch the little guy mid-flight!!!!

The fish was very confused but unharmed 😭

(sorry for the poor stick drawings, I felt I could not adequately convey our mutual jolt of surprise and terror with words)

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Date Night

Inspiration from Maybe Someday by ineffable_snowman

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They just flagging everything now

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i think when i go off on my 'i dont like the idea of soulmates' rant i never land with the people im seeking when i say i dont like soulmates its not 'there is no wonder or joy in our existence this is all purely chance' its 'no human being was made to complete or fix another but by the marvel of sheer existence we are given the ability to choose each other, to be here and exist at the same time, we are not born lacking another but is it not - in some way - a miracle that we should be able to find each other and choose to become something new together? are the odds of our joint existence - is the chance itself - not at least a bit magical?'

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i hate seeing people now making fun of those who care about privacy online. i've seen people saying things like "well they already have your data. what are companies going to do with it" and it's like, that's not the point. it's that companies /shouldn't/ be able to have my data and sell it. am i aware they probably already have my data? yes, absolutely. but i'm still going to try and keep them from monetizing it any further, why are we defending companies selling data they shouldn't have to begin with though?

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i really need non psychotics to stop using the term delusional to mean "slightly exaggerated claim." youre not delusional because youre saying you're the hottest person alive. youre not delusional for hoping some guy you like is into you too. thats not what a delusion is. i believed i was a prophet for a whole fucking year, THAT is a delusion

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URGENT: WE DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME

My friend @chronicarus, aka Devi, is in desperate need of our help! For unfair reasons explained on gofundme, Devi's insurance is no longer covering the expenses of his top surgery, and his surgery date is fast approaching!

A different insurance plan has come up as an option, but this will still cost Devi $5,500 out of pocket!

Devi only has until Oct 13th to purchase this insurance plan in order to keep his surgery date on Nov 17th. PLEASE help him by either donating or reblogging this post! He might not get another chance for quite some time, and he's already suffered so much! 💔

$335 / $5,500

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in the monster high universe they call monster hrt terrorsterone and eekstrogen btw

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in the monster high universe they call monster hrt terrorsterone and eekstrogen btw

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in the monster high universe they call monster hrt terrorsterone and eekstrogen btw

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in the monster high universe they call monster hrt terrorsterone and eekstrogen btw

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in the monster high universe they call monster hrt terrorsterone and eekstrogen btw

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in the monster high universe they call monster hrt terrorsterone and eekstrogen btw

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if you’re like. 14 and trans on tumblr rn and getting ur first anon hate from terfs. word of advice. stop responding to that shit. theyre only gonna send more, it’s only gonna make you spiral even if you put on a strong face. report + block messages as soon as they come in, don’t let them sit in your inbox it’s gonna make you feel like shit. turn off anon for a few days, block anyone suspicious in your notes liberally for a little while. repeat as needed. don’t give them the time of day. it sucks, but like. i dont know any trans person on the internet with any following who hasn’t gotten some disgusting messages. just. be safe yknow

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i want you all to know that there is an artist (carmen papalia) who, after he started using a white cane, assembled a 12 foot long white cane and began using it in downtown vancouver. the length of the cane made it functionally useless as a device and the only purpose it served was making him an obstacle for sighted people. dare i say… 2019 goals

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I think i just need to express that the culture surrounding QPRs right now made me think that i couldn't have strong bonds with my friends. Society told me i cant have strong bonds with friends because that was only for romantic relationships. Then i went into aro spaces and this idea was reinforced using QPRs instead of romantic relationships. it was "You can still have strong bonds with people without romance! It can just be a QPR instead!" "QPRs are MORE than friendship so you can have STRONGER BONDS than you would with friends."

it made me think that the relationships i wanted with my friends HAD to be something other than friendship for it to be as strong as i wanted. If i wanted to be the first person in someones life i had to enter some sort of committed relationship. if I wanted someone to care about me as strongly as i did them then it would have to be a relationship that was "more" than friendship.

I thought I wanted a QPR because i was told the only way to get that care and security that I wanted was to enter into a relationship that was "more" than friendship. because friends didn't care that much. because friends didn't live together their entire lives. because friends were never the priority relationship wise. and it took me years to realize that i didn't want any partnership and i shouldn't have to be in one to want these things from a friend. these things CAN be something friends can do. but i found that out on my own. because the aro community kept saying "you want a QPR" when i just wanted a friend who finally saw me as a priority in their life.

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