moved from j3tlagg & tac-naynn . Heaven/Jet/C | 20 | he/it/xey vei/voids | post a LOT of my thoughts at random im just high & mood swings+bpd+npd+autism dont mix well. vent tag : cawing nonsense . genderfuck fagdyke boygirl boything loser and I'm so funny. I also draw btw. striaght up im proship. thought crime is not real and images do not hurt ppl. fiction is not reality. literally same as saying video games cause violence and murder in fiction makes ppl want to kill ppl . yr stupid. pro-contact dni is all
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made another rubbermon .. way happier w this one. it cant speak itself it can only play clips of songs but even then rly basic sentences . much too busy listening to music to keep up a convo. too stoned to care . or think much . just enjoying life listening to music high as a nickit forever yayyy (rubbermon inspired by @squeakitties )
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if i was mean to you or deranged and it was like 2023 or earlier then it was absolutely the black mold that was 3 feet from my head and im very very sorry
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This is sooooo funny because A. They’re.. in public? B. He puts on the goggles to start punching the air and C. She says “Don’t hurt him!” as if he’s.. real..
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BLUE !!
#turning from woahhh to pure just like disgust i think#at the very least its very very very strange and my face reflected that
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Nice huge naked tits sorry but i dont give a fck about them thiugh
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with everything going on I think we've earned indoor smoking again
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thank god for american public transit !!! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
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Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
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