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If you are feeling good about yourself or situation and then your mood suddenly shifts leaving you feeling insecure, unsure, etc. try to remind yourself that nothing has truly changed but your perception. Your cute outfit did not suddenly become horrid. Your delicious meal did not tranform into a terrible one. Your peers perception of you has not radically transformed over a social misstep. Everything we experience is put through it through our mental filter, and that can convince us that everyone else sees us with the judgement we have for ourselves. Be kind to yourself.

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Shelley Duvall on the set of The Shining (1980)

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SHELLEY DUVALL as WENDY TORRANCE

THE SHINING (1980) dir. Stanley Kubrick

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I’m watching Splash (1984) which is a romcom about a guy who falls in love with a mermaid, and when she chooses a human name she chooses Madison and guy says “that’s not a real name, but alright” which seems to imply that Madison was not a name until at least the 80’s and all girls named Madison are actually named after the mermaid. thought you should know

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Do you get it now? Without due process, everyone is at risk. How are you going to prove your citizenship otherwise?

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i love it when dan is a complete hypocrite. he’ll say phil has an insane northern childhood because he got caught by the police underage drinking or had a talk in school one time about dogs, but will turn around and drop a story about making it to the finals of a christian puppet competition like it’s nothing. he’ll make 5 graphic sex references in the space of a minute then blush and go “you can’t sAY that!” at phil’s mild innuendo. he’ll wear a tiny mini skirt in front of thousands of people but make phil censor his clavicle. no one is doing it like him

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I'd like to remember Pope Francis as the Pope who called a ton of priests faggots, apologized for it, then called them all faggots again

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bodies should have crash logs. why the fuck did that just happen.

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when you grew up as a lonely uncool girl it will never stop haunting you by the way. you will meet a cool person at a bar or the train station or at a friend's party and you can wear your most stylish outfit and striking eye makeup and you will swear that they can see through all of the facade and see the lonely terribly insecure teenage girl you used to be who desperately wanted to connect and you will swear that they know that there is like an insurmountable gap between you. this will happen forever

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the spirit is unwilling and the flesh it feels not so good also

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drake?

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not to sound like a christian facebook mom but some of yall need to have grace in your hearts for the people in your lives or the people you pass once on the road and never see again like you literally need to stop assuming the worst of everyone and their intentions it is poisoning your brain. you can be careful and responsible without being a miserable person. it is possible i promise

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its okay to be fat! unless you are on purpose. unless you've never tried dieting before. unless you're disabled. unless you're not actively trying to be the healthiest person in the room. unless you sit down. unless you drink soda. unless you aren't fashionable. unless you aren't white. unless you get off on it. unless you exist.

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Even if you believe that you can diagnose someone with dangerous obesity by looking at them (you are not their doctor, so stop that), berating or insulting people about their weight is proven ineffective even if you consider weight loss to be a universally positive outcome, which it isn't.

To the amateur life coaches: stop. You're failing. Just admit that you mock fatness for your own ego's sake. You do it because it feels good to reify your nineties-era commercial morality. Get over yourself, jazz cup preacher.

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“I could neverrr eat in school omggg” “eating in public is so embarrassingggg” IDGAF!!!!!!!!!! I DO NOT GIVE A FUCK!!!!! LET ME ENJOY MY GRILLED CHEESE OMG I NEED NUTRIENTS TO SURVIVE

Like girls do we ever hear men talking about this or passing judgment on each other for having BASIC NEEDS??? Get real

I understand that as a woman it’s hard not to feel like you always have to watch yourself and make sure you look fuckable but pleaseeee I’m so tired can we just let go of ittttt like I just want to eat my shitty nachos in peace