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#ProudToBe MEAN Comments by OnisionSpeaks

⚫️ They say they draw the line to bisexuality, everything else is a mental disability or done for attention. Here is my question. What difference does it make to you? In your stance, it seems there is no victory. Like... if you ‘re right and they ‘re doing it for attention, what exactly do you get out of it? Basically nothing; right? So you have them being humiliated and you gaining nothing from it, unless of course if you take satisfaction from this person being humiliated. And even then I cannot understand how you consider that a victory

⚫️ Another individual who clearly thinks that they understand you more than you understand yourself. They ‘ve never met you, they ‘ve never talked to you in-depth but somehow they can immediately invalidate how you feel about yourself simply because they don’t understand it.

⚫️Another person ‘s making fun of individuals in this video, saying someone sexually identifies as Lord Voldemort. I want you to think for a moment how people would react 100 years ago when someone said they were bi, gay, or otherwise. They would treat being gay as an illness, no? But now because we ‘ve involved and we better understand one another many of us accept homosexuality. Guys, it ‘s obvious when you oppose these groups of people you ‘re simply on the wrong side of history. So you can kick, scream and whine like a child if you want to, that ‘s not gonna stop us from marching forward.

⚫️ This person says God made a mistake making those people. Pretty sure that’s blasphemy, as far as I know, God can’t make mistakes. Psalm 18:30 ‘As for God, his way is perfect’. So if God is real and you are questioning his way/his perfection, it seems like the only mistake here is you, and it ‘s not God’s mistake, it ‘s yours.

⚫️ They go on to say that the first gender is the man, then you go on to say female ...Congratulations, correct. And you ‘re wrong cause guess what: mentally disturbed is not a gender. Mind you, I’m a person who respects English definitions because I respect the language that I’m speaking. And to deny these definitions would be to deny my competence in the English language. So here we have the definition of gender. Gender is the state of being male or female(typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones). So obviously, by definition, there are in fact only two genders. And I know this might be upsetting to some, but I prefer to be a person of primarily facts rather than opinions, ‘cause let’s be honest, facts are far more consistently reliable. There is, however, agender which removes the gender concept entirely, and yes it is possible for someone to feel like they are agender. And I know what a lot of you might be thinking. “Well they have a penis or vagina, right? So, they ‘re obviously that. And agender isn't a thing, unless of course, they got their genitalia removed”, which kinda seems like a ridiculous thing to ask a person just because they want to identify as agender. And also remember the definition of gender. “... is used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones’. Or to translate to those who don’t understand: it doesn't matter if you have a penis or a vagina because that is not what gender is actually about. When we reference having a penis and a vagina, we ‘re talking, about biology. And gender specifically states that is not necessarily about biology at all. So when you post negative comments on videos where people are telling you that they ‘re a certain gender, and you clearly don’t agree with that, well you ‘re obviously out of place, As I’ve established, by definition, gender is a lot more than what these commenters make it out to be.

⚫️ Not all the comments on this video are negative towards, gay, bi, trans people, etc, but some are in fact defending them. This person is asking why people are being so hateful about these individuals, which is a reasonable question, considering those individuals are not hurting anyone, yet a lot of people in the comment section are obviously trying to hurt them, all of the sake of what victory. Think about the big picture. I know a lot of these commenters are no doubt people who were born straight and are able to fit right into the crowd. So let me put this in perspective. Let’s say all of a sudden you being straight was seen socially unacceptable. And whenever you talked about being straight, people would shame you for it. Statistically, you ‘re either a boy or a girl. So, what if one day people mocked you for wearing the outfits you wear because they felt it didn’t fit your gender? Imagine you ‘re a girl and you go to the mall wearing a dress, and people point at you and laugh at you and they make fun of you for wearing that dress, because they personally don’t believe that ‘s the outfit that the person of your gender should wear. Do you see what a waste of time and energy that is? You are trying to tear someone down when they ‘re doing nothing wrong to you. And you ‘re so shallow-minded that you can’t try and understand them. So because you ‘re just so blind, you judge them as if you know them, when it’s obvious you do not.

⚫️ This person’s calling those individuals mentally disturbed freaks who are a waste of oxygen. Let me ask you something. Do you feel like you ‘re a better or worse person for posting that? Do you think if your mother saw you say that, that she would be more or less proud of you? Think about the kids you have or may have someday. Would you your kids seeing you talk like that to innocent people? You wanna teach your kids to hate people who are clearly just trying to be themselves? And I get it, you don’t understand them, and for your own reasons that causes you to wanna lash out at them. But I ask you this, you think these individuals chose to be in this way? Like seriously ask yourself a question. This person says gays deserve death. But why? It ‘s not like gay people one day just randomly decided: ‘’Hey I would really like it if people would wish death on me for simply being this way’. As if these people really concluded in their mind that they would enjoy life more if things were consistently more difficult for them. Like they want the world to tolerate them less. And that’s the logic I hope a lot of people will consider again and again until they get it. If you have a choice between an easy lifestyle free om most criticism and a less socially acceptable lifestyle that’s full of people automatically hating you for seemingly no reason, which one of these two for the sake of yourself, for the sake of your friends, for the sake of your family would you wanna pick? It likely wouldn't be the lifestyle that is more difficult, it would be the one that’s easier. But that’s just the thing, it’s not a choice. So these people are brave enough to be themselves, despite the fact that they know that they’ll have to deal with ignorant people saying things like “please throw all these people to the Middle East’. Really because we don’t inherently understand someone, we should automatically send them somewhere where they’ll likely be killed. That is your actual position? Really?

⚫️ I want you to take a look at this graph:

What do you think that represents? 52%, that’s a pretty high number, right? I’d like to think that everyone watching this is hoping that this graph represents something positive. But guess what? It doesn’t. This graph represents the attempted suicide rated of people who are part of the LGBT. Because it is so difficult in so many areas of this world to be gay, to be bi, to be trans, these people consistently have a greater chance of trying to kill themselves and what’s so hard about this is thinking about like what if this was your kid. You know, what if you had a gay kid, and you love them with all your heart and because they ‘re bullied constantly for being gay you can’t see them anymore? They leave you prematurely, your kids die before you die because they can’t handle how cruel the world is to them. They can’t handle it. And how could they? You have to be insanely strong to be able to endure the horrible things that people are saying. You treat them like they ‘re freaks and they’re monster for just being themselves for something that is absolutely beyond their control.

⚫️ I hope this video gets through to someone. At least one person. I just don’t understand why it is so important for you to bully these individuals when there are so many better things you could be doing with your time, especially considering these disturbing suicide statistics. If you ‘re going to bully someone, I ask you at least go after someone who’s not already having a hard time, dealing with a society that is already stacked against them. I don’t expect bullying to stop, which is why I ask at the very least you do that. Do not bully LGBT. If anything, bully me. I’m very happy to be bullied.

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