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nospace users should be ashamed.

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this is my first petition, and i’m pretty hopeful that people may see it and reply- (i’m sorry if i’m not too literate — english is not my strong suit)

(cw // content mentions dec 18th, mentions of suicide and cyber bullying)

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Happy birthday Jonghyun, the sexiest man ever🌙

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jonghyun he’s so hotttt

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i hate you retarded idiots

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fuck tumblr users i want them to die in hell jonghyun will hate you and will womit on you disgusting people

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hello everyone, i would like to make things a bit clearer since @/1eos is spreading misinformation.

i never said that i don’t like black women. i was saying that there’s a pattern of black women resources being advertised more than anything else. this ISN’T me dogpiling on black mental health. i was pointing at what i see the most. i am NOT american so i don’t know if there’s anything out there as the uk doesn’t really provide very much for anyone of my demographic specifically.

as for my argument against the “black girl breathing” ads, this was in behalf of my FRIEND who has seen the poster saying “being lonely in a digital world” making him think that it was a BLACK WOMAN or a group of people speaking out about feeling lonely being online as THIS WAS EXACTLY WHAT HE WAS GOING THROUGH just for him to find out that it was a resource ad for black women and girls.

THAT WAS WHY HE WAS COMPLAINING. it was because of the misinformation. do you guys understand now or do i need to talk to you guys like babies. this is why he’s even afraid of speaking out because of lowlifers like them taking him out of context and then twisting his words. i am speaking out of anger because i want him to know that there’s people who is in the same boat as him. this is why i spoke out in behalf of him. and for those who are harassing me for speaking for him, kindly shut the fuck up. this is for a friend who is struggling with mental health. i hope he’s doing well and hopefully he knows that there are people who loves him for him.

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noona neomu yeppeo i need to talk to shinee

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penis penis penis jonghyun is sexy

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sexy jonghyun he has nice penis

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noona baby where’s shinee’s baby i need jonghyun he’s hot

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hiii i’m fine guys don’t worry about me

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CW // Dec 18th, suicide, depression and anxiety related issues

I know I’ve been saying this for a while, but I think I’m ready to finally leave this app for good.

The past year has been horrible for me. I had gone through a lot of cyber bullying in inbox and dms involving Jonghyun’s death and it had contributed to my mental health worsening to the point where I couldn’t function properly in my day to day life due to those people saying those things about me being a disrespectful person, just for having him as my bias. I had seen a drastic drop in my self esteem and mood to the point where I would have days where I would be suicidal just because of those damaging messages that they would send to blingers.

And by that, this is why I decided that it’s time to go. This app was the reason why I found it hard to move on from his death. I’m literally still grieving over him because there are people out there who are trying to change the way I cope with it. It’s already hard as it is to deal with what happened, but to be treated differently from the other Shawols — to be told that you’re a bad person just for acting like any other fan but towards Jonghyun I would be seen as someone who is exploiting a “deadman” or “someone who killed himself.” These are real words that I had to endure every month in this app, and it’s starting to put a big toll on me. I knew that this app was never for me, especially with how the users would treat newbies. I feel like an outcast in this app, which is why I had bad experiences here.

Anyone who wants to keep in touch, I have a wattpad account naegayougaega or my snapchat baby_brucelee and I promise I’ll try to text as many people as I can. I’m so sorry I couldn’t stay for too long. Everything is just becoming too much for me, and I need weight taken off immediately. This has been me suffering for nearly a year now on an app that I thought was a new beginning for me, but it had also taken over my mind and I could of taken my own life a couple of times. I just need to get my mind off this app, and that’s why I’ll be leaving and possibly deleting this account.

Everyone you can reblog this post just to show how bad cyber bullying can affect people and use it to showcase why you guys shouldn’t treat people the way you do. At the end of the day, there are real people behind the screen that are just the same as you. They may be new, or they mind not. Either way, that doesn’t give you the rights to harass them just because they used hashtags wrong or something like that.

Although I hate this app and I have a bad view of it, I want people to change here — not like you guys would since most users are stubborn terminally online trolls, but I want you guys to see yourselves as the person you are about to harass. How would you like it if you was in their shoes. You wouldn’t like it if you made a simple mistake and then someone harasses you for it. Or even you happily talking about your favourite celebrity but people harassing you just because that so-called celebrity is deceased. It’s not fair on you, and everyone else that are affected by this. So please, don’t turn this app into another intolerable twitter disaster. There are people who has been on this app since the beginning, and I’m pretty sure they don’t want to see it turn into shit. Think about them, and the reputation you would want for this app. You don’t want people to see this app as filled with lonely dumbasses who fights people even though they agree on the same thing but in different views.

That’s all I’d ask from you. Thank you for reading.

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hello guys.

i had been considering it for a very long time and i finally came to a decision that i never thought i would do.

i’m leaving tumblr for my mental health. if you guys still want to chat with me, go to my wattpad account @ littlebabyjjongie

i just haven’t been doing well lately and had received a lot of cyber bullying over the past 12 months i’ve been on this app. plus, it’s just not as fun anymore.

i beg you guys please take care of each other and don’t treat others like trash. not everyone has been on tumblr since 2012 so i’d suggest you guys should be patient with newcomers, unless you guys are dumbasses and don’t know what newbies are which seems like most of the users here.

goodbye everyone.

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Hi! do u have any old minho selfies similar to this one? i think 2008-2010? hes too adorable i need more 😭

hiii~ these are a few that ive posted previously! let me know if you want more and ill go searching for ones i havent posted yet:-)