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This but she's putting another diaper over the messy one I'm in before running out for errands with me

You were the one who shared their love of diapers with her You have accepted that she has made you her little but you still feel embarrassed.

You have never shown her this side of you.

She tells you it's okay but you're not ready to believe her.

She wants you to prove to her that you're her little, that you can go in your diaper.

She whispers “Well done! There my good boy” to you as you let out some pee pee.

She doesn't notice at first but you push so hard a fart escapes. She smiles at you excitedly.

You keep pushing and you feel pure shame as goosebumps envelop you. You can't hold back anymore, your laxative won't let you.

Your sphincter starts shaking and you grunt out of shame.

A warm mass starts to push through. You feel it coating your butt, it's pushing back against the diaper.

“Shhh it's okay, you're a baby now. Let out those pee pees and poo poos, you can do it in front of mommy, don't cry."

Image credit Sophie Little

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I wish my gf would take control like this

Her gaze cut through you like a hot knife in butter. Yet you couldn’t resist her. No more than a moth can resist a porch light.

You weren’t into humiliation. You weren’t into anything kinky at all before you met her. You thought she was the rare woman who accepted your incontinence, diapers and all.

And you weren’t wrong. She did accept your diapers, from a certain point of view. All it cost was your dignity and autonomy. And you long since stopped questioning if the juice was worth the squeeze. You were in too deep.

So now you expected this look. It was the look she gave you every time you waddled over to her with a load in your diaper, begging for a change. It didn’t matter that before you met her you were only urinary incontinent. She demanded everything ends up in your diaper.

It didn’t matter that you could easily change yourself. That was a privilege she took along with the rest of your continence.

The look was all part of the game she forced you to play. All part of the humiliation you never asked for, but could never resist.

You were hers. And you wouldn’t have it any other way.

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This is exactly why I want to be pierced so I can be locked securely

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I can imagine a holiday party with lots of people and being in the center of a nursery strapped down with the door unlocked for anyone to walk in to see me in this state but I would never know which guest happened to stumble upon me being punished

This is the real definition of diaper humiliation 😍 who will like to experience this

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How I need to be spanked for bad behavior then put in a thick diaper and tight thin shorts and sent to the store to get more diaper supplies and laxatives

Hunk is disciplined and humiliated.

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She does “traffic jam” chastity

Help! My husband asked me to try chastity play but it’s not going well. Usually, right after I’ve let him out, things are fine. He can be a little cool toward me but that’s fine. But then over the next two days he grows steadily whinier until his begging to be unlocked is intolerable. Not much fun for me or him. I never tell him exactly when I’ll do it, but I almost always take pity on him in the evening on the third or fourth day and let him out to take care of himself. The whole thing has been a bit of a letdown. Is this what everyone is raving about? Surely not.

- Ms. M

No, Ms. M, it’s not and I dare say it’s because…

YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG

Okay, there’s no such thing as right and wrong with intimacy, just different tactics that will yield different results. The tactics you’re using are not aligned with the very achievable results you seek.

Traffic Jam Chastity

Don’t you hate idling in a traffic jam? The worst isn’t standstill traffic. The worst is traffic that is moving just slow enough so that you can’t leave your foot on the gas because you have to keep braking every five seconds. Starting and stopping in crowded traffic is enough to send any driver to road rage court. But that is exactly what you’re doing to your husband.

After a man orgasms his sexual response and interest drop precipitously to their lowest levels. We’ve all seen it. Interest in sex evaporates. Romance and flirting get shoved roughly in a drawer and the male brain hunkers down to git stuf dun.

But, as we know, those rascally males don’t stay heads-down for long. Within 24 hours the sexual response begins to slowly return as the prostate refills. He barely notices it at first but by the second and third days it has taken over his one-tracked mind and he’s getting pretty ready for some luvin’. Shouldn’t that mean you should give it to him? Give him some relief?

Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating for a man

No! Let me explain why not. Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating phase of chastity for a man. Why? For the same reason day 3 of any diet is the most temptation prone and why it eliminates so many dieters. He’s transitioning from getting exactly what his body demands to not. It’s an uncomfortable change and the body doesn’t like it. Every five minutes his body asks “Wait, wut? You mean I can’t have? Why can’t I have? I need! Give me now!” Frustration and irritation mount and, if you do let him orgasm, he will experience immediate relief.

The Goldilocks Phase

Relief is not pleasure. Relief is not useful. Relief, his relief, is not your friend. It lets him off the hook and unravels all that nice tension you just wound into his brain. If you want to experience the benefits of chastity and you want your husband to be floating on the fabled submissive cloud of chaste pleasure then you need to get him past the constant battle for relief and into the Goldilocks Phase.

Sometime after day 4, depending on the man, his body will slowly start to realize that an orgasm is not imminent and therefore it’s a waste of resources to keep expecting relief at any minute. This may take hours or days but he will eventually stabilize into acceptance. Not just mental, but physical acceptance. This is where you want his head.

In the Goldilocks Phase, his expectations have been lowered enough to stop fighting chastity but not so low that he gets depressed. In this phase he is free to simply experience chastity, to experience the sensation of ever growing arousal and ever intensifying desire. For men, desire is pleasure. This will be a sweet sensation that never stops, made just a little bittersweet by occasional waves of overwhelming need. (Don’t worry about those They pass quickly.)

Goldilocks is best for you too

It’s not just him that rides this wave. You benefit most in this period. Rather than spending time fighting chastity and pestering you, his only way out and only listening ear, he spends his time in quiet contemplation. It is this phase that he switches to the long game. Instead of busting out a couple of chores and expecting a tit-for-tat release, he begins to consider the keyholder’s point of view, her needs and her whims. He finds himself doing things that he knows she’ll appreciate and he hardly even notices that he’s doing them. He truly puts her first.

But you need to do it right

But for him to take that view you need to play above his level. Chastity must reinforce the dynamic you want. That means the following:

You never promise a date. You can hint at early release for good behavior or late release for bad, but he must never expect an actual date or time.

You must never cave to begging. He may ask politely once or twice during a stretch of chastity and, if you wish, you may give his request some consideration. But once your decision is made you must stick to it no matter what. I recommend that further begging result in a longer sentence.

Behavior should be tied to chastity. Don’t reward bad behavior. If you do you’re just teaching him he can do it and get the rewards.

How Long? Three-to-four weeks

The Goldilocks Period is about three to four weeks long. During this period he will slowly get more and more aroused, experience more and more submissive feelings toward you and become more and more malleable by you.

That long? I couldn’t possibly!

To some who are starting out, weeks of lockup might seem cruel. Believe me, it’s not as cruel as what you are doing to him by letting him out every three days, stop and go, hot and cold, up and down. If your doctor prescribed a 20-day course of antibiotics would you stop taking them after three days when you started feeling better? No. The same goes with the man. To get all those benefits you need to keep him locked for the full course. I would say that’s at least two weeks (in the case of some reward for extra good behavior) but usually three weeks. And up to four (in the case of bad behavior).

How will you know? He will thank you.

How will you know that you’re keeping him locked up long enough? He will thank you. That’s right, he will actually thank you for keeping him locked up. It might not happen right away. It might take several rounds, several months for his thinking to evolve but it surely will. I’ve done this to hundreds of men, some in person some online. Every single one of them proactively thanks me at some point. There are other signs as well. Aggressiveness toward you will disappear. Calm, quiet service to you will develop spontaneously. After the letdown of orgasm he will actually crave to go back in chastity. He’ll miss that glow so much he’ll want to skip past the next three days so he can get it. Eventually he’ll reach the point that he doesn’t want to be unlocked when the time rolls around. At that point you can have the magical discussion about… wait for it… permanent chastity. That, however, is a discussion for another day.

So man-up, ladies and lock him down and swear off traffic jam chastity forever.

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I want this so bad to be fully exposed and strapped down and force fed a few bottles before the paci gag is forced into my mouth and put to bed

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It’s not about the diapers

It’s about control and power

Not only does wearing diapers deny him access to his penis and his own pleasure

It also controls his most basic bodily function

In time it will regress him back to a more willing and more attentive boy

And it reduces him to where he belongs

Humiliated dependent and weak

By using forced diapers you strip away every last ounce of dignity he has

You own him. He is yours

Sure he will touch himself, but only over the padding. Frustrated and denied. Your pathetic little diaper boy.

Image credit Sophie Little

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i just posted something new to my sb!

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“Mommy’s New Dress Code”

Those pants are way too tight to hide the diaper I’m going to make you wear out tonight 😏

Watch it here 🍼💦

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How i became a Mommy for my Hubby

...Chris was at work, when i got on his PC for a little shopping. Accidentally i closed a tab, that i didn't want to close. So i eventually got to the Browsers history, to open it up again...

...What i found there, wasn't my shopping Tab only, but also Chris' search history: "ABDL" "MDLB", "SDK Diapers"and "Messy Diaper" were some of the terms, he was searching for...

A quick google search revealed, that my boyfriend might be an Adult Baby... 🍼😆

Never heard about that before, but i am not a quick judge, when it comes to kinks or sexual fantasies. We all have em, right?! ☺️

So I was looking around a bit, and found those "SDK diapers", he was searching for. "SDK" stands for "Super Dry Kids", as i found out 😂

They look like real Pampers from back then...😅

Should i speak to him, that i saw his browsers history? Or should i just buy him these diapers?

Hmmm... Guess it'll be fun to see his face, when i hold one of his desired Pampers up and say: "Lay down baby, lets get your bum in one of these!"

Yeah, i like that idea, so I just ordered two packs these "ABU SDK" as well as some babypowder and, of course - a binky for him 😋

He was also active on an ABDL-Forum, describing to others that he wants his gf, me, to be his mommy, that puts him in diapers for weekends, f.e. 😆

He describes that he identifies as a "middle" that still needs diapers and his paci. Haha... isn't that cute somehow?! 🤭

He also wants to be forced to use diapers for it's intended purposes... Well, guess i can make that happen 😋

When he came home from work, I didn't let anything show...

Till the next days, when his Pampers and supplies got delivered... ☺️

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Advice (An Excerpt)

My first thought was that your husband sounds a bit like a toddler, wouldn’t you say?  The way that he is seemingly unaware of the consequences of his actions certainly suggests a child-like attitude.  Perhaps, then, this is how he should be treated.  He should be shown the command and dominance of a mother-like figure.  Imagine the look on his face when you point out a mess he has made in your home, but instead of nagging him about it, you order him over your knee for a spanking.  

I say, take his big-boy underpants.  All of them.  Hide them; burn them if you have to.  Fill his dresser drawer with disposable diapers or those pull-up style training pants.  He can dress however he wants and act however he likes, but no man will act too far out of line when his pants conceal such a shame.

This, in turn, opens up other opportunities for punishment and, ultimately, lessons on how to be a better husband.  Is he acting defiant?  Lock your bathroom doors.  His attitude is sure to change quickly when left with the choice of wetting his pants or showing you the respect that you deserve.

Confidence is key.  Your situation worries me, as I feel that you’ve let this timid man-child walk all over you already, and you’ll have a tough road ahead of you.  But in the end, you will have earned his devotion.  No man perseveres through having his adulthood stripped away without learning a few things about maturity and adulthood.

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Just a diaper boy being a super good boy!!!

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Once my wife got upset with me be unable to receive the tool she had chosen. It wasn't huge but for some reason it just hurt. Well a couple of days later she got into one of her moods and decided to play again. But first she wanted to relax me. I wasn't told her plan. Started off driving with the neighbors. Shots, mixed drinks and what ever else they wanted us to try. After a couple of hours we headed home. Once home she broke out the MJ. I told her I was too messed up but she persisted. So after a bowl or 3 I was severely cross faded. She had me put my arms on the out side of my legs and grab the inside of my ankles a couple of wrap of bondage tape and I was done for. Over the next 3 to 4 hours she slowly stretched me. Every once in a wile having me drink or smoke some more to keep me complacent. Finally as I started to come down she removed the tape but told me not to let go yet. Once she was ready she told me to feel my a. I was almost instantly sober when I realised she had BOTH of her hands 8 fingers palm to palm buried in my A all the way to her thumbs. She was showing my how much she had stretched by arching her hands. She probably could have fit a Gatorade bottle up there. After she pulled her hands out she threw a diaper on my stomach a d told me not to complain about her dick again.

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After a long day at work, you come home to find your wife dressed up waiting for you. "Hurry up and take a shower. I've got something pulled out for you already." Your wife said. You drop your wallet and keys on the counter and hand her your phone so it can charge while you get ready to head out. After your shower, you walk into your room to find this on the bed.

"Well, lay down. Let's get this done so we can leave." You start to panic. You only gone out wearing a diaper once, and you still have issues wetting. But now this? She senses your panic and ties to calm you. Turning you to face her, she placed her hands on the sides of your face.

"Baby, you need to relax. I'm not going to hurt you. I know diapers aren't your favorite, but I promise you will end up enjoying tonight."

You really didn't hear anything else she had to say you're really trying not to panic, but all you can think of is you're going to be dragged out in public in and obviously messy diaper. Everyone in town will find out, and you're going to be ousted as a disgusting perv.

"See that wasn't so bad now was it?"

What? Omg she managed to get you lying down and diapered while you were panicking. What about the suppository? She is holding them? But she is throwing that long package away. it's empty? What was that?

"Give me your hands."

As she helps you to your feet, you can feel something in you butt crack. OMG! She up that thing up my ass!

"Surprised baby? That's a deep enema tube. It's to make sure you get every bit of messies out. Don't look so shocked now. Wait till later when I decide these two should come into play. You're gonna have a big blowout. And mommy is going to be there recording it. I want something I can watch over and over again while you're at work."

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New lockable piercing from traeume-aus-edelstahl 🥰🥰