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s/o to me cause i really be going through it and i pick myself up every damn time

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I no longer force things. what flows flows, what crashes, crashes. I only have space and energy for things that are meant for me.

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forgive me father for I have sinned in all the coolest and most glamorous ways possible

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Perfect your confidence🍸

Alright let’s get down to business bitches. Confidence gets you into places, out of situations and gets you things. Keep in mind you are NOT going to be confident everyday, that is normal. You are going to have to work on your confidence until you are alive. But if you have gotten to the point where you have your mind set, you feel comfortable in your skin and are willing to gain confidence you CANNOT fail.

1. I’ve mentioned this before but FAKE IT TIL YA MAKE IT HOE. Believe you are confident in who you are and act accordingly until you actually start to genuinely feel it.

2. Stand straight, sit straight. Basically keep your back tall in every position. It makes you look like you know why you are here and what you are doing.

3. Walk with your head forward, back straight, shoulders down and at a regular pace ( a little faster than normal). NO ONE fucks with someone who walks determined I kid you not. If you have a face that show determination and projects as if you know what’s up you could say the most outlandish thing people will still believe you

4. Be kind, but witty. Be a bitch, but a kind bitch. Kind to everyone until someone oversteps you, that’s when you stop being kind and stop playing their games.

5. Wear things YOU feel comfortable in. Idk who says what. Something might look better than other things, but if you like it just wear it for god’s sake who cares.

6. Which bring me to my next point. DONT GIVE A FUCK once again just fake it. You can go home and cry about it later, but to their face dont even move a muscle. Here’s my rule: dont care about strangers thought, care about people who are extremely close to you. Thats that.

7. Dont ever compare yourself to other girls. Trust me on this: EVERYONE is insecure about something. I kid you not, everyone. Some people are just great actors about it. You can be too. Just dont compare yourself, move on, look at a painting, eat idk just take your mind off of it.

8. Just know that you are THAT BITCH at all time. Dont let people cross you, play with you or fuck around with you.

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I wish everyone would wake up and realize that your idealized self is simply your current self but with drive. The person you want to be is you if you put in the work! Like, life is ultimately up to us and we can change ourselves whenever we want! Make plans to do better for yourself, speak it into fruition, and work for it.

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Don’t settle for nice, for pleasant, for familiar. Keep looking until you find something that really moves you, that resonates with your core. And I mean this for people, for interests, for hobbies, for your possessions, clothes, music, books, art. Everything. Curate every aspect of your life, as much as you can. It’s in the things that deeply inspire us that we find ourselves. Surround yourself with truth, and you’ll have built yourself a heaven.

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Carefree black boys is my favorite genre of anything ever

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Every single relationship will get “boring” after you’ve been together for ages. Love isn’t a feeling, it’s a commitment; to love every day, physically and emotionally. It’s hard afff, it’s not always laughs and smiles and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being cute. “Oh the spark is gone.” No, that’s not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally? Do the same. This isn’t Hollywood, this isn’t romantic happy ever after bs. Love someone when you don’t want to, when they are being a fricken asshole. When they’re being hard to love. That’s thats the realist shit there is.

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“I’m lost. And it’s my own fault. It’s about time I figured out that I can’t ask people to keep me found.”

— Anne Sexton, A Self-Portrait in Letters (via naturaekos)

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whenever somebody responds with “I beg your pardon?” assert your dominance by announcing “Then Beg.”

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Girls will say they busy and be in their bed relaxin or sleep