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It doesn't matter how big you are. Tall handsome boy with enough strength to take another of you down if you ever needed to. Submission looks suited for you, being nothing but a puppy slut has nothing to do with the stupid amount of space you take whenever you're ordered to sit or lay down. You won't even bet an eye whenever an accessory is accidentally ripped or simply doesn't fit because that won't restrain you from being a good obedient boy

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I'm not even giving him attention, just sitting here mindlessly on my phone, while he lays on the floor and licks one of my feet while the other rests on his cock. I can't believe he's enjoying this. Oh my God, how pathetic.

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when i say “that reminds me” & theres zero connection you just have to take my word for it theres no time to explain

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“spam liking = blocked” spam likers can cum in my mouth actually!!!! spam likers can finger me in dressing rooms and strangle me in alleyways.

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fun fact about men's fashion: belts and ties are actually handles for women to use whenever they want

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unfortunately “we shouldn’t be doing this” sounds really hot during sex

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The agony of thinking you’re finished doing the dishes only to turn around and to your horror: the pot.

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Easily my favorite sign of the day 😂

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SEXY THINGS SUBMISSIVE MEN DO ✮⋆˙

they moan unabashedly when you touch them in just the right place, their voice cracking, trembling, not even trying to contain themselves.

they bite their lip and whisper a “please,” but they're so needy their voice breaks in the process.

they don't know where to put their hands while you dominate them-they clench them in the sheets, try to cling to you, but always end up shaking.

they blush up to their ears when you tell them how good they look this messed up.

they look at you with glazed eyes, begging with their eyes because their words don't come out right anymore.

they try to challenge you, they try to fight… but in the end they always give in, they always give up.

their voice trembles when they try to speak, as if pleasure is stealing even their words.

they arch into your touch, their body betraying them even as they try to stand their ground.

their breath hitches with every kiss on your neck, with every whisper near your ear.

when they are on the brink, their moans become higher pitched, more desperate.

and the best part… when they beg you without even realizing it. 😏

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Real men should leak and whine a little bit

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propaganda i am not falling for:

always moving on. some goodbyes need to rot a little. some griefs need to be held in the mouth like a stone.

beauty defined by algorithms. beauty exists in crow feet and smile lines

pretending to be chill. i’m not chill. i care deeply and inconveniently. i read into things. i write poems about eye contact

beige apartments with no soul. give me bookshelves and incense and loud art

sneaky links and unclear intentions. i want devotion. and also clarity

treating books as decor. read them. dog-ear them. argue with them in the margins

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Mmmmnnnnhhhhggg being restrained in a way that forces my cunt to be completely exposed and vulnerable NHGGGGG

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Tapping the mic. Premature ejaculation can be cute if we stopped stigmatizing it and instead were like "awww you got excited"

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I think… one of the biggest services a Dominant can give to their submissive… is a safe space to talk about the hard stuff.

A safe space to explore and work through triggers.

A safe space to express when something in the dynamic doesn’t feel right (so it can be fixed).

A safe space to expose the brain weasels (so they can be tamed).

If every time a submissive brings up something hard, the dominant snaps or shames them or reacts in a negative way… the submissive is going to stop bringing things up, and will suffer in silence until the relationship breaks.

Even if the dominant doesn’t like what was shared… even if it’s hard or doesn’t feel good to hear… that communication is necessary for the relationship. And it is hard for a lot of us subby people to have those conversations.

Positively reinforce your partner bringing up hard things. You can say “hey, this is really hard for me to hear. But I’m glad you could tell me.”

It’s not black and white, both things can be true.

And one of the _best_ things you can do for your sub, is to be their safe space, even when things are hard. Especially when things are hard.

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Overstimulating him for the first time, and he grips my wrist to stop me, only to throw his head back and jerk his hips upward. That silent gasp leaving him as his back arches, but even then, especially then, I don't bother letting up and continue stroking him as he cums. His cute little moans leaving him as he begs me to stop, but the grip on my wrist has lessened and now he's basically fucking my hand even as he whines that it hurts

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Though we all know asking for consent is absolutely MANDATORY in all sexual encounters, you have to also be prepared to respond to the request of consent honestly.

That means being ready to say no if you don’t want to do what your partner is asking.

Yes, it is your partner’s responsibility to ask for clear, sane consent.

But it’s also your responsibility to provide an honest answer.

Which means saying no even if you feel bad about it.

Which means saying no even if you are a chronic people pleaser.

Which means saying no even when you’re are terrified to say say.

You don’t have to physically say no, you can say another word or make a certain signal or sound to convey that you are not giving consent, but you NEED to communicate that no.

As much as both you and I wish our partners could read our mind, that is not reality.

If you you say yes when you’re really thinking ‘I don’t know, if you say yes when you’re really thinking ‘no, stop,’ you need to say something.

Ofc it’s then on your partner to then respect this response, stopping and not guilting you for saying no.

But the point is that consent is something that needs all parties to participate. If you are on the receiving end of asking for consent, you need to be honest.

I get that it’s scary.

I get that you might feel awkward.

I get that you just don’t like saying no.

But speaking your mind during sex is integral. Being honest about your feelings has to happen.

Sex is supposed to be a positive experience. Saying no will keep it positive for everyone involved.