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Smoking and drinking my coffee before a long day of filming starts
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Got yes I need that. But want my little clit in a cage too.
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The Truth About Submission!
I'm not going to beat around the bush on this one.
The truth about submission is that you have to give up pleasure.
How many times have you stimulated yourself to feel pleasure? How many times a day? The need for pleasure is strong, and it helps us de-stress from our daily lives. It's no surprise to come home after a stressful day and remedy it with sexual pleasure. Many people become addicts to pleasure doing this. Sexual pleasure is a way of escaping reality, even if only temporarily, and catapulting our lives into temporary euphoria.
The problem with this, is that it is always temporary, and it is always fleeting. It's also very unhealthy for men to be indulging in self-serving pleasure frequently. It's taxing on the body and the mind. So while it appears to alleviate the stress of today, its making the stress of tomorrow much more difficult. It also makes having a sexual partner more difficult because when you can't last long enough, she will never truly connect with you on an intimate level. You're too focused on getting off, rather than getting on. Sex becomes superficial, meaningless and empty. It affects the way we respect our partner and we no longer see them as sacred and precious, we just use them as a means of temporary, fleeting pleasure.
That is what the modern marriage has become for most people.
There are so many relationships that could benefit from a power exchange, a D/s dynamic, where dominance and submission become the way of intimacy and connection, but to get there, first communication needs to happen and second, pleasure must be given up.
I want to skip past the building the relationship phase and just jump straight into why submission is important. In order to submit you have to give up your own pleasure. Yes, it can feel arousing and erotic to play with chastity, tease and denial, but this is about exploring submission at it's core. The deepest level. At it's core submission is not about you. It's not about where she can bring you as you submit to her. It's entirely about giving up pleasure.
The chastity cage is a fantastic tool for understanding this because when locked in a cage, you can no longer pleasure yourself in the same way, you must refrain from stroking, and all touch is muted. You are cut off from giving yourself pleasure and that's exactly how it should be, if you are to learn the lesson it's teaching you. Don't try to cheat it. Embrace it. Embrace the lack of pleasure. Shift your focus to her pleasure instead. What will happen, is your arousal will become so great, that you will feel like you will cum even in your chastity cage. You must refrain from this. No matter how much you desire to feel the pleasure of cumming, you must accept that you won't.
You must give up all pleasure. Focus on her and her needs only. Let go of yours. Entirely. It no longer matters whether you cum or not. You are going to endure it. As you do this, you will notice a subtle enhanced focus on her scent, her taste, and her body signals, like breathing, moaning, twitching and shuddering. Suddenly she will become more beautiful, precious and desirable. It will be like a switch in your brain has flipped off and another flipped on, where you shut down your own pleasure needs, and turn on your need to please. You will have finally tapped into your submissive instinct at it's most primal level, completely removed from your need for pleasure. You won't care about your pleasure anymore, you'll only care about hers.
You will find that giving her pleasure is actually the most pleasure you have ever experienced in your life. It will make your own pleasure pale in comparison to giving her pleasure. This is the truth about submission. You are to submit so deeply that you give up pleasure entirely. Notice the wording of " give up pleasure." It's a pun. You give up your own pleasure....PERMANENTLY..... and you give up that pleasure to her. You become truly submissive for the first time. This is how you will live from now on. You will crave to give her pleasure, and your arousal will only remind you to give her more pleasure. This is the mindset you will live in for the rest of your life.
Everything becomes about her. The sooner you accept chastity as your way of life, the sooner you will discover the pleasure of giving pleasure. This is the key to submission. There is no greater pleasure than giving her pleasure. It is superior to anything your own pleasure could ever provide, and it will have a far longer lasting effect on how you feel. It's not fleeting, it's not temporary, it's a permanent state of submission. It is the unlocking of your submissive core need to please and giving up all your pleasure to her and for her. She will then direct exactly how she desires you to serve her, the way she wants you to serve. You become hers. Loyal, dedicated and trustworthy. You will never again need to chase pleasure.
The truth about submission is that it was never about pleasure. But in giving it up to her and for her and understanding it's a way of life, not a kink. The way you were always meant to live.
The Practical FLR book series will help you do just that. Go on the Submissive's Journey for a complete guide to become the submissive partner she needs.
https://books2read.com/b/The-Submissives-Journey
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