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Shock Collars in BDSM - Fun and Safe?

We’ve been playing with shock collars for a few years now, and it’s become one of my favorite pieces of gear. We feel that shock collars are an underutilized toy in BDSM, and I’m pretty sure that’s because they have a bad PR campaign. READ MORE:

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😈 I love this so much!

Have been working with Kink3d To make a shock cobra cage combo, let us know what you think of the idea!

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Our latest article addresses kneeling benches as a solution to discomfort caused by being a super good girl and kneeling for long periods of time. 

http://discerningspecialist.com/bdsm-gear/furniture/95-kneeling-bench-ideas

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Thank you to everyone for all the great feedback on our symbol project. Here is the most current update, and a link to the article about it! http://discerningspecialist.com/articles/94-bdsm-role-symbols.com

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I'd love to know what everyone thinks of our updated bdsm symbols ❤️ I love the idea of having some universal symbols to show off my place in the bdsm community, but the ones I've seen were inconsistent and didn't always make sense. This modernized version is way better!

Here are some design notes from Ken:

-Based on what appear to be Tanos symbols however wanted to expand the idea to cover more roles and consistency; The core idea being BDSM symbols that could discreetly declare roles.

-On this attempt I felt declaring sex was unnecessary, however understood if the symbol was overly simple it would not be recognizable.

-Current style is very simple on purpose, some concerns they may come off too masculine for some.

-2 versions are offered to accommodate visual preference and material type.

-Some people may just like Master/Slave icons more than Dom/Sub even if don't declare themselves as such.

-"Visibility Enhanced" variants are offered to assist making the icons look more unique from a distance, however overall look more "futuristic"

-Rather than get too elaborate to show owned or in a relationship, adding corner dots seemed to be a way to show this option without getting too visually busy.

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If confused about what this is all about you can find the symbols this is based in here

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The world needed a better BDSM guide for beginners so Sir wrote up a really comprehensive article full of things I wish I knew when I was just starting out. It’s all really important information, but I think Sir’s outfit is the most important thing right now, hehe. 

Here’s the article so you can get started doing the bdsm and creating your own Kitty Denied! http://www.discerningspecialist.com/articles/bdsm-101/92-bdsm-beginner-advanced-guide

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Finally got the Hush review done! I can’t post the good pics here anymore, but the review has some chastity belt and plug pics everyone will love! 

http://discerningspecialist.com/sex-toys/anal/90-lovense-hush-vibrating-anal-plug-review

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Working on pics for another butt plug review. This time I’m reviewing the HUSH.. It vibrates and can be controlled from anywhere. It’s great for long distance play! 

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Just showing how to safely use a gag. For educational purposes only. 

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Worked on some selfies for Sir tonight. 

Pics with 👻🐝’s on my twitter. 

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Just in case your lives are not confusing enough during these uncertain times - I wanted to shake things up and let you know that I’ve been doing some switching and I’m into cock cages now!! (RIP my inbox)

Ken did a review on the Kink3d X-lock Cobra. The design of this cock cage stood out because it’s based on a locking cock ring concept where cock ring is locked on and then you can add the cage part on at any time. 

I love the modern look of this cage and the integrated lock makes things a little less bulky to deal with. You can choose between shiny or matte, and the thickness of the cock rings depending on how you want it to feel and lay. Ken does a good job explaining all the pros and cons for the various options and shares some things that surprised us about cock cages as this is a pretty new concept for us. 

https://www.discerningspecialist.com/bdsm-gear/chastity/89-kink3d-x-lock-cobra-male-chastity-device-review

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Noodz here: https://twitter.com/kittydenied/status/1253798551563296770?s=20

Thank you to all the tumblr people that are still here! I love you all! ♥️

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Slut prison maid is my new thing 

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Slut prison maid uniform testing.. Have my chastity belt on under it, but can only share those pics on twitter .. https://twitter.com/kittydenied

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Stop pretending crappy sex toys are good - or it gets the hose again. 

http://discerningspecialist.com/articles/88-stop-pretending-crappy-sex-toys-are-good

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Our review of the Edge Dungeon is posted on the Discerning Specialist site! I love that place so much!!!

http://discerningspecialist.com/articles/86-the-edge-jail-and-dungeon

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I liked this blindfold from the Church of Sinvention so much that I did a review on it. ❤️❤️Goes pretty perfect with the slut prison gear! 

http://discerningspecialist.com/bdsm-gear/sensory/87-sinvention-psych-ward-lennon-blindfold