kittyontheloose

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The double standard imposed upon doms and sadists is insane btw. I’ll never shut up abt the way people frame masochists and subs as passive. It’s such a useless framing— a good submissive is reactive and intentional and communicative, and if you lay back and expect your dom to just know or guess what you want then you’re a shitty submissive, plain and simple.

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you don’t know what you do to me …

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Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

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nap time ⋆⁺₊⋆ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆

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nothing worse than when someone hits you with the “as long as you’re not into rape, incest, or like ageplay!” like damn bro thats my big three!

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if anyone was wondering, this is the bunny ear hoodie bodysuit by koruraclub !!!! it's SO comfy :3

bunnie mode 🐇🐰

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hopping into bed

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dad who learns to make all her favourite meals exactly how she likes them x little girl who's figured out how to get daddy to make the funniest noises during their special special playtime

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I talked to your stuffy and he said you have to jerk me off with him. He said you have to do it or he's gonna go away for a long, long time. I know you love him a lot baby, that's why you have to do it

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hangin out

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Dad > Daddy

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bunnie mode 🐇🐰

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