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[lara-the-little-fox]

I will ether one day become the

“Overprotective parent who is also a communist”

Or

“The cool parent who’s also a communist”

And I dare any of you loons to stop me. I’ll organize the workers motherucker

[lara-the-little-fox]

Guy guys guys guys! Water is magic!!!! I knew it!

[lara-the-little-fox]

You could talk to mom and Mabye she’ll understand that you can’t eat fast

hi paca, for some reason it’s hard for me to eat when there’s too much of one flavor in my mouth (for example i can’t drink too much water too fast) and my mom gets mad cause i eat slowly and that makes me sad because if i eat too quickly it’s uncomfortable :(

You can only eat as you do. Some people eat fast and mix flavours with no problem. Others need to keep it separate and eat slow. I know both types of people and there is nothing wrong with it. You're you and there's nothing wrong with that.

[lara-the-little-fox]

Master post for caregivers!

Here i will link posts i think are helpful for new (or not) caregivers! 

Tips for being a mommy (not mine)

Having a little with anxiety (not mine)

Tips for new caregivers (not mine)

Long Distance Relationship helpful posts (not mine)

For caregivers and littles LDR (not mine)

SFW Resource list for caregivers (includes tips for: caretaking, activities, recipies) (not mine)

Bedtime tips LDR (not mine)

Rewards for littles 

Ideas for SFW rules LDR

Routines for littles LDR

More routines (not mine)

The Do’s and Don’ts for caregivers (not mine)

Little Speech Translations For Frustrated Caregivers (not mine)

Bedtime stories for littles (not mine)

Keep a little in little space (not mine)

[lara-the-little-fox]

Dawww, what a cutie. Heartwarming to see

Picture book “Bear”

[lara-the-little-fox]

Just gave little me some time on her baby bottle, she’s doing so much better now than she was before. Yesterday and this morning were rough on her, so much so that her pacifier and sippy cup did nothing. But the bottle always works if all else fails.

[lara-the-little-fox]

A smile chart for tasks is a good way to go, this is Lara’s. (My little bean) and if she gets all smiles on 1-3 for the rest of this week she can buy a stim toy online, any toy she likes within reason.

Being that she has a really hard time feeding herself anything but junk food this is helping a ton.

[lara-the-little-fox]

An idea for your chore/job/behavior sheets! Use different faces to express how well the job/behavior was done. I didn’t take a walk today or make my breakfast, so they both get frowns (ignore scribbles I make mistakes). But I was very well behaved at work so I got a smile!

Shower and brush teeth is still empty because I’m filling this out prior to bathtime.

Hope someone gets good vibes out of this.

[lara-the-little-fox]

The factory I work at has grey floor, white walls, white ceiling, bright lights (sensory hell) and few fans so it’s hot as fuck all the time.

If we ran the show it would be different.

[lara-the-little-fox]

I’m in this odd reality where I’m learning to reparent myself and that involves watching parenting videos online and it’s working.

Life is strange, kids.

[lara-the-little-fox]

These are great!

Heyo, I had a question I was told you might be able to help with. So I went through a LOT of trauma as a kid, and agere seems to be helping me to deal with the stress. To prevent anyone from looking it up or being triggered I won’t say what happened out in the open. So basicly, tips for traumatized flips? I’m a little amd function as a CG. However I sadly have nobody to take care of at the moment, in time it will happen.

I'm not a flip, but here's some posts I have linked that hopefully can help you!

How To Get Into Big Space - this is helpful for if you ever end triggered and want to ease out of your regression.

Finding Safe Media to Watch - avoid triggering media

Helpful Links for Anxiety - from @/sheisrecovering

Learn Mindfulness - from @/thelatestkate

Posts for Smols Who are Struggling

Let me know if you need more! I hope these help!

[lara-the-little-fox]

Also quick thing, why are sippy cups “””for kids”””. Like if adults wanted to be stupid they could just call them “anti-spill cups” but aparently to feel mature they need the ability to spill their drinks.

My floor has no soda on it, nether does my desk or my hammock. Because I’m a reasonable person who uses a sippy cup instead of a tall bowl.

[lara-the-little-fox]

Two communist falling in love is called a romcom (romantic communist).

[lara-the-little-fox]

I don’t care if I’m 21 years old, if I want to use a sippy/anti-spill cup I will and nobody can stop me.

What are you gunna do? Knock over my drink?

[lara-the-little-fox]

Big thanks, honestly when you said. “Yup... THAT one.” It really hit me.

I don't know who needs to hear this but

That bad memory?

Yup... That one.

Not your fault. You didn't deserve that. You didn't bring it upon yourself.

And I love you. You're not broken.

[lara-the-little-fox]

this user age regresses due to trauma

[lara-the-little-fox]

So I have a question if anyone can help.

I just got my pacifier and it’s in my mouth and I love it but I don’t know the rules. Like am I allowed to chew it a little? Can I watch my cartoons with it? I’m very new to this