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sometimes i think about the fact that there are tme trans people on this site who will willingly misgender themselves because apparently being "AFAB" and not passing is more important to them than their actual internal gender identity and hang out with actual cis terfs who absolutely dont respect them for who they are and dont even respect them as human beings, all for the sake of. what. being mean to women? aren't you sad? doesn't this make you sad?

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stupid

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cracker being considered a slur on twitch is wild. such a harmless word but I guess some white people are soft and brittle.. reminds me of one of my favorite snack foods

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map of US social and cultural regions i made that you can use if you want to start a fight

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Ppl love when the base affects the superstructure but the second the superstructure affects the base everyone loses their shit.

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ecological problems of colonialism also have more to do with the exploitative nature of colonialism than with foreigners lacking an elf-like connection to the land imo

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tumblr users love the immigrant reserve army of labor

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transandrophobia is the skinnyshaming of gender

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I don't care who you are get comfortable with the fact that you have privilege over some people and groups

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you dont have to be a parent to understand the horror of walking into a room to discover that the baby crawled out of his crib and onto that pottery wheel you forgot to turn off, and while the baby is spinning around and around, the dog is sitting there all calm, like a person, gently using his paws to fashion the babys soft cartilage head into something a little more modern.  it might be the classic tale of bad parenting, but lets see where the dog is going with this

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Talking about racism always summons at least one white person who feels the need to be like "I was racist once" like ok man. Thanks

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Another day another adventure for the postwoman

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purchasing products is not a hobby you dumb yankee fuck

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before I go though, I do wanna point out how crazy extremely normalized transmisogyny and excusing it is on this website that transfems are literally constantly dealing with harassment, threats, and worse from other users of the site, including trans users, just for existing and annoying the wrong people, getting their blogs deleted without recourse due to transphobic mass reportings; but these open transmisogynists who are literally constantly engaging in and organizing this punitive transphobia and hate against transfems and their allies rarely if ever face any kind of moderation action, and never any lasting consequences or acknowledgment from the rest of the user base. the transmisogynists of this website feel so safe and secure in their transmisogyny that not only do they publicly and happily organize this behavior from their followings, but even celebrate when it comes to fruition and they successfully misgender and scare people away from gender experimentation like 2014 transmeds. because “of course it’s just a man lying about his identity to get away with bigotry, why are you calling me a terf? would a terf say that?😂”

every other day i see otherwise normal, jokey posts with tens of thousands of notes from guys like this and have to not freak out because no one else realizes or cares that op publicly sexually harassed trans women, baselessly called a trans woman a pedophile to an audience of thousands out of irritation with her, or worse.

at what point can we seriously start reckoning with the fact that this website, and it’s non transfem user base, have a serious, dangerous transmisogyny problem and start taking literally any actions to recognize and challenge transmisogyny and stand with trans women for once

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the worst thing about US egg crisis was that through their imperialist influence they bought eggs from us although our inflation is high as fuck and we already dont have enough and US got the quality ones while the remaining for us are the ones that didn't pass the quality test. and also stuff happened in yanKKKland i guess

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fuck I want back in. I don’t care if I’m speaking to a brick wall

Both me and my mother are stuck with this label of broken and battered women. we’ll flinch if you drop a pencil, any voice above 70db will probably make us cry, its totally normal your partner only ever negs you we just can’t handle conflict

We’re these paranoid hysterical man-haters projecting our trauma onto all these good and innocent boys who just want to be boys

But like, I love men plenty - I just don’t want to fuck them

and I maybe don’t love you

my uncle was an incredible man, my cousins have found wonderful and supportive husbands, I’ve seen young fathers tested with what should be villain origin stories come out the other side still compassionate

When I was desperate for a father figure my drum teacher all but raised me. When I was suicidal my highschool art teacher did everything he could for me - we both openly wept when I had to drop out, I should really email him

The girls felt safe enough around him to jokingly flirt - they’d giggle while he (white as a sheet & full sweat) firmly set the boundary

but still tried not to shame them

and begged them not to do it again

His only real misplay was that it was way too funny to do it again - I wonder how his hairline is doing

His coworkers spent their classes leering at the dance unit’s chests - no one was surprised when those headlines eventually came

Of all the men I love I really don’t think they’re all emasculated, effeminate, whipped soy beta cucks. They were ideals I aspired towards, ideals I still find myself chasing after

They’re confident, reliable, emotionally secure, they keep their ego in check, they don’t take themselves too seriously, they also cry they struggle they get depressed, they have bad and stressful days/ weeks/months.

They are very complete beings. They aren’t some pastiche - some caricature

Paramount: They embody a personal responsibility. They are aware of their position in patriarchal sexism and try to de-center.

They still fuck up plenty, they have blind spots, they forget, make some really funny assumptions

But it’s without malice and it’s very easy and casual to correct them ( <- important!!)

It’s not that masculinity is evil its that it’s not beyond question/ interrogation. It’s a privileged position due to the structures of power and like any privilege if left unchecked it can fester

Just like the white and the rich need self awareness to keep from being shitty so too do the masculine - like, obviously right?

We’ve been trimming away the rot for the past few decades and in the process we’ve been uncovering something really quite beautiful

I can’t really understand wanting the rot back unless you just want your turn

If your gender euphoria is so strongly anchored to the toxic parts of masculinity I find your interpretation pretty shallow and think you could benefit from some introspection

Self reflection isn’t this violent cruel ask- it’s a mirror being held up not a loaded gun. It’s as universally beneficial as a hydration check.

If you really can’t meet your reflections eyes are you absolutely certain it’s solely due to dysphoria

Please don’t let cis men dogwalk y’all like this, I promise there’s plenty to love about you