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[lilregressor]

please remember to be kind to regressors & caregivers who struggle with things you may see as "scary", "wrong", or "rude".

the ones with NPD, the ones with ASPD, the schizo-spec ones, the ones with low or no empathy, the ones who are blind to social cues/societal norms, etc.

as someone who struggles with several of these things, it's easy to feel unwanted & underepresented sometimes, especially in a community where you're kind of expected to be a happy, kind optimist. you have the power to change that!!

don't derail if you dont struggle with this.

[lilregressor]

i think in general, it would be nice for the agere community to remember that age regression is primarily associated with abused or traumatized children as both a natural coping mechanism and a reflection of developmental delays

and this is to say that everyone can regress, absolutely, but please have more kindness for regression being difficult for many. for a while now regressors like us have been thrown under terms like impure, vent, trauma, etc. and have been shoved out of tags and sent a message that our regression is secondary to the happy go lucky soft baby regression people want to see

and its fine if thats what you want. just have some compassion in your heart for the kids who are struggling. maybe your inner child is, too. for DID/OSDD littles who only exist because of trauma and often are dealing with a horrific reality.

regression IS difficult, upsetting, traumatizing, dysfunctional. it is also happy, fun, safe, rewarding. all of these things are true of regression and we dont need to separate it semantically. if you dont want to see the kids who are hurting, maybe unpack why that is. and if youre hurting, youre not impure or whatever other term people come up with to section you off with

love yourselves and others in turn, and it'll make for a better community :}

- mama K

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Please interact with this post if you're a trans or gender non-conforming age regressor/age dreamer so that we can all see we're valid members of our community who aren't alone!

🩵🩷🤍🩵🩷 💛🤍💜🖤 💜🤍💚

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Big Bird

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bluey stampz!!!! :3💙🧡💙🧡

(all my stamps are free to use. credit isn't needed, but if you want to credit me, please put #scrambly stamps in your post if you are using these. credit isn't necessary, but appreciated!)

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hate how much people in agere communities use word nonverbal to mean temporary speech loss . there is much ableism that find in those communities and reason why never feel comfortable despite have agere episodes . 

nonverbal is not word for temporary state . when use nonverbal in this way , that really hurt people like gwydion self who live nonverbal life . please use words like speech shutdown , speech loss , lose words , or others . 

semiverbal not replace , because semiverbal also is permanent state . 

AAC talk is not choice , and not equal to baby talk . baby talk purposely misspell for appearance and comfort , AAC use is something can not change . when someone like gwydion complain that baby talk is very hard read , not at all OK to say " AAC is too , so just type better or else hypocrite " . yes , this happen before .

please , please , please do not assume someone is in agere community just for how talk and " act " . with moderate and severe brain disabilities , even adults can need child level material some or all of time . that do not make child , or even guarantee child safe . 

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monpoké is a japanese line of pokémon themed baby products ! as of yet they are japanese exclusives .

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tw// eating disorder talk, binge eating specifically

i don't see enough posts about regressors who struggle with lesser known eating disorders, specifically compulsive eating, or as it's more well known as, binge eating.

yes, binge eating IS in fact an eating disorder, a medically recognized one, typically referred to as BED (binge eating disorder).

so, to all my regressor friends out there who struggle with binge eating, i see you, i love you. i've struggled with compulsive eating since my early days in high school. it's hard, but we will get through it one step at a time.

eating disorders do not have a size. not everyone with an ED under-eats or is underweight. not everyone with an eating disorder has anorexia or bulimia. many of us binge, we overindulge, we are overweight. please include us in your positivity and activism. we often feel so excluded in ED discussions because we are left out.

non-BED havers are encouraged to reblog this, just don't derail in the notes. i will slap you.

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josuyasu but Okuyasu carries bandaids around for Josuke all the time and he starts getting really cutesy ones just to embarrass him a little bit meanwhile Josuke treasures them dearly and could not even be embarrassed because his best bro got them special just for him

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i think agere spaces online still have a lot of work to do in terms of ACTUALLY being normal about regressors who do things seen as "strange", "wrong", or "different". lets see if you pass this simple test, if you do, congrats! you win a cookie. answer these questions;

are you normal about regressors who struggle with hypersexuality or do you think they're "impure"?

are you normal about fat regressors or are you secretly judging them in your head?

are you normal about vent regressors or do you think they aren't "pure enough" to regress?

are your normal about regressors who indulge in adult activities outside of their regression or do you view that as "wrong"?

are you normal about padded regressors or do you think to yourself "uh oh, an abdl..." when you see one?

are you normal about regressors who aren't white or do you get uncomfortable when they interact with you?

are you normal about trans regressors or are you misgendering them either in real life or in your head?

if you answered negatively to any of these questions, you have a lot of work to do.

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【If you self ship and/or age regress, please reblog this post!】

Looking for more self shipping / age regressing friends!!! (^v^)

DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU ARE YOUNGER THAN 18

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Happy (Clean Your) Water Bottle Wednesday

Friendly reminder to all littles and their CGs! Get together all your water bottles, sippies, and bottles. While you are at it, grab any pacis, teething toys, chewelry, and clean those too.

Make sure to pay attention to any straws or valves/seals that might come apart! Those are the parts that tend to get the yuckiest.

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30 days of Agere Moodboards Day 18: You're CG/ dream CG or free space (I chose free space, it's sea-themed!)

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Hi I am once again thinking about an agere con

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baby beau and big brother dylan!! pls reblog if u like!

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◜ ☄️𓂃 Things to do on Saturdays ‧ 🚀 ◞

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⧼ ☀️ ⧽ Play cutesy games like animal crossing or stardew! Maybe play some slightly bigger kid games like Minecraft and Roblox

⧼ 🌎 ⧽ Go outside! Even if its only in your yard, have some fun playing in the grass! ⧼ 🌙 ⧽ Don't like playing outside but like nature? Go out for a picnic with your friends or Significant other! ⧼ 🚀 ⧽ Take a trip to the zoo! Don't forget your camera! ⧼ ⭐ ⧽ Go see a movie at the theater! Don't have anything you like? Create a "Fake theater" at home! ⧼ 🛰️ ⧽ Spend time with your friends or Significant other. Cuddle, read, game, whatever! ⧼ ☄️ ⧽ Take a nap with your favorite stuffy ⧼ 🪐 ⧽ Have a little treat like a popsicle! Make sure to have good food too! ⧼ 🌌 ⧽ Try your hand at baking! Just make sure you're supervised ⧼ 🌙 ⧽ Go out and stargaze. If you're not somewhere where its easy for you, try to walk somewhere darker and look for constellations! ⧼ 🚀 ⧽ Put on your little cap, and draw a picture for your CG! ⧼ ⭐ ⧽ In the same thought, Try out finger painting! Just make sure its washable paint, and you're in clothes you don't mind getting messy in!

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Fact ODT: This post was written as a bubby appreciation post!