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You survived this. Even with clenched fists and gritted teeth and neverending wounds, you survived this. I hope you remember that on the mornings when you feel worthless and small. You were given an impossible mountain to climb, and you climbed it to get to the other side.

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This user is a mentally healthier person than they used to be.

Reblog if you are too. There is hope.

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“Do it scared” but please realize that, if you Do It Scared too much and don’t let yourself rest + relax + have fun in between, you will fuck yourself up. If you “do it scared” all day every day, you will burn out badly and quickly. Sometimes this is temporarily necessary but please keep this in mind.

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Happy diwali to everyone who's celebrating, loads of love to you 💙🎇🪔

To those who are not celebrating, for whatever reason it may be, loads of love to you too - I really hope you have a good day 💙💙💙

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wait do people read first person stories and think they're the ones in the story???

Saw people talking about not liking first person, which is fair, but their reasoning was like "I would not do that" and I don't understand that mindset.

First person stories are still about a character. A character making their own decisions. First person isn't about you???? At least I thought it wasn't. What am I missing? I've always seen first person as just a more in-depth look into a character's mind and stricter POV. Not as a reader stand-in.

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Love without Sex

I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.

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Write for yourself first. Write what you like and be in love with what you create. Readers who will love it as well will just follow naturally.

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@chaliyaaa <3

If you guys are like me, and you struggle a little with describing locations, can I suggest…

as a lifesaver.

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"i would die for you" this, "i would kill for you" that. what about "i would live for you" what about i would smile for you, find joy in small things for you, i would endure, hope, survive, thrive for you. i would dive head first into this unknown, terrifying inkwell known as existence for you.

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To love and to be loved<333

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if you tag me in a chain post and i don’t do it it’s not because i hate you it’s because i am very lazy. i love you thank you for tagging me.

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Hey beautiful human seeing this, if you ever need someone to talk to, about anything - my asks / dms are open okay ?

You are so loved 💙

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How can this character be dead, if there are 40k stories on AO3 telling me otherwise?

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This is the magic lucky word count. Reblog for creativity juice. It might even work, who knows.

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"I'd destroy the world to protect you" but it's a parent/child relationship

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Listen to me: You get good at things by being bad at them. You learn by failing. You gain competency and a sense of mastery by failing at something many times and in many interesting ways.

The sooner you are able to laugh at your own failures, to enjoy the process of messing up, the easier life will be. Because you'll no longer be afraid of learning.

And once you're no longer afraid of failing, you can learn anything.

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Not to sound like a 90s shallow prep, but how you dress can affect your self esteem, and putting energy into wearing things you actively like and projecting an ideal of yourself through fashion instead of seeing clothes as things you have to put on out of obligation helps.

It also can give you a sense of control over your appearance that you otherwise wouldn’t have lmao