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Commission of the Doot for Ben.

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Danny ♡ he's a bit messy but cute

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im capable of being normal about a cartoon character from 2011

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hi yeah so ive been watching dan vs and im very compelled by their polyamory

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here's my cat for your dash btw. if you even care

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i like the teachers from enstars

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Bane having to do anything relative with spines is my favorite joke. lol.

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R.I.P. Malik Ali, the falafel vendor 💔

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This is ur flight attendant what do u do

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finished s5 of harley quinn…

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the smoochers

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do you ever think about how joker has the same build as the supermodels bruce wayne bangs (tall, freakishly skinny, skin barely stretched over bone)?

do you ever think bruce thinks about it too?

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Say what you mean as kindly and clearly as possible.

You might have the urge to hint at what you want instead of saying it outright.

You might want to withdraw and hope someone notices. Or perhaps to act cold or upset and hope they’ll ask what’s wrong. This is testing if they care by making them guess, and it isn't really fair. To you or to them.

You deserve to ask for what you need.

Not through guilt, not through silence, not through passive aggression.

Those behaviors aren’t necessarily “bad” but they’re often survival responses we picked up along the way.

They don’t build the kind of connection we actually want. And they can damage our relationships.

Being direct can feel terrifying.

It can feel like rejection is guaranteed the moment we ask.

But healthy communication means giving people a real chance to show up for us and giving ourselves a chance to be heard.

You don’t have to be perfect at it.

Here are some examples:

“I feel off today and could use some support.”

“I’m feeling lonely. Can I call you?”

“I’m feeling insecure. Can you give me some reassurance?

You are allowed to speak clearly.

You are allowed to ask.

You are allowed to be understood.

You deserve to have your needs met. And your loved ones deserve to not have to guess at it.