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unpopular opinion but i don’t agree with people comparing islam to christianity and saying “they’re both just as bad”. like yeah fuck both religions, but islam is objectively worse as of 2025. most people calling themselves christian nowadays are not fundamentalists compared to muslims. i literally live in a christian country where church and state are not separate but the only christians that are a bit obsessed are 50 and over. like the average christian here will at worst be a bit of a judgmental asshole. people are not forced to participate in religious practices and they can still call themselves christians. also using the argument that “nuns cover themselves too” when criticizing the hijab is crazy because it is so so rare to see a christian who is a nun, unlike seeing a muslim woman wearing a hijab.

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I've said it once I'll say it a million times you guys have got to stop calling any old idiot online sexist a man because you're wrong like. A quarter of the time and when you're wrong it makes you look like clowns. 'Moid behavior' and it's a Man Identified Female- do you get it yet? Do you get that assigning behavior sets male or female is literally gender bullshit. That having a vagina doesn't make you immune to sending rape threats or saying stupid bullshit about women or being an abusive tool. That saying it does is dehumanizing and denies female people the full range of human behavior good and evil?

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Can't wait to get out of here, fuckers are addicted to saying slurs

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last night i was having this vagina state of mind so i took a cab instead of walking home alone

last week i was having this vagina state of mind so i had to wash my sheets because i mentally bled on them

when i was born i unfortunately had this vagina state of mind so i was socialised like a girl and told people like me are inferior

and after all this time i realise i was just having the wrong attitude, the wrong state of mind!

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no offence but literally no one gives a fuck if you don’t feel included, sometimes certain spaces need to practice exclusion, this is not oppression and if it makes you feel invalidated then that’s a personal problem you must deal with

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What's with the weird aversion to creating your own space? Like with limited exceptions ie actual prisons, maybe bathrooms, single sex spaces are optional for women who want them. If you want a mixed sex space to talk about feminism or do sports or whatever than you can work to build those (good luck dealing with what happens when someone's innocent 12 year old son harasses someone's daughter in what you claim is supposed to be a safe space for female people of all ages. Oops.) but they'd rather take spaces away from people than do the work to make things to fit their needs.

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internet politics and real-world politics have gotten so separated, and pretty soon all this internet weirdness is gonna come crashing into real life and politicians are gonna start throwing around words like “SJW” and “anime communist” and “dark enlightenment” and it’s just gonna be the most ridiculous fucking thing

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If I were to poll the world’s women, particularly feminist, they’d all almost answer that the men they know personally are exceptions. Especially their husbands and sons. So what exactly is the problem? Why is feminism necessary and how is misogyny being perpetuated when you’re all empowered girl bosses with one of the good ones and a son raised to respect women? Do you know a single woman who would admit to being related to, married to, or a mother to a misogynist, let alone pedophile or rapist? I don’t. Somehow they still exist in the billions though. Who is oppressing you?

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Currently thinking about a post that kind of got to me. It was something along the lines of, 'if a woman has trauma from male bodies she should seek out therapy'. In a discussion about woman's shelters and it's like. Do you know what a woman's shelter is? Do you think those woman who just got out of domestic abuse situations are rolling around in resources to get 1 on 1 therapy? Oh yeah, the main focus of the woman who just got raped and is functionally homeless because she shared a lease with her abuser and she's afraid he will kill her... Should be to find a personal therapist to get over penises reasonably freaking her out. Meanwhile I guess she'll live on the streets because there's no place for someone like her I guess. Great system. Extremely functional.

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Remember being 11 and finding out in 100 degree heat that you're not allowed to wear a tank top because your shoulders might entice the menfolk who might be consumed by their lust upon seeing your shoulder? Remember how many times you heard that males couldn't control themselves around females they were attracted to, that your body was an object of temptation for them in a way that theirs wasn't for their het counterparts? Remember the first time you heard a female person's genitalia be compared to roast beef or a broken lock or a million other things because having sex 'ruins' them?

You ever feel like killing?

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People who identify as gay because their attraction to the opposite sex “feels queer” don’t understand that gay people do not feel like that. Our attraction doesn’t feel weird to us, it feels normal and natural. The thing that feels weird to us is seeing society treat something that comes to us so naturally as perverse and strange.

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Spin this wheel first and then this wheel second to generate the title of a YA fantasy novel!

(If the second wheel lands on an option ending with a plus sign, spin it again)

Share what you got!

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I visit a local gender clinic every now and then due to my detransition. Today the doctor asked me why am I dressed like this if I want to be understood as a woman.

I was wearing combat boots. (They are very practical from September to June.)

I was wearing cargo pants. (My last pair lasted several years in daily use.)

I was wearing a plaid shirt. (It cost 3€ at flea market.)

I had a buzz cut. (My hair care routine takes less than five minutes every two weeks.)

Which of these things contradicts my womanhood? How much discomfort and impracticality should I endure to look like a "woman"?

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Huh. Another case where they straight up don't relate to actual women too- there's no empathy for the woman or connection outside of her aesthetic value. I can almost guarantee that there were women in OPs life, mothers, coworkers, employees, peers, but they're all humans outside of the redditer's attraction to them. They can't be turned into the false pristine feminine image that the Redditor really wants.

Holy shit these people are actively supporting fetishization under the name of "transgenderism"

Also the OP is quite a famous lesbian fetishizer on reddit, absolutely disgusting that these kind of people are allowed to call themselves women

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Hi! I have every disease! Do you want one?

How about you follow me to this special room

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i think its kinda funny whenever theres a poll about lesbians having issues with bi women being homophobic its all like ohhh theyre trying to drive ssa women apart, youre biphobic if you have prejudice against bisexual women you think we're dirty and tainted blah blah blah. and then on the "For bisexual women: would you date a lesbian?" poll it was crickets in the notes because lesbians don't give a shit if someone doesn't want to date them and are normal about it lmfao

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smh…

a “choice” isn’t “feminist” by virtue of a woman or a self-identified feminist making a choice. me choosing to watch TV while being a woman doesn’t make TV-watching “feminist.” it would be a mistake to say my watching TV is “wrong,” but i’m certainly not rosa parks for turning on my fave episode of spongebob. feminism is a political project that seeks to disrupt, upend and abolish the regime of heterosexual ideology and male supremacy. one’s “personal choices” aren’t tantamount to revolutionary action simply because a choice was made; the result and impact of the “choice” must be assessed upon whether or not it furthers the real, objective, political project of, again, disrupting, upending and abolishing the regime of heterosexuality and male supremacy.

why do male marxists get this but u girlies don’t. c’mon now. if you said something silly like “i am a worker and i like oranges so my choosing to eat oranges is a marxist act” you would not be taken seriously because no one treats the ideologies that benefit men like a lifestyle magazine. i love eating a juicy grapefruit myself but wtf does that do for owning the means of production my good sis? now apply that same level of political sophistication and rigor to feminism. the tectonic and foundational threat that feminism poses to a centuries-long system of male power is precisely why the world tries to suppress it by reducing it to a toy that can be played with, or a product to be sold, or a lifestyle choice that impacts nothing but the endorphins in your head. idc if i keep beating a dead horse like an insane person it’s time to get woker and the time to get woker is NOW. 🤫