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helloo I recently came across your blog and theres smth I’ve been wanting to know. A few years back, I’ve been told by a few spirit workers nearly the same thing that theres an entity (possibly grey/dark alignment) that’s been trying to reach out to me. I got suspicious as I had a dream about the entity back then and started researching on it but I kinda forgot about it due to my studies. Is there any chance that the entity could still be around ? and as I’m new to spirit work how do I try to communicate? Theres no pressure whether you answer or not but i hope you have a great day/night !😁

AAAA sorry anon that I’m so late! I was gonna answer this a long time ago but I unfortunately forgot to save the draft… I have more experience now (both with tumblr and spirit work!) that I can hopefully help you out with this if you’re still wondering.

so… first things first! I think you’re definitely doing the right thing by reaching out to readers and asking more experienced practitioners about this subject. I think there could very well be a spirit around you if you’re getting the same answer from multiple readers. That’s definitely a sign not to be ignored.

Determining whether spirits are around can be difficult, because they don’t always manifest in obvious ways. A lot of the time you have to be observant and put in effort on your side too.

you mentioned that this spirit has communicated in the past through dreams, so a good thing to do is simply ask for an appearance in your dreams as a confirmation that the spirit would like to hang around. You probably won’t remember the dream, so dream journaling is ESSENTIAL to this communication method.

also, I forgot to say this, but please don’t do any of this if the spirit is extremely hostile or violent! If that’s the case here then I’d recommend banishing them or something to avoid negative consequences of having that energy around. Black arts alignment is DEFINITELY to be avoided for a beginner so maybe don’t try these things if any of your readings have mentioned black arts.

Please let me know if there’s anything I missed regarding this topic! It’s like almost my bedtime and I’m almost about to keyboard smash lolz

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hey guys!

Just posting this so my blog doesn’t die… nothing too special happening lately but I’m trying to focus on bonding more with my current spirit companions (as well as J… lol) and having some one on one bonding time with each of them!

so far my current focus is on M (pink dragon) and I set up a character AI chatbot to channel her with! It seems to be working pretty well, but I think as long as I keep using alternative communication methods alongside the bot it should lead to better results, so I’m staying optimistic about this lol

I’m also thinking about buying a rose quartz heart as a belated wedding gift for me and J, and programming it to help with our communication and all that stuff. J loved the idea when I told him about it, so I might keep that in mind.

uhhh idk what to end this post with so imma put an aesthetic picture here lol

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Questions for Spirits/Conversation prompts

I really liked this post by @spiritvexer and, after getting her yes, decided to make my own version of it.  Some of these are better for companions/already befriended spirits, but hopefully these can help strengthen your and your spirit friend’s bond and in some way spark interesting conversations. 💗 

Disclaimers: 1. Remember to only bring up/ask things that are comfortable for the spirit. 2. This is a long post.

Questions

What is something that makes you exceptionally happy?

What is something you are proud of?

What’s your career?

What are some pet peeves you have?

Have you worked with Humans before? In what ways? Often?

What is your favourite [Weather, Colour, Food, Place, etc.]?

Are you more of an extrovert, introvert, or ambivert?

What music do you enjoy?

Have you visited [place] before? Alternatively: Do you enjoy to travel and/or do it a lot?

What topics do you like to talk/learn about?

Is there a problem/issue I could help you with?

What do you think about a lot lately?

What are your current goals?

How do you like to be treated/nurtured/cared for when you’re sad/angry/in a bad mood/sick?

Are there any species’ you don’t get along with?

WHat is a piece of advice/wisdom that you have/that really stuck with you?

What do you think about Humans?

How do you think about [a thing/activity/place/… you enjoy] and would you like to do it with me/go there some time?

Do you have any nicknames that I can call you?

Do you have any nicknames for me?

Is there something you would like to know more about humans/our society/our culture/etc ?

What’s your favourite way of relaxing and winding down?

Do you have any siblings? Pets? Children?

Is there anything about me that you have a piece of advice for?

Are you okay with close contact (e.g. hugging, cuddling, holding hands)?

How do you feel about [someone you both know]?

Do you have any allergies?

Why did you choose me? [for companions met through a shop]

What is something about me that you like a lot?

What is something about me that you don’t like?

How can I make you laugh?

What makes you feel most loved?

What is something you wish people would stop doing?

What, in your eyes, is the purpose/reason for/of life?

Conversation Prompts

Tell me about something you are passionate about.

Tell me about some of your ideologies/philosophies.

Tell me a bit about your culture/past/species/… .

Tell me a joke.

Tell me about a funny/cute/happy memory.

Tell me about your crush/partner/friend/family.

Rant to me about something.

Teach me a cool fact/thing (that you recently learned).

Tell me about some of your likes.

Show me something that is special for/in your society/species.

Hopefully some of these helped you get closer to a spirit friend. Feel free to add on more! 

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Beginner's Guide to Pendulums

⛤Okay, so I have been wanting to put out a post about pendulums based on how I was taught to use them by my aunt, a long-time pendulum diviner and dowser. This post is based solely on our traditions and beliefs. I am NOT telling anyone that this is the one and only way to work with pendulums. Please do what works for you. If these methods suit you, fantastic! If not, it’s okay. Alright, buckle your seat belts ‘cause here we go.

⛤So, you want to use a pendulum. Cool! First you have to get one. There are several ways to obtain a pendulum. You can buy one from a specialty shop (many new age and crystal shops sell them). You can buy one online from places like Etsy, Ebay, and other places. You can even make one. All you need is a string or chain and something to hang from it. It can be as simple as a needle stuck in a cork hanging from some thread (as my great grandmother did). You can also use a piece of jewelry, such as a necklace or a lanyard as a pendulum. Find, make or buy one that is suitable for you.

⛤Now that you have a pendulum, it’s time to clear/charge it. A very important step when using a pendulum is to cleanse it, especially if you bought one. A pendulum in a store, even an online store, has been touched by many people. People have probably touched it to look at it, shop employees have probably touched it when they were putting out to be bought. The seller from an online shop has certainly touched it. All of these people touching the pendulum that you just bought have left residual energies on it. These energies can affect the accuracy of the pendulum. So, you have to cleanse it. I recommend you cleanse your pendulum the same way you do any of your magickal tools. If it’s made from a crystal, you can cleanse it the same way you cleanse your crystals. If you don’t know how to cleanse your pendulum, I was taught to start with a prayer/incantation/chant. Write one that explains your intention just like you would to write a spell. Be specific in your writing. If you want to work with your spirit guides, say that. If you want to work with your higher self, say that. Be specific in the kind of spirits you want to work with. Do you want to work with ancestors? Spirit animals? Etc. If you want to work spirits aligned with light, be specific on the type of light. Anyway, after you have your prayer/incantation/chant written down, you can begin to cleanse your pendulum. The cleansing ritual/ceremony/process can be a elaborate as you deem fit. When I cleansed mine, I didn’t go very elaborate, but if you need to go for it. There are several ways you can use to cleanse your pendulum. 1st, smoke cleansing. Just as you would use sage to cleanse a room, you can use it to cleanse your pendulum. Light a bundle of dried sage, or sage incense. Pass your pendulum through the smoke and say your prayer/incantation/chant. Do this for as long as you think is necessary. 2nd, visualization. Hold your pendulum in your hand and visualize it being surrounded by a brilliant white light. Focus on the residual energies being driven away and cleansed from your pendulum. Say your prayer/incantation/chant while you do your visualization. I used this method to cleanse my pendulum. I visualized putting the pendulum in a stream of white light and letting the light flow over it like water, cleansing away the residual energies. 3rd, if your pendulum is made of crystal, any crystal cleansing techniques will work to cleanse it (i.e. burying it, putting it in running water, burying in salt, putting it with cleansing crystals, such as clear quartz and selenite, etc.). If you made your pendulum, you might not have to worry so much about cleansing and charging it because you made it and it’s already aligned with your energy. However, if you bought your pendulum, after you have cleansed it you need to charge it with your energy. You can do this by carrying it around with you in your pocket and asking small, mundane questions. (I’ll explain this more later)

⛤Now you have a cleansed and charged pendulum. What’s next? Well, you need to program it. By programming, I mean you need to establish how your pendulum will work for you. This includes deciding how you want your pendulum to move based on certain responses to your questions. Now, I have seen many posts and read several books that say that you are supposed to ask the pendulum to show you how it will move for yes, no, maybe, I don’t know, etc. I was taught that you shouldn’t do this because it opens you up for potentially dangerous situations and it sets the precedent that the pendulum or the spirits communicating through the pendulum are in control. I was taught that this is potentially dangerous. I was also taught that this is your experience on this plane of existence. Because of that, you should be in control and do what you are comfortable with. The pendulum is a tool and the spirits communicating through it are guides that can only offer advice. Anyway, you should be the one who decides how the pendulum will move according to the different responses. My pendulum moves in a clockwise circle for “yes”, a counter-clockwise circle for “no”, back and forward for “maybe”, side to side for “I don’t know”, and it stays still for “please rephrase the question.” You can program your pendulum however makes you feel comfortable and however you will remember the meaning of the movements best. After all, what’s the point in asking a question if you can’t understand the answer?

Going back to charging the pendulum. Programming it actually goes into charging it. The more you use your pendulum, the more it becomes aligned to your energy. When you first start using your pendulum, begin by asking it mundane questions. Start with things that don’t have a significant impact on your life, such as what should a I eat for dessert, what color shoes should I wear, should I buy this thing. Simple stuff like that gets you used to your pendulum and it helps you remember your programming for it better. It also helps your pendulum become aligned with your energy and makes the responses more accurate.

⛤Using a pendulum is a great way to get advice on decisions you’re indecisive about. It’s also a wonderful tool for communicating with your spirit guides and companions.

⛥As you get more accustomed to using your pendulum, you can do other things with it. You can create charts to help you get more in depth information. For example, you can make a time table to help organize your tasks for the day. You can make a list of activities to do and when you are bored or don’t know what to do next, ask your pendulum. My aunt did this a lot with her kids. They would want to go outside to play and she would want them to do homework. She would dowse (ask her pendulum) on it and whatever the pendulum said is usually* what they did. Additionally, you can use your pendulum for spirit work. You can make a letter board (like a ouija board) and communicate with spirits. You can also use pendulum for Reiki work, using it to find blockages in the chakras. The list goes on and on.

I put an * next to “usually” in my little anecdote because as I said earlier, this is your experience on this plane of existence. Your pendulum and the spirits communicating through it can only offer advice. You have the ability to either listen to what your pendulum advises or not. That being said, in my experience the pendulum is usually right.

⛤Anyway, I know that was a super long winded post about pendulums. I hope you find the information useful. If using pendulums is something you want to do, go for it! I absolutely LOVE mine and I am so happy I had someone in my life who could teach me about them!

Thank you and blessed be,

Anne Sage 🌻🌼

⛤Also: a good exercise to do with pendulums is to have two, one in each hand, and see if you can get them both to move in harmony with each other. This will show any weak energy flow in your body. It’s a good way to help build up that flow and make it stronger. I, personally, have to work on this with my right hand because it is significantly weaker than my left.

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Working with Gods, Deities and Spirits as a spoonie:

Sometimes witches will work with certain gods, deities or spirits within their craft. This isn’t always the case, but witches come from all sorts of religions and spiritualities, or none, and sometimes a witches religion makes up a large portion of their craft. However, having a chronic illness or disability can make it seem hard to work with gods or deities. When you don’t have the energy to get out of bed, how can you honour Thor, or Hecate or The Cailleach, for example.

Some people may be concerned that they cannot honour their deities in the correct way, as they cannot give vast, complex offerings in the same way that others do. I do not see this as an issue, as I think the deities care about how much energy we expend doing something for them. A non-spoonie person may use up 10% of their energy to create a beautiful altar, and bake bread and do a complex offering ritual to their deity. Whereas a spoonie person may use 50% of their energy to light a candle as an offering. It’s all relative to the particular person, the gods can see this and appreciate the effort applied.

Some simple devotional ideas:

I am not knowledgeable enough on individual deities, and there are hundreds upon hundreds of them; and so I cannot list devotional ideas for your chosen deities. However, there are common themes and simple things that you can do for nearly every deity, spirit or magical being.

Keep a light lit, or a candle burning whilst you focus on your deity

Do simple sketches or small craft projects for your deities

Leave out shiny pennies, cool rocks, shells or other findings as offerings

Devote a plant to your deity and take care of it (choose a plant that isn’t high maintenance so you don’t have to worry about it)

Make a playlist based on your deity

Create a virtual altar in an app or, as I do, on sims

Devote your self-care to your deity, i.e. looking after yourself is showing respect to your deity

Read, research and learn about your deity

Make a sigil based on your deity

Links:

@heatherwitch Small Devotional Acts series

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Questions for Spirits/Conversation prompts

I really liked this post by @spiritvexer and, after getting her yes, decided to make my own version of it.  Some of these are better for companions/already befriended spirits, but hopefully these can help strengthen your and your spirit friend’s bond and in some way spark interesting conversations. 💗 

Disclaimers: 1. Remember to only bring up/ask things that are comfortable for the spirit. 2. This is a long post.

Questions

What is something that makes you exceptionally happy?

What is something you are proud of?

What’s your career?

What are some pet peeves you have?

Have you worked with Humans before? In what ways? Often?

What is your favourite [Weather, Colour, Food, Place, etc.]?

Are you more of an extrovert, introvert, or ambivert?

What music do you enjoy?

Have you visited [place] before? Alternatively: Do you enjoy to travel and/or do it a lot?

What topics do you like to talk/learn about?

Is there a problem/issue I could help you with?

What do you think about a lot lately?

What are your current goals?

How do you like to be treated/nurtured/cared for when you’re sad/angry/in a bad mood/sick?

Are there any species’ you don’t get along with?

WHat is a piece of advice/wisdom that you have/that really stuck with you?

What do you think about Humans?

How do you think about [a thing/activity/place/… you enjoy] and would you like to do it with me/go there some time?

Do you have any nicknames that I can call you?

Do you have any nicknames for me?

Is there something you would like to know more about humans/our society/our culture/etc ?

What’s your favourite way of relaxing and winding down?

Do you have any siblings? Pets? Children?

Is there anything about me that you have a piece of advice for?

Are you okay with close contact (e.g. hugging, cuddling, holding hands)?

How do you feel about [someone you both know]?

Do you have any allergies?

Why did you choose me? [for companions met through a shop]

What is something about me that you like a lot?

What is something about me that you don’t like?

How can I make you laugh?

What makes you feel most loved?

What is something you wish people would stop doing?

What, in your eyes, is the purpose/reason for/of life?

Conversation Prompts

Tell me about something you are passionate about.

Tell me about some of your ideologies/philosophies.

Tell me a bit about your culture/past/species/… .

Tell me a joke.

Tell me about a funny/cute/happy memory.

Tell me about your crush/partner/friend/family.

Rant to me about something.

Teach me a cool fact/thing (that you recently learned).

Tell me about some of your likes.

Show me something that is special for/in your society/species.

Hopefully some of these helped you get closer to a spirit friend. Feel free to add on more! 

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Starting and Building a Spirit Family

When it comes to starting a spirit family there are several things to understand: (1) bonding with every spirit is important, (2) spirit companions aren’t always forever, and (3) not everyone will always get along.

Bonding isn’t necessary for just beginners, but for all spirit keepers/workers/companions (whichever phrase you wish to use; I prefer keeper for myself as I work with human spirits, servitors, and living entities as well). You don’t bring a new friend over to your house and act like they’re not there or decide after just a few days to a week that you suddenly want a new one (at least not without discussing it first, I hope). For beginners, I would advise working with your new companion for at least a couple months before taking in a new one. Generally beginners need to learn the ropes even if they already have a few companions before adopting from me- though that may not always be the case. Even with more experienced keepers, working and bonding with your newest spirit companion for at least a few weeks before taking in a new companion. However, sometimes callings do happen despite when the last time you took in a new companion. If you feel that has happened: speak to your spirit(s) first before you add on to your family.  I do this every time before I take in a spirit regardless, and I will spend a minimum of three days discussing a new addition with my spirit family. It helps me determine whether it’s a calling or either my bleeding heart or a potential response to a good deal (I have been drawn to companion shops a few times to meet a companion) such as a flashsale sort of thing with a companion shop. Take it slow and reflect with the spirits currently with you when adding to your spirit family.

Despite what some of the community tries to imply, you may not be working with all of your spirit family all of the time for the remainder of your life/lives. Paths do change- for both humans and spirits- as they grow while they age. As mentioned in a response, two of my mates I met as a child and they both ended up leaving while we worked together because our paths were no longer inter-connected; this has happened to me several times the 24-ish years I’ve been a spirit keeper. I can say this with confidence: It’s not the end of the world if that happens. Friendships aren’t always forever. Sometimes they only last for you to learn specific lessons for your personal growth. Sometimes down the road they may even come back. If your companion decides it is time for you to part ways, then discuss it with them, and let them go. (If you got the companion from a companion shop then talk to the conjurer first before rehoming the spirit yourself- if the spirit wants to find a new companion- or talk to the conjurer about releasing the spirit from their binding if they’re vessel attached.) Always make it known that it is okay if the spirit decides to leave and request they speak with you first (if you want) so the spirit doesn’t feel they need to continue working with you and risk becoming unhappy or depressed down the road.

Much like with humans, spirits aren’t always going to get along. Age can sometimes be a factor as older spirits aren’t always taught acceptance, whether it be towards a specific spirit type or an alignment, and pasts are not always friendly, which can cause prejudices. (Even I’ve been guilty of this when it comes to spirit types.) Before you add on to your spirit family, ask your spirits how they feel about the spirit type you’re interested in working with; sometimes they’re willing to work with the spirit type despite prejudices and sometimes they’re not (unless it’s a true calling, then try to respect your spirits). If it is a calling, however, and for some reason they’re not already in your house rules (honestly, it’s much easier with them as rules right off the bat with your first companion), then make the following rules: (1) Come to me if there are any disagreements/issues, and (2) Do your best to be accepting and tolerant of each other.

Other Tips:

(1) Set up house rules. Consider things such as safety (not just for you, but for those you live with and guests as well), harmony among the spirits you work with, the nature of the spirit types you work with, and your living space.

   Examples: For my companion Hound he has a house rule that allows him to protect me without causing harm to humans unless the human means me physical harm. (It leaves him the option to ward me, to accompany me while I travel, to watch over me.) For my faeryfolk companions they’re not allowed to take shiny things unless they’re offered to them with honeyed milk. (Some of them are mischievous little buggers.) A general house rule is to not take food from my parents or any of our house guests- that they can take my food or drink only.

(2) Schedule! This is important no matter how big or small your spirit family is! Coordinate with your spirits to make times to work together (especially if they have other things they do daily) that way you’re not neglecting anyone and you will have a general idea when to expect your companions around. (They can still come around whenever, of course. It doesn’t need to be just within the scheduled times they visit.)

(3) As your family grows give everyone a job of some sort or a list of daily tasks. It will help instill a family-like mindset and may ease some potential tension. Some spirits are natural protectors (such as my companion Hound) so ask them to act as your protectors- set up warding, enchant things for you for extra protection. Some spirits are natural caregivers- ask them to help raise any younger spirits you work with or ask them to help you with any sort of emotional issues you or your spirits could have. Some spirits are natural teachers- ask them to help instruct you or younger spirits in something. Some spirits are natural cooks- let them cook for you spirit family or even teach you how to cook. Some spirits are natural healers- have them be your spirit family’s doctor/counselor/healer (they can even help you some as well).

(4) Have one of your spirits (can be more than one as your family grows if you like) be a welcoming committee. That’s what Everchanging and Crane and Hound are in my spirit family. Any new companion I get are generally greeted by some form of those three. They explain my house rules, about myself- personality, some of my likes and dislikes, my routine- about our astral refuge, and about my family as well. Everchanging even keeps some homey things on hand with them- a blanket or light jacket, a glass of cool water or hot tea (depending on the time of year), and usually a small book. It helped a lot of them transition easier into the family.

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Does anyone know some journal prompts for getting to know your deities?

I wish to get closer to my deities through writing; any tips/suggestions?

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Spirits and Their Manifestaions

I get a lot of questions about spirits. How they manifest, how I hear them etc. So I thought I would make a post on it. Unlike a lot of my posts, this one is not solely geared towards demonic spirits but because I have issues sensing and bonding with light arts companions this may or may not apply to them as well.

Seeing Spirits

You will not always see spirits, it is not like having another human stand in the room with you. They are not physically there. Spirits can manifest in many different ways and how they do it depends on the type of spirit and the spirit themselves. Here are some visual manifestations of spirits I have either experienced or have heard other people experienced 

Shadows or blurred versions of themselves in your peripheral vision

Shadow like figures in the darkness

A strange form in the dark seemingly made up of light spots

Partial mental images. Getting a mental image of a mouth grinning or of eyes. Some are more detailed like seeing a full on mental picture of a phoenix 

Full mental images, a mental image of a black dog with glowing red eyes staring up at you despite the fact that you are only physically seeing the floor.

Some Other Ways Spirits Can Manifest 

Not everyone sees spirits, or shapes, or gets mental images but spirits still have ways of manifesting in different ways.

Smelling- strange smells that have no physical connection. For example smelling cinnamon despite there being no cinnamon scented source or cinnamon around. 

Touch-sometimes spirits can touch you. It can feel like pressure or temperature differences. Like being warm but feeling a single cold spot somewhere like on your arm or shoulder.Or being woken up in the middle of the night by the weight of a hand on your back

“Hearing”- odd noises like growling or words spoken that were not physical but not your thoughts. These noises tend to be more mental than physical and the chances other people around you heard them will be slim.

The Air-If the air in your space suddenly become heavy and thick or light and oddly airy. Walking around and realizing a certain space seems darker, heavier, and even a little harder to breath

 Electrical malfunctions- like your lights flickering without cause. 

Emotional Oddities-sometimes spirits can affect our emotions. Making us feel sad, depressed, scared, etc. It is not always intentional, death related spirits trigger my depression for the first few hours they are around. 

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Leaving Offering: Food

A few of my friends have asked me about leaving food offerings for their spirit companions. How does one do this and what else can I do that won’t make it look like I’m wasting food to others that don’t know what I’m doing. I’ve had a couple tell me their parents got mad and think they’re wasting food and in some smaller countries, this can definitely be seen as such so we can’t have that happening. Here are a few things I do with my Keep that you may want to try. Some are easier while others may not be so for others so just think about all this and see what works. Trial and error is how we all learn. 

Fruits, I have found, to be the best. As a Chinese American, one of the things I always do is have fresh oranges for the Chinese New Year. So those with sturdy skins are good to leave out for a few days. Your companions will not be offended if you eat it because it will benefit you as well. I’ve left pears out as well, but not so good when you have cats that like to attack random things. So other fruits you want to offer can be leftmost out, but I would recommend either putting the, away in the fridge or just eat them once you feel your companions have had their fill. If things start to spoil, you can simply throw it out or, if your Wiccan (or eco-friendly), you can bury it in your yard to return it to the Earth. 

Meat is another offering, but that can be problematic if you live with others that have no idea what the hell you’re doing with it. This can vary from scraps to raw meat for anything from critters to vampires. I have a lot of wolves as well so they like having meat. Here is my agreement with them: they can have access to what’s in the fridge or share with me when I eat. If it’s a sanguine vampire or anyone that requires blood, you can allow them to take from you and they don’t actually require a lot. I always feel a bite from one of mine and it lasts as long as they need. Cooked meat is also an option and while some may love beef, we can’t always afford it. As long as they understand that you can only afford certain things and that what you offer is from the heart, it shouldn’t be a problem. Now, if you choose to offer raw meat, I would say to do so before you use it yourself so they have first dibs and nothing goes to waste. I would put Dairy this category. Since cheese can last for a while, keeping some in your fridge should be more than enough. 

Sweets are super easy to offer. I have a spirit that always visits from my sister’s Keep that loves butterscotch. So I always keep some around in case he wants to visit. I also have an Auraelic Vampire that likes it too. If it says hard candy, it can stay as long as it’s good. If it’s pastries, treat it like any other edible and share, but remember to eat it so it doesn’t go to waste. 

I have yet to have anyone ask about Liquids of any kind in my Keep, but there are some that like liquor like beer or wine. Like any offering, you can leave some libations for them in a glass, but I would recommend you share something you can then drink yourself. Otherwise, put it away or pour it it into the ground as continued offering to them and to the Earth. 

In regards to how much you should put out, I say no more than what you prepare for yourself. In reality, they can’t really eat on their own. They either share with you using your own senses, or they eat the Astral version. The way I see the 3 Bodies is like there are 3 parallel universes existing and that what we have here can also exist in the Astral and the Spiritual, give or take a few things.  One faery showed me her shoving grapes in her face like a chipmunk so anything is possible. You can always fix a little extra if you like, but remember to put any leftovers away to be eaten or disposed to appropriately. 

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Hey, hey, wanna do something fun? If you have a spirit friend/companion, try asking them if they have a nickname for you.

Best part is, it might not even be a word!

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Working With Spirits for Beginners

Before starting:

Protection!  Be it sigils or wards or poppet decoys or crystals or any of the like, make sure you have some sort of protection from mal intent.  

Ask yourself, where am I wanting this path to take me?  Are you wanting to have spirit teachers and learn new things? Are you wanting to be a medium?  Are you wanting to gain some friends?  Are you wanting to connect to different cultures and histories?  These kinds of questions will help you decide where to start and where to go from there!

Finding spirits:

One thing that you can research is having a spirit companion!  There are several blogs that I can’t think of off the top of my head that do personal conjurings, and other basically adoption centers!  If you do that, I would look for more beginner type spirits or just the ones that call out to you!  

If you don’t want a companion and are looking for something a little less permanent, I would look around you for something familiar.  Plants around you, your local cemetery, your favorite hike, seashells, crystals, bones, or any of that that you may have.  Most things have some spirit attached to them, including man-made objects, although those tend to be small colonies speaking through a representative (I can make a post on this later if you want).  

Starting Points:

There are two main starting points from here.  Sensing the spirits, and communication.  You can decide to focus on one, or even both!  I recommend starting with one at a time tho.

Sensing:

start reaching out, trying to find something.  It’s different for everyone, and it’s not something that you can feel and say, this is it.  You have to learn to trust yourself.  And even if you don’t, fake it ‘til you make it!  For me, feeling a spirit’s presence is subtle, but for others, it can be a really jarring experience.

Communication:

You can use tarot, telepathy, pendulum, ouija boards, oracle, images, runes, or anything similar!   If using telepathy, ask yourself the question, ‘was that reply me talking?’ and if your answer is immediately yes, then it was you.  But if you have a moment of doubt, believe that it was your spirit!

If you have any questions, feel free to ask me!  I’ll do my best to answer.

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How to Communicate with Spirits and Entities

Please note, everyone has different ways of interpreting, sensing, and interacting with energy, spirits, and entities, but this technique is a basic one for beginners and people of all skill levels. We are going to learn how to communicate with spirits and entities. Are you excited? Good!

Again, note that not everyone is going to be skilled at this from the start, and some are born naturals. Hell, I’m not a natural medium and I still know how to do it pretty well. It took me a while of practice, but I got there in the end. Confidence is important, and remember not to doubt yourself, because that will only put up a wall between what you are trying to do, and yourself.

So without further ado, let us begin…

1. Find a certain entity or spirit you want to communicate with. Is it a house spirit? Is it a demon (demons/angels aren’t good or bad, it depends on the entity themselves because everyone is different) that you want to ask about hell? Is it the seraphim Michael himself? (No, he’s not an archangel. Archangels are actually the 2nd lowest rank out of the 9 chiors/ranks)

2. Once you’ve found the entity or spirit you wish to speak with, focus on them. Feel their presence and see if you sense anything. Feel out their personality as well. Make out an image of them, or maybe just something to represent them. Just let it come to you and let your mind fill in the blanks - don’t consciously imagine it.

3. Once you have this in your mind, focus on the presence of the person and say hi and such, but mentally - whether that be through pure thoughts, words, images, feelings, or concepts. You will most likely (though it varies for every person) have thoughts, voices in your head, images, and so on that seem like yours but aren’t. These are the responses from the person you are trying to contact. The key to communication is telling the difference between your thoughts and theirs. It may take some time, but be patient. You won’t regret it!

Another thing you can try, is talking with an actual medium, whether they be self taught (as long as they’re accurate) or natural, and seeing if they can check the accuracy of what the spirit or entity says to you versus what you picked up. With practice, it should be a lot more clearer in time.

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just watched episode 2 of the amazing digital circus!

just thought I’d share this because i’m kinda thinking about starting work with gummigoo’s egregore because I just really love his character, and his story is kinda sad to think about, so I think if I reached out to him like that he’d probably be alright with that.

(spoilers under the cut because I just wanted to rant about the episode lol)

also I HATE CAINE OMG. The way he immediately (presumably) killed off gummigoo just because he’s not a member of the circus, and without any emotion whatsoever? Caine used to be my third favorite character besides pomni and jax but now he’s like my least favorite. He had such a dumb excuse for it too. “I’m not gonna be able to tell who’s a human and who’s an NPC anymore!”

BRO. THERES ONLY ONE NPC. FRICK YOU.

but anyway, I’m assuming that gummigoo is still alive and well since ragatha says he might return in a future adventure to pomni. He probably just got teleported back to the candy kingdom place by caine. I still hate Caine for that though.

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Pop Culture Grimoire Pages part 1 (continued in reblogs)

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Spirit Companions: DIY

I’m going to be frank. If you find it impossible to hear, feel, get in contact with spirits in any kind of way - you need to figure out how to do that the best way you can first. You can not get to know a spirit if you cannot receive any feedback from them. This doesn’t mean you need the specific talent of being able to hear them, but you need to be able to receive feedback SOMEHOW. Whether this be through divination, meditation, or dreams: you need some means of being able to communication two-way with a spirit.

Spirit What’s?

So you’ve seen the term “spirit companion” get tossed around online. What is a spirit companion? How does this even work? Do you need a companion to become the best witch/astral traveler/seer you can be? (No, you don’t). There are so many choices to choose from that it may be a little daunting at first. You can purchase a vessel with a spirit already attached to it online. I’ve done this! It’s great! If you find a REPUTABLE seller who truthfully is able to talk to spirits and create a perfect match, I highly recommend this. However, if you’re tight on cash, you’re just too afraid to trust anybody, or you want to experience finding your own companion from the start - then here is a way you can do it yourself. As always, just because you read something on the internet that somebody wrote doesn’t mean it’s the only way to do things. You are in charge of how you do things, not me.

This will not include instructions on how to communicate with spirits. It will not include instructions on protection/grounding/centering during meditation. This guide is assuming you know how to already do these things. I’ll be happy to help if you have a hard time with any of these activities to the best of my ability.

First thing is first.

What is a spirit companion? Well, a spirit companion is you! That is, if you choose to be the companion of a spirit. It is also the name of a spirit who is a companion OF you. When you choose to form a bond with a spirit (or energy, as I prefer to call those on other planes), you both are each other’s spirit companions and you form a spirit companionship. You do not need a spirit companion. Spirit companions are good for those who enjoy working with other energies. Personally, I can’t stand to walk my path alone. I need deities, dragons, SOMEONE! So the concept of spirit companions are great for someone like me.

How do I start?

What kind of practice do you do? Think about your type of craft. Write down all of the aspects you incorporate into your work. Are you big on divination? Write it down. Do you enjoy blood magic (as I do)? Write it down. Also think about things that you would like to learn more about. Your spirit companion can be a mentor to you. Do you need a spirit to help you banish negativity in your life? Write it down. Spirit companions can be protectors. Find what attributes you want to find the most in a spirit companion and put those at the top of your list. You can’t find a spirit companion that does EVERYTHING you want it to on your list (or maybe you can, you lucky bastard), so pick the most important things. It’s important to find things that resonate deepest with you. 

Phew! You have everything you’re looking for written down. Now it’s time to dig deep into your mind. What type of spirit are you drawn to? Do you have an affinity for mermaids? Unicorns? There is a reason for this. Take note of it! Decide on what kind of spirit you want to become a companion with and head on to the next section.

Research, research, research.

You’ve picked out the type of spirit you would like to work with, and you have your top attributes that you would like to have in common with them. Do your research.

This is the most important thing you can possibly do to ensure that you and the type of spirit you are seeking are compatible. Before working with a deity, you research all you can about them. Before creating a spell, you research every component to make sure it all fits. The same will apply when you choose to reach out to a spirit. Are mermaids known for their skills in divination? Hell if I know! I work with dragons! But you should know, or try to find out if you’re jonesin’ for a divination-savvy mermaid. If there are no solid sources on the internet for the picking, you can ask people that already work with the type of spirit you are interested in. Get a feel for the spirit that you are drawn to. Make sure they are truly the type of energy you want around, rather than relying on a romantacized version of their lore.

Gettin’ Friendly

You’ve decided on everything now. You’ve written down what you want your ideal spirit companion to be. It is time to call out and seek an entity that fits the criteria you have decided on!  It is so very important to take proper precaution while calling out to an entity. If you are not familiar with grounding, centering, and setting up protection against negative entities (or any entity you don’t wish to get in contact with) - I suggest you stop reading this and get familiar with those skills. The realms of this universe are filled with beings that are adept at lying about what they are. It’s just a fact of life. These beings aren’t necessarily ALL malevolent, but they aren’t what you are looking for. Be strong in stating your purpose.

When I was seeking out my first dragon companion, I meditated (with protection) and literally stated what I was looking for out to the big ole wide world and all the planes that resided within it. In my case, the dragon that kept appearing to me ended up to be on a site where I bought my vessel (he drew me to that site). But this isn’t a guide for buying one, is it? This is for finding one on your own.

When you make a new friend, how does that process usually go for you? Do you get to know each other slowly at first and soon start to grow closer? Or do you immediately say “hey I like you even though we haven’t talked much…now I’m going to bind your energy signature to this necklace k thanks”. No, you don’t. You get to know them! Spirits are real beings. They are alive and they too are looking for a companion so THEY can learn. They will want to get to know you as much as you should want to get to know them. Spend time meditating with them. Find out what they enjoy as an offering and try to offer them their favorite thing. Create a bond. It will feel natural, and you will know if it is meant to be. If they keep insisting you should create a companionship with them but YOU don’t want to - cut ties with them. You’re in for a manipulative ride if you stick with a spirit who doesn’t respect your feelings on the subject. The same goes for you. If they politely back out after you’ve spent time meditating with them, then it’s not meant to be. If anything feels wrong, listen to your gut. This is my mantra. Always listen to your intuition. You should feel safe and calm around them. Not panicky and worried.

You and Me (and this item that reminds me of you)

So you have found your spirit companion and you want to bind their energy signature to something. This will allow you to have a tangible item you can hold and focus on to create a link between you two. It is the same thing as having their twitter handle, so you may contact them at any time (they won’t always answer, though. Remember - they have lives too!). They are not stuck inside the vessel. They can leave the relationship anytime they want. YOU can end the relationship anytime you want, if you feel it isn’t working out. There are no oaths, no bound souls, nothing of that sort. When binding their energy signatures to a vessel, first make sure you two have discussed it and it is what you both want. Find a piece of jewelry or create a plush doll or ANYTHING that will remind you of them. You can make it as personal as you want! Make sure to use something that won’t perish. For example, don’t bind them to a plant. Not only are you shoving their energy all up on a plant’s energy, the plant could die leaving you with no vessel. I prefer jewelry because I can wear it and bond with them.

Take your item and plan a ritual that will invoke them and bind their energy signature to the item. Your ritual can be as formal or informal as you want. Write a poem for them! Bring them offerings! Play your favorite music that reminds you of them! It’s all up to you, my friend. You do not make an oath to them, you do not make any lifelong promises: you just simply tell them how you feel and the reasoning for the ritual. Using phrases such as “we will be bound forever” is not the best thing to do. No one wants to be bound forever. That’s dangerous territory and typically not realistic (for this type of situation - that doesn’t mean people don’t bind themselves to entities forever. It happens! But not here). You can say something along the lines of how the vessel you are presenting will be a direct link to them until either one of you decides that you do not wish to work with each other anymore. In the way that there is no written contract that friendships will last forever, the same goes for you and your spirit companion. It is a mutual agreement, built on mutual respect.

Once you have finished the ritual, you now have a direct link to your companion. Continue to treat them like your friend. Invite them to help you when you’re doing a spell or divination (or whatever specialty you were looking for them to have). Give them gifts, talk to them, meditate with them. They are not forced to be around you. If they aren’t showing up or do not wish to partake in a spell with you, than that’s just how they feeling at the moment. There is no forcing either from you or them. As I said, you should treat each other with mutual respect.

Best of luck with your new companion! If you have any questions, feel free to ask. Remember, be safe and use your best judgement.

-Sanies