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Opinion Piece

I believe the whole gender thing has gone too far.

Sure, I am one to advocate for self expression for both sides. I in fact was once a tomboy and dressed like one, in some aspects I still am and still do while being into girly things. I even agreed just let the feminine men be themselves, because there is more boyish girls and more girlish boys. Tomyboys and Femboys. Straight, simple to the point. I even agreed to just let trans-people live their lives and leave them alone, if it makes their life happy whats the problem? Same goes with pronouns, I agreed to the main three he/them/her, if it helped others express themselves.

but now? Well...

I can't help question if I want to continue to support it with how far its been reaching beyond its barrier. There was a comfortable stop sign and like a speeding party bus it barreled right through! They don't care who's on the road, that bus has no destination and just wants to disrupt the world.

Those who use "Pronouns" is one thing that has gone way way too far, even past reality for most of them. I don't feel like writing a long paragraph today, so have a list of examples:

Aside Them/He/She, a good handful of them want to accept and believe that identifying as an animal or sound is a gender. Either having pronouns of Xe/Xer or Bat/Bats as examples. That is NOT based on reality.

They want everybody to use pronouns, even all other countries. They call it 'being inclusive', but really they are forcing their belief what gender is into everybody else's business. Doesn't matter if you have a culture, opinion or religion that disagrees with it- Just like the Latinos, they don't have the choice of being called Latinx despite having no consent from the general people.

They try to dismantle that clothing does have gender. A girl going by them/he wearing the most frilly of frills, complaining how people misgender them and how it upsets them, so clothing shouldn't have gender just so people can't misgender her. That dismantles the whole DragQueen and Trans with how clothing is shown being gendered.

You are NOT ALLOWED to disagree with Pronouns, even if its your religion, culture or personal opinions. If you do not respect using pronouns of somebody else you are called every label under the exclusive bigot umbrella. People are forced to comply to use them and demanded respect from them, when the community itself cries when they believe an opinion is forced on them and won't respect other people.

The general community tries to change language of another culture just so they have their pronouns. Not every culture or every populous wants to use pronouns or accompany it, but if they don't then they're seen as bad people.

They want to believe they can just raise a child has non-binary, thinking this certainly won't confuse the child as it grows up or cause some serious confusion. We have yet to see the fruit produced from this new wave of pronoun use, so we'll have to see what happens when those kids grow up and their stories.

They want you to get the pronouns right the first time despite not remotely looking like the gender they identify as, basically no room for mistakes or accidental assumptions.

A good number of the community makes "Cis" people out to be the enemy just for being their biological gender and accepting that.

I've already made posts when it came to Trans people, but this is legit just a public journal of sorts like I've described before.

It just seems like people who wants to be trans or use pronouns hate themselves. They preach self love, but these people seem to be the most miserable and most self-loathing out of anybody in the rest of the world. The world will not bend around them to please them, so it upsets them how reality is they aren't what they want to be. They deny reality with their own logic and justification to why they believe something is real.

Maybe instead of transitioning or using pronouns... Maybe these people really need help in understand what true self-love is and accepting them as they are, instead of what they're not.

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Harry Potter (Hogwarts Legacy) Morality Debate

Writing this, I don't intend to come off as a 'Hermione', that being a know at all that obviously has more brains than the rest. Like all posts, I am just wanting to openly type away my thoughts to the endless abyss that is the internet. I may likely never reply back if you attempt to debate me, because its not my intention here or with this blog.

So, as of right now I really want to speak about the drama that is with JK Rowling and her Harry Potter series. Specifically the whole boycott with Hogwarts Legacy.

If you've been blessed to not be curious and mind your own business, or haven't run up on a screeching moral paladin, then let me lay it out simply. Long while back, JK Rowling became even more known not just for the series, but also for her opinions regarding trans-women; which got her labeled as a transphobe. As to what her opinions are- I don't think the people screeching actually know either. The only big thing they bring up is that, "JK Rowling is transphobic, because she doesn't believe trans-women are actually women and cause, tranphobic."

Now I'm not about to dive into this whole- "is it really or is it not", because my thoughts into the open air- Is this really something to boycott over? Even to harass and try to force others not to buy it, even deeming them transphobic just for buying it despite the fact they likely don't share the same opinion. When even looking at the smallest explanation of what her opinion is really isn't all that terrible. They act like she's going to be the next evil overlord, just because she doesn't want to accept men who masquerade as women on the same level as biological women. There are actual horrid events going on around the world by the choice of a large company they likely consume from daily, but you don't see them raising hell over it.

Where are these warriors of justice, fairness and equality for all the people around the world- children abuse to do labor for cheap, adults ending up in the same situation starving and other very dark business practices. One woman has an opinion based in reality, but oh no- Don't you dare question trans-people even their choices of clothing, because you'll turn a blind eye to human abuse yet can't handle your world being knocked down a bit.

In my opinion, if it isn't obvious enough, I think this is all nuts and bananas. It's just an opinion and frankly not a radical one as they claim for it to be. It's not putting anybody's life in danger or removing their basic adult rights to even transition. I'll still watch her movies, read her books, buy official merch and likely play the game, because there are worse things to use my attention for boycott than something like this.

If you're going to boycott her over an opinion, then I better see the same uproar for all the actual horrible things around the world. I better see people boycotting a lot more companies and not because their morals got questions/offended.

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“It is the life of the crystal, the architect of the flake, the fire of the frost, the soul of the sunbeam. This crisp winter air is full of it. ” -John Burroughs ♡

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Overview

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I'll likely speak a lot on social politics, more over how I've come to have great disdain for them. How in the end of all the protests, whining, complaining, crying, whaling, violence and hypocrisy- it hasn't benefited the country in anyway. It's only benefited the small percent of the nation, that being that community itself. Nothing but continuing motions of feelings over common sense and wisdom that comes from knowledge- the amount of more over women who cry their emotions about their value in protests, but refuse a conversation if its questioned in anyway. Something to feel ashamed of, my gender becoming such weak women from what our ancestors actually fought for in history.

The fact that a man masquerading as a woman is fully accepted in all aspects without a shred of questioning what bad could come from this. That he must be considered a biological woman without question, allowed into women spaces, into sports for only women and now speak on behalf of women- as if that man knows a single thing about living as a woman. If an adult wishes to be trans, believing it's what feels right, then by all means transition at your own caution to the risk [if they do medications and surgery]. It crosses the line of reality when they are considered anything other than transgender however. Insanity going as far to where voices of biological woman are silenced if they question concerns of men masquerading as women. It's history repeating in the most obvious irony, women silenced by men through women.

As a biological woman myself, it boils my blood and yet makes me feel unsafe that I am unable to reason why this is a bad thing, instead told I am 'transphobic' and a 'bigot' for not out right accepting it. That my entire lively hood rest in these people's hands who will be hypocrites to their own words|| Protect women spaces, but allow any man to claim 'transgender' to enter these spaces. Women's voices are to be heard, unless the woman questions the community. Let women be themselves, unless hey are attractive and traditionally feminine.

What has this done for America? Any country? Has it fixed education? Fixed the wages and cost of living? Fixed drug and homeless issue? Anything other than the community? No. Nothing. Yet, their voices are so damn loud that who can actually focus on issues that grow worse.

It's goes much deeper than this. Novels length of sagas and drama. It all boils down though to how social politics have been a distraction from actual problems, the utopia the community tries to have while causing reality to be dystopian.

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Being... Here.

The internet is lack of spaces with open fields for open minds. Even if the loudest hold disbelief that something isn't right, that the internet hasn't become very bias, it's all too obvious once the skeletons are let loose from the locked basement. I can't help feel to over exaggerate my words as this may be one of the very few spaces where all minds can speak. At least for now.

All I wish is to write my mind somewhere that anyone can stumble upon if they're interested in someone's thoughts. Where my post won't be taken down just because it's 'wrong think', or doesn't align with the dominant leaning of the platform. That a single opinion out of line warranting harassment and threats from the most thin skin people possible, in the end silenced and locked out. Despite this open web meant for every adult on this planet.

If you give it any thought, further than your moral view and values, none of these social politics have done any good for this country. If anything, its made it worse...