gentle reminder to ashkenazi jews that if you see something that doesn't conform to ashkenazi standards, it doesn't mean it's fake or goyish. there's a good chance that what you're seeing simply isn't ashkenazi. tefillin wrapped a different way, kippot of a different size or design, prayers said with different pronunciations, different melodies, different foods. non-ashki jews exist and it would be great if it didn't feel like our traditions were seen as deviation from the norm rather than just a different norm.
I am laughing at all the straight men who are confused by Paul Rudd being named sexiest man alive. My dudes, do not underestimate the sexiness of a sincerely loveable goofball.
“You’re not perfect, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you’ve met, she’s not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other.”