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There is a difference between someone telling they love you and them actually loving you

Milk and Honey, Rupi Kaur (via avouer)

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After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship. 😏

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She'll give up on you not because she doesn't love you anymore, but because she loves you too much that she forgot who she was and what she really deserves

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I cant live without you 😥

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21 Signs that he’s genuine.

1. He doesn’t judge A guy who is genuine is respectful of everyone. He doesn’t judge other people’s life choices or backgrounds. He doesn’t discriminate or hold unfair bias. A person who has genuine feelings for you will not care about your imperfections because he sees you for who you are.

2. He is loyal Loyalty means he stands up for you and supports you. A genuine person doesn’t leave you in the dust when things get hard, he is there through thick and thin. He fights for you and isn’t afraid for people to know that. Most importantly, he does not date any other girls if he’s serious about you. He will be transparent about who he’s talking to.

3. He admits he isn’t perfect. A non genuine person will lie about his imperfections. He will tell you how successful he is or what he does for a living when none of those things are true. A genuine individual is more likely to reveal his weaknesses, so you can make accurate decisions about whether this person right for you or not. Furthermore, admitting your imperfections is a reflection of a mature individual.

4. He doesn’t talk behind your back A guy who talks about you to his friends as soon as you leave is not someone who means what he says. A genuine person speaks his mind and doesn’t hold comments to share with others about when you’re not there. This is the same for friendship as well. A genuine friend will not talk bad things about their friends behind their back. If you see that he talks down about one of his own friends for the purpose of looking them down, then that’s a red flag.

5. He doesn’t gossip This goes with the last point, gossip is a sign of someone who is not secure and enjoys spreading rumors. Gossip is often hurtful and if a guy refrains from gossip is upfront with his thoughts and doesn’t hide his feelings. Furthermore, it’s a big red flag if he does gossip because it means he will share secrets or private things between you guys with others.

6. He is close to his family Family relationships are key to knowing whether a person in genuine. If a guy has a great relationship with his family, it means he is a great guy all the time – at home and with others.

7. He includes you in everything A guy who ignores you or doesn’t want to include you into his life has ulterior motives. Making you a part of his life shows that he is proud of you and wants more out of the relationship.

8. He is there as an emotional support Being someone’s emotional support is a huge responsibility. A guy who can do that for you means he not only knows you very well but he is always there for you.

9. He isn’t there just to use you Be aware of guys who use you only when they want to go out to party or “have a good time”. If he doesn’t want to see you other than that he is not a genuine person. A good guy wants you to be a part of every aspect of his life.

10. He compliments you and means it There are fake and superficial compliments and sincere compliments. You know the difference between “you look hot” and “you’re so beautiful”. Sincere compliments means he sees more to you than just your physical beauty.

11. He doesn’t get angry easily Temper is a huge warning sign of a guy who is not genuine. Often when people get angry very easily it means they don’t have control over their emotions and temperament. A genuine guy knows how to keep his emotions in check.

12. He doesn’t have mood swings. This goes with the previous point, if a guy goes from happiness to being sad or angry very fast multiple times a day that is a red flag! A genuine guy doesn’t swing between moods rapidly, he is emotionally stable and portrays that in his daily life.

13. He isn’t superficial A lot of guys only care about what a girl looks like or what she is wearing, these guys are incapable of knowing a person past their physical appearance. A sincere guy knows you for more than what you look like, he likes your personality.

14. He isn’t always seeking attention Attention feels amazing, it’s nice to feel like someone is noticing you. However, a guy is an attention seeker, it means he constantly wants validation and isn’t content with himself. This could lead to further issues and shows that there is a deeper flaw present. A guy who is genuine is content and doesn’t always need to be paid attention to.

15. He always fulfills his promises A genuine guy always goes through with his promises. Someone like that takes his word seriously and that is an amazing quality to have in a person.

16. He doesn’t lie. A liar is untrustworthy and you should always avoid someone who will lie to you. Lying means he doesn’t take his word seriously, he’s okay with deceiving you and that is never a good sign. A guy who is serious about being truthful and avoid lying is a guy you should keep around.

17. He is consistent This is like the a previous point, except it goes further and means that a guy follows through with his promises. This a sign of a genuine person who makes sure that if he says he’s going to do something, he will do it.

18. He’s concerned about issues going on in the world This is a sign that a guy is aware about what is going on in the world and is concerned about someone other than himself. This is a great characteristic!

19. He takes things slow Sometimes a fake guy will take you on a whirlwind romance but it never lasts. A genuine guy will take things slow and get to know you over time instead of rushing into things.

20. He is not threatened by failure A sincere guy will take failure as an opportunity to do better and improve himself. Guys who are threatened by failure will bring negativity into your life, this is not a good sign.

21. He’s confident Lastly, a genuine guy is confident. He knows himself and portrays that in the way he talks, walks, and treats other people. Confidence is a quality that develops over time and shows maturity – plus it’s attractive.

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The right person will know all of your weaknesses but will never use it against you. Find someone who embraces your flaws and appreciates your imperfections because those kinds of people know how to value fragile and sensitive hearts like yours.

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He should know his limit

You don’t have to check your partner’s phone or snoop into his social media accounts to find out if he’s being loyal to you. There’s this thing called privacy and you have to be mature enough to understand that and respect it. If you can’t fully trust your partner, then why are you in a relationship in the first place? As a partner, he’s supposed to eliminate any doubts and earn your trust and you should do the same thing. But if he’s deliberately hiding his phone or keeping things away from you, that’s a different story.

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How could you do this to me?😥

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She’s sorry. She’s sorry that she constantly wants to talk to you. She’s sorry that she constantly wants to spend time with you. She’s sorry that she gets sad when you don’t reply to her fast enough. She’s sorry that she becomes irritable when you don’t fully pay attention to her. She’s sorry if she says things that piss you off. She’s sorry that she’s a brat when she doesn’t get her way. She’s sorry if she comes off as annoying at times. She’s sorry that she thinks about you too much and too often. She’s sorry if you don’t want to talk to her as much as she wants to talk to you. She’s sorry if she has too much free time for you while you’re too busy for her. She’s sorry if she tells you about pointless drama that you don’t actually care about. She’s sorry if she vents to you about problems that you actually aren’t interested in hearing about. She’s sorry if she comes off as too clingy or overprotective. She’s sorry if she’s too nosey or too curious by snooping thru your things when you’re not around. She’s sorry if she doesn’t give you enough time and space to yourself. She’s sorry if she doesn’t give you enough respect for your privacy. She’s sorry if she misses you more than she’s supposed to. She’s sorry for everything, but know that it’s all out of love for you.

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TRUE, been there done that.

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If my stubborn ass tries walking away and tells you to leave me alone but you still stay and try fixing it to make me happy then ur a keeper

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if it doesn't break your heart it isn't love

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You're the one who hurt her, and you're acting like she hurt you. You're the one who lied to her, and you're blaming her for her trust issues. You're the one who talks to other girls behind her back, and you're getting mad when she talks to her guy friends. You're the one who doesn't give her enough attention, and you're getting upset when she doesn't text you back fast enough. You're the one who doesn't make any time for her, and you trippin' when things get busy for her. You're the one who's always making mistakes, and you're saying she loves to pick fights with you. You're the one who doesn't understand her, and you're making her feel like she's crazy for feeling the way she does. You're the one who mistreats her, and you're playing the victim claiming she isn't good to you. You're the one who makes her miserable, and you're making it seem like you're unhappy because of her. You're the one who doesn't put any effort in, and you're coming off like she isn't trying her hardest. You're the one who doesn't love her, and you believe that she's the one who doesn't care.

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The success of every woman should be the inspiration to another. We should raise each other up. Make sure you’re very courageous: be strong, be extremely kind, and above all be humble.

Serena Williams (via girlinlondon)

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The real meaning of true love.

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Women always find out the truth. Always. Without even trying, they'll find out the truth. Especially when they're trying, they'll find out the truth. Sure, you can lie to a woman. Sure, you can make her believe you. Sure, you can keep lying to her and keep making her believe you. But eventually, women inevitably uncover the truth and it's just a matter of time before the truth finds them. Once a woman starts to have suspicions towards you about something, she'll be driven to find out if there's anything you wouldn't want her to find out or if you've been keeping secrets from her and she won't stop until she knows what's true and what's not. The thing about women is they hate feeling uneasy and they despise wondering if you aren't being real with them. They're also not stupid and they're able to piece every little detail together so honesty is something they value and appreciate from a man. That's why you shouldn't be telling a woman anything but the truth because nothing could hurt a woman worse than being lied to. Breaking a woman's trust hurts more than breaking her heart because at least she can still love you with a broken heart, but once the trust is broken, it stays broken and even when you try to put it back together, it's never quite the same as it was.