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Subject: Men who manipulate GOOD women
Let’s Tawk About It….
Listen guys, if you didn’t already know…a women is going to NATURALLY submit to you if she’s all in with you. You may not be locked in with her but she’s locked 🔒in with you so she’s going to do damn near anything you want her to do because she WANTS to. I feel like as men, if your women is submitting then there’s no reason to try to get more control over her. She’s already giving you her mind body and soul but that’s not enough for y’all, y’all feel like you need total control over her mind and the way she thinks, you want to change her whole mindset and y’all do so by using manipulative tactics such as…
1. “Oh I’ll just go find another bitch to do it”
2. “I could be somewhere else with someone else but instead I’m here with you”
3. “We not together & I want you to be single, do you” (but turn around Mins later mad cause you’re on your phone too much)
4. “You don’t care about me like I think you do, your actions don’t match what you say” (this comes after the girl starts realizing that’s she’s been playing herself)
5. PAY ATTENTION THIS THE ONE RIGHT HERE…. *finds something to criticize you about* the girls feelings get hurt and then the man always hits them with “don’t cry now, you wasn’t crying when xyz… your tears don’t phase me”
Once you get to number 5 you might as well call it quits sis. Once a man starts finding shit to argue about or starts picking at you to the point it affects your self esteem, let that nigga go cause HE DOES NOT RESPECT YOU.
We women act and think on emotions so for us as long as that man is showing interest and he sticks around we know we still got them. But men can pretend to fw a bitch so heavy when they really just using them so as a women you’re blinded by love and the way he makes you feel that you are Stevie Wonder to the bullshit and you’re just allowing it to happen right under your nose. No sweetheart that’s not the way to go.
STOP IGNORING THE RED FLAGS 🚩🚩🚩🚩
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