lulusbinky

[lulusbinky]

🐇 sweet little bunny! 🐇

[lulusbinky]

˗ˏˋ ♡ the baby behind the blog! ♡ ˊˎ˗

🌸⊹˚₊ 𓂃what i do𓂃 ₊˚⊹🌸

♡ ──୨ৎ── i share tips for all types of littles & cgs!

♡ ──୨ৎ── activities! - none yet

♡ ──୨ৎ── stimboards! - none yet

♡ ──୨ৎ── moodboards!

♡ ──୨ৎ── i kind of want to write agere fics/hcs so maybe i'll post those if i ever get the confidence!

(requests are appreciated for all of these things!)

🌸⊹˚₊ 𓂃my info𓂃 ₊˚⊹🌸

♡ ──୨ৎ── name ︴lulu

♡ ──୨ৎ── big age ︴16 (turning 17 this month!!)

♡ ──୨ৎ── little age ︴1-6

♡ ──୨ৎ── pronouns ︴paw/paws mainly but i also use sweet/doll/fawn/sugar/pup!

♡ ──୨ৎ── extra ︴sapphic, neurodivergent, agere and questioning other terms such as petre and perma regressor

🌸⊹˚₊ 𓂃tags𓂃 ₊˚⊹🌸

♡ lulu's letters ──୨ৎ── my lil rants n thoughts! -none

♡ lulu's playroom ──୨ৎ── activities i've made! -none

♡ lulu's lullabies ──୨ৎ── all my other posts!

♡ lulu listens ──୨ৎ── replying to asks!

♡ lulu's logs ──୨ৎ── reblogs!

🌸⊹˚₊ 𓂃why i regress𓂃 ₊˚⊹🌸

♡ ──୨ৎ── i involuntary regress as its a coping mechanism due to trauma

🌸⊹˚₊ dni𓂃 ₊˚⊹🌸

♡ ──୨ৎ── basic dni list, proship, nsfw, etc.

[lulusbinky]

♡ agere crafts༅

paw print: i tried to do some crafts you can do alone n some with a cg! 🐾

♡ clay ──୨ৎ── air-dry clay is wut j use! and you can use colored air dry clay or paint it when its dry!༅

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♡ sticker making ──୨ৎ── draw or print cute designs, then laminate them or use sticker paper to make your own stickers! there lots of tutorials online!༅

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♡ make a wand ──୨ৎ── but howw? well first pick a base for your wand like a stick, dowel, or anything that works!! then paint it if you want before adding maagic details like wrappin' a ribbon round the base, gluing on tiny gems, or drawing lil designs! then lastly...the top! glue a big star, heart, charm, etc. to the top! and if you wanna do a lil extra you can make up a fun spell for your wand, like “this wand brings happiness" or whateva you wan! or im pretty sure ive also seen already made star wands at places that you can just paint and add details to!༅

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♡ sensory bottles ──୨ৎ── fill a clear bottle with glitter, beads, charms, whatever you wanna add!! and then add water to finish the sensory bottle!༅

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♡ scratch offs ──୨ৎ── i mentioned these in my tips for littles without a cg post, but im mentioning them again!! they can be used as a reward system for yourself or you can put positive messages on them, whatever you want!! to make them you outline your scratch off on a piece of paper, so a star, circle, heart, box, etc!! and write what you want inside! then you put tape over it before mixing paint and dish soap together to paint onto the tap afteer youve placed it down! thats all! if i didn't do a good enough job explaining, there are lots of tutorials online too!!༅

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♡ make a fish ──୨ৎ── get a paper plate and then cut a triangle out! then glue the triangle on the opposite side for the fin! you can get paper to make more fins to glue on as well! then color your fish!༅

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♡ finger painting ──୨ৎ── prettyyyy self explanatory and already pretty well known but i still thought id mention it! id recommend getting an outfit you don't mind getting messy before though ofc, and then paint to your hearts content!༅

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♡ mini garden/terrarium ──୨ৎ── get a bowl or a flower pot and you can paint it if you wish!! then add some soil in grass or moss and thennn add cute lil decorations! you can add fairys, just lil characters, a mini house, anything! and even a real flower or smth! you could also do it in a mason jar and make it like a terrarium!༅

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♡ juice popcicles ──୨ৎ── anotherr popular one, get an ice tray, pour juice in, and then add a popsicle stick, put in freezer over night, n boom!! juice popsicles!༅

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♡ pom-pom popsicles ──୨ৎ── you can look up how to do this one too, but you just get a card, pom poms ofc, a popsicle stick, and some double sided tape, and cut out the card into a popsicle shape, glue it to the stick, then use the tape to add the pom poms! you might need some help with this one! but you can use your favorite colors, your flag colors, whatever you wana do!༅

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♡ paint a rock ──୨ৎ── another self explanatory one! you can look up some ideas for inspo though if you wish!༅

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♡ paper bags ──୨ৎ── you can use paper bags to make puppets or lil houses! if you're confused on how, you can again look it up!༅

hope this gav you smth you wanna do! and pretty sure theres tutorials online for most of these things if needed!༅

[lulusbinky]

♡ princess aurora moodboard!༅

once upon a time...

[lulusbinky]

oh how i yearn to be in an elementary school setting again. learning new things, going outside to play, going to the library, playing with toys you don't have at home, playing cool instruments, playing with the parachute in gym, rolling around on little colorful scooters, sitting at a desk with my name on it, eating snacks while being read a cool book, and naptimes... i miss it so bad

[lulusbinky]

hiii!! I too am 16!! I discovered agere a few years back but I've been exploring it for the past few months. i was just wondering if u had any advice on labelling.

idk wether I'm just an age dreamer or wether I'm an age dreamer and regressor. I do feel a definite emotional change but idk if it counts because I am still able to do big things and think big thoughts, I just feel a lot less of them because I feel really small and little.

I joined a community but I left it the next day cos I didn't really feel like I fitted in. I use my agedre/agere to help with my anxiety and for fun and peace of mind and (without going into my whole life story lol) to imagine a male cg/father figure there.

hello lovely!! i know how you feel, labeling and figuring things out can be really hard, but heres my advice! first off, to figure out if its age regression or age dreaming the big main difference is age dreaming is a voluntary, controlled headspace, where someone is intentionally acting younger for reasons like comfort, aesthetics, nostalgia, or just for funsies, etc! on the other hand age regression is a headspace reverting to a younger mindset as a coping mechanism which is involentary and a not controlled headspace!

but if you feel sometimes you are age dreaming and other times you are age regressed, you can be both! you don't have to strictly only have one label!

you also mentioned you feel like there is a definite emotional change but you can still do big things and have bigger thoughts, im not labeling you but for my thoughts on that:

♡ you can be regressed to many ages and that could be you regressing just not to a very small headspace

or

♡ you could be half/semi regressed which is when an age regressor is partly in the mindset of a child, while still having the abilities and even some thoughts of an adult!!

lastly as for fitting in, i have felt that way too, but you fit in just fine, i promise!! everyones regression is different in some way but that doesn't make anyone less valid or less fitting in <3 i hope this helped!

[lulusbinky]

your tips are so helpful and worded in such a way that’s easy for anyone to understand, thank you for taking the time to share these resources. i will say though that i would recommend not using the term ‘impure’ when referring to vent regression/regression as a result of trauma, since agere is about healing, not purity. the term ‘impure’ has made many members of the community feel ashamed of themselves for needing to regress to process their trauma, negative feelings, etc. so i suggest using the term ‘vent regression’ instead! /nf

hello!! this makes a lot of sense, tysm for making me aware of this!! as someone who experiences this i definitely should of been more aware of that, but i never put much thought into the wording "impure", but now that you say that i do see how that is very misleading & can make people feel ashamed, sorry if my wording did make anyone feel that way, no one should feel ashamed about that as it is not a shameful thing, again thank you for bringing this to my attention and i will change my wording!!

[lulusbinky]

♡ how to handle vent regression༅

⊹for littles⊹

♡ gentle grounding ──୨ৎ── hug a plushie, sip something warm, play with a soft texture, get a weighted blankie, or listen to quiet sounds to soothe yourself! a popular method is the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method too! you name 5 things you see, 4 things you feel, 3 things you hear, 2 things you smell, and 1 thing you taste! you can also change it like just focusing on 5 things you can touch, or count how many soft things you can see, or start recalling your stuffies names, etc!༅

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♡ let yourself feel without guilt ──୨ৎ── if emotions are heavy, allow yourself to feel them!! it’s okay to have these feelings!! don't feel guilt, you have no reason to! you aren’t bad for struggling, and the only time it becomes harmful is if they lead to hurting yourself or others but even then, that doesn’t make you a bad person!༅

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♡ distractions ──୨ৎ── if allowing yourself to feel the heavy feelings isn't something you want or think is best, use fidgets, squish toys, color, or play with textures! you can play songs and sounds too! maybe even put a cartoon on and try to calm down with a little snack!༅

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⊹for caregivers⊹

♡ reassurance ──୨ৎ── simple phrases like “you’re safe/okay,” “i've got you,” "i understand," and loving nicknames can be a very biggg help!!༅

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♡ safe space ──୨ৎ── be patient with them!! and turn on soft lighting, get a warm blankie, get little items nearby!! make the space feel safe! and if they feel okay with it, hugs!!༅

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♡ assistance ──୨ৎ── if loud noises, sensory issues, etc. ar bothering them, help ground them and help get them what they need!༅

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♡ encouragement ──୨ৎ── encourage them to do things you know will help!! like watching a cartoon, counting, etc. and just be encouraging in any way you can!༅

i hope this was helpful to someone in some way!༅

[lulusbinky]

Hi ^^

I see mentions of fictional caregivers a lot but how does it work? We think we might be interested but don't feel like we know enough about it :(

Any explanations are welcome :3

Have a lovely day!!!

theres actually few ways it can work!!

to get a fictional cg you can pick a comforting character from a fandom you like and make them your caregiver or you can make an imaginary caregiver! like how some people have imaginary friends!

heres how some use them!

♡ journaling – writing letters or diary entries as if communicating with the caregiver is one way!

♡ roleplaying – just jmagine they are there when you r small and they r helping you n stuff!!

♡ fanfiction – writing stories abt them being a caregiver to you is another way!

♡ background info – for an imaginary cg you nake make a backstory for the caregiver, making their personality, give them a past, etc!

if you guys wanna try it out then try it out however you'd like! theres really not one correct way to have a fictional cg :3

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So I read fanfiction a lot and in some fandoms I’ve noticed CGRE fanfictions being written and most seem fairly normal to me but I was just wondering if there are any red flags to be aware of when reading? I’m fairly knew to the whole CGRE/AGRE thing and was just a bit curious!!

thats a good question!! i also read those types of fanfics and some red flags i would look for are:

♡ forced dynamics - ive actually seen a lot of agre fics about someone forcing someone to regress and that isnt agre! it isnt agre because it removes choice, comfort and consent and regression should be a choice not smth you should be forced into if your uncomfortable with it! regression is rooted in comfort, so if it isnt or feels forced, unhealthy, or overly controlling thats a red flag

♡ not sfw - there is agere and then age play so if you're looking for agre fanfics and it has that not sfw tag, mentions age play, or has anything sexual hinting, red flag! cgre and agre are non-sexual!

♡ toxic cg behavior - if the cg is not respecting boundaries, is coming off as manipulative, overly possessive, dismissive of feelings, etc. red flag! it is romanticizing toxicity

i hope these helped jn some way and answered your question! my final answer though is to really just trust your instincts! if something feels off about what your reading, trust yourself!

[lulusbinky]

♡ struggling to regress?༅

here are some methods that might help!

♡ sensory matching method ──୨ৎ── focus on connecting three senses that trigger regression! soooo if a childhood cartoon made you feel little, pair it with a scent that gives the same feeling and a texture that also has that comforting feeling, such as a soft blankie!༅

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♡ familiar senses method ──୨ৎ── focus on nostalgia and familiar comfort items! get a childhood snack, set up soft and gentle lighting, and surround yourself with things that bring warmth and nostalgia! regressing often comes easier for many in an environment that feels familiar & safe!༅

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♡ baby steps method ──୨ৎ── focus on starting slow and building up little activities! so instead of trying to force it or jump right into it, slightly like the first two methods, start slown! start with a small, soothing action like hugging a stuffie or putting on cozy socks! then maybe surround yourself with familiar regression cues like a childhood show then dim the lights & grab a comfy blankie! once you feel more at ease maybe do smth like coloring or playing with toys!! so this way you slowly feel more relaxed instead of pressured to regress quickly!༅

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♡ storytime method ──୨ৎ── read a short children’s book or a calming fairytale out loud or listen to an audiobook with a gentle, nurturing voice to help shift your mindset!! there are also asmr videos of people reading children books!༅

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♡ ritual method ──୨ৎ── repeat a small comforting action every time you want to regress!! maybe it’s putting on a specific cozy outfit, turning on a soft dim or colored light, having a certain drink, or hugging your favorite stuffed animal! associating an action with regression can help over time!༅

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♡ regression playlist method ──୨ৎ── make a special playlist with songs or lullabies! i like to play disney songs!༅

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♡ soundscapes method ──୨ৎ── if music doesn't work for you instead of music, try listening to sound effects that mimic childhood nostalgia! so things like playground noises, soft rain, wind chimes, or toy store sounds, whatever works for you that you can find!!༅

hope this helps even if just a bit!!

[lulusbinky]

♡ tips for littles without a cg༅

♡ self-made reward system ──୨ৎ── set up small rewards for yourself!! so when you do something like finishing a coloring page, drinking enough water, or cleaning your room you can reward yourself! some ideas can be using a sticker chart, having a little box of treats, or scratch off cards! you can make those yourself and put them into a box and pick out one and scratch it off to see your reward!༅

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♡ regression box ──୨ৎ── prepare a box with stuff like snacks, easy-to-use utensils, little clothes, and comforting items so you don’t have to struggle with decision-making or getting things when regressed!༅

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♡ caregiver substitute ──୨ৎ── give a stuffed animal the role of a “caregiver substitute”! talk to it, bring it with you, do little activities with it like reading a book, etc!! it can just watch over you as well!༅

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♡ fictional caregiver ──୨ৎ── you can pick a fictional character that you find comfort in and make them your caregiver!༅

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♡ self encouragement letters ──୨ৎ── write a short, kind message to yourself in a playful or nurturing tone, when your big to little you!༅

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♡ digital little space ──୨ৎ── create an “agere corner” on your phone, like a folder filled with cute apps/games that bring comfort!༅

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♡ asmr ──୨ৎ── asmr can be really helpful! there are many that are just babying and some made just for agere! just search for it on youtube and find a video you like! there are bedtime story ones too for when you dont have anyone to help tuck you in༅

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♡ regressive journaling ──୨ৎ── make a little journal using crayons or stickers! and instead of big longg word entries, try drawing emotions, scribbling thoughts, or using stickers to make a story!༅

this is my first agere post, i hope it isnt bad!!