madelvis88

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Absolutely

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Reblog if you’re polyamorous, support polyamorous people, or think polyamorous people and relationships are valid

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It always makes me grumpy when guys don't get this...

The facts are REAL.

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Every time

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So many pretenders out there giving Dominants a bad name...BUT THIS GUY HAS IT RIGHT !!!!

That Anon needs to read this several times till it sinks in.

Aren't you the DOM? You make the rules. If you want another sub, you should just go get one. She gotta follow the rules, my man.

Oh no, oh no no no. Please tell me you didn't just say this, my man.

What, you think that simply because she is a sub, that she has to do whatever I want? Follow every single rule I make, without a thought or consideration? What kind of Dom you take me for, a wannabe?

Rules are discussed with and agreed by the sub. You don't just get to create rules out of thin air and she has to blindly and obediently follow them. Everything is CONSENSUAL. Everything is discussed prior and agreed upon. I respect her, I respect her wishes as she respects mine.

There are, as we call them, soft and hard limits, to any D/s dynamic, have you heard of them? And if there is something that she is uncomfortable doing all she has to do is communicate it with me and we just do not do it. I do not force her into anything.

Any self-respecting sub would simply walk away from their Dom if they just started doing random things out of the blue and make them uncomfortable. And I am truly sorry if some subs feel that they have to listen to everything their Dom tells them, irrespective of what that might be and how it might make them feel.

Please, my man, understand this. Your sub is your sub because she chooses to. Because she looks up to you and wants to be yours. Everything that follows is based on consent and non-stop communication. If something chances, you discuss it. If you want more, you discuss it. If you want less, you discuss it. This stands true for both the Dom and the sub. Without this, there is no dynamic. Just power abuse.

Both the submission and the domination have to be earned, and consistently catered to. None of you should take the other for granted. PERIOD.

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Waterston... always the genius.

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bring back fwb where you're actually friends im so serious

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Happy holidays! ❤️

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I agree wholeheartedly.

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try finding one of these people

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He was genius...

David's dance practice tapes, 1983

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