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I would like us all to collectively chill out about rooting out fake lesbians. Many lesbians have sexual or personal trauma/addictions that led them to sleeping with men or were simply put in a position, by force or otherwise, that they could not refuse a man.

I do believe women misidentify as lesbians and sometimes, you can catch a vibe about someone, but I really want to caution women to weigh the risk of regarding another sister with suspicion or wasting too much energy on rooting out “fakes”. When we do that, we risk attacking or isolating lesbians who’ve already been through an ordeal, whether it’s time in the sex industry, sexual assault or religious trauma etc…they’re probably the ones who need our community and support the most.

So just make sure you’re sure in your suspicion and you’ve already explored other alternative explanations for why someone would be acting funny or have a history with men before you suggest they’re a fake.

I feel like I write this on all my posts but, if you aren’t someone who’s dealt with sexual, religious, physical abuse, homelessness, drug addiction etc…I can’t encourage you enough to read up on how situations like that effect people because sometimes surviving those situations turns you into a person you thought you could never be and you would do anything to survive it and not lose your mind. So please, have some compassion, be a little skeptical and be grateful if you’ve never been in a situation like that! But also keep your mind open that you can be a lesbian and have slept with men, sometimes not even through direct physical coercion but because you need money or you believe you’re going to hell or a million other completely valid, horrific things society does to try to convince women they’re better of being raped and hating themselves then being who they are.

And if you see this post and say wow! No one in my circle is like this please send me some of your favorite blogs ahaha because this post is inspired by someone who acted like this and they’re not necessarily representative of the lesbian community writ large, but they’re enough of an irritating minority that I’ve encountered them before and wanted to write this post.

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PRIYA WHAT

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Scusate ma sto finale???? Io volevo la chiavata!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Quand'è che ava e Deborah scopano non ce la faccio più 😭😭😭😭

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Ma perché tutti vogliono chiavarsi quella morta di sonno di anthy

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Utena la figliette revolutionairre more like la figliette etero e l'altra figliette etero che si scopa il fratello e sono figliette noiose insieme

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has this been done yet

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Ma perché le lib sono così noiose e scontate

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@deborah vance zitta lesbica

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Se ava e Deborah non scopano penso che morirò

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If you can, I highly recommend seeing the film Blue Jean by Georgia Oakley. It is so meaningful to me. Not everything needs to be compared to something else, but it is written, directed, and acted with the same intentionality and heart as Portrait of a Lady on Fire.

It’s about a young lesbian woman who is a teacher in Newcastle, England in the 80s when section 28 passes. She sees a new student at a gay bar one day, igniting tension between her immense fear of getting fired and the pressure she experiences to be a good role model for her student. I think it is one of the best films I’ve seen about the public/private split and absorbed homophobia that lesbians experience.

I’m not linking the trailer because I think it goes too far into the film and slightly spoils a significant scene near the end, but seek out the film if you can!

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Ma è proprio bello in culo Blue jean assurdo che non lo conoscessi lesbiche vedetelo tutte

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Ma perché adela ha lasciato paso adelante 😭😭😭😭 anima mia mi mancherai

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Ma perché le eterone devono andare a rosicare negli spazi radfem qualcuno me lo spiega

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Chissà perché quella tipa mi ha bloccato (sì alla fine mi aveva bloccato mistero risolto)

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Qualcuno sa dirmi perché non riesco più a visualizzare un blog da app ma dal browser sì? E perché se cerco di seguire quel blog da browser non me lo fa comunque fare? Sono stata bloccata o è solo Tumblr che funziona a cazzo

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Ma qualcuno a cui ha fatto cagare immaculate? Cmq Guendalina deserved better