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so fucking real

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Hey, that’s me

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Fuck that bitch. Fuck that bitch right in the ear, and fuck this show, too.

and what are we going to do when the HP series comes out and we start seeing a resurgence of the fandom here including gifsets and fics. like are u guys gonna bring up your neurodivergence and cry "can we separate the art from the artist!!!!! you dont need to pay to watch it!!!!!its my comfort show and I'm DEPRESSED and AUTISTIC"

what then

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Whenever i get sad I just think about sour cream baby and get smiled again

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Snorfled at "holy instant noodles."

I'm personally fond of the fact that holy water is just any ol' water that the priest has blessed, and quite frankly, priests will bless just about anything, no questions asked.

When I was in my 20's I was Catholic for a minute there and I wanted a priest to bless something and I was so uncomfortable and worried about the ordeal but I didn't even get two words out in the line after church before the man was waving his hand over whatever I was holding and I was on my way.

What I'm saying is, in your aunt's shoes (and maybe she did this, too), I'd have had just GALLONS of holy water before that priest left. Then there'd be holy Tang, holy ramen, holy spaghetti, holy chicken noodle soup. Holy coffee in the morning. Holy oatmeal. Hell, maybe some holy pancakes. What does my niece/nephew/other-gendered relative want? Does it involve water? HOLY.

Think of the possibilities!

Whenever my aunt springs her insane superstitious/religious cures on me I specifically remember when I was 17 and she got me exorcised. The priest was like "I don't think she's possessed" and she insisted "well there's something wrong with her, she's always [symptoms of depression] so..."

And the guy said some verses and touched my head and stuff then said I should drink only holy water for an entire week. Which wasn't hard to do, but my fav part of this whole experience was me saying I want to eat instant noodles and my aunt going "I'll make them for you. With the holy water he gave us." And then I had holy instant noodles

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Well speaking as a person who loved making art in class but wasn't particularly skilled, I love him. The thing I notice first is how great his proportions are. IDK, I think hands and feet are particularly hard and they're just right.

Anyway, this middle-aged plebe thinks he looks amazing and I love him.

Okay so the first lil clay sculpture looked good but I accidentally broke his legs off and wasn’t able to securely patch ‘em back on (it’s okay he’s gonna be part of a different project now) but I still wanted to try my hand at a human-ish figure SO WE ARE ONTO ROUND TWO

(He’s not finished please ignore how gloopy he is)

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Oh Lord Jesus look up the Irish spelling.

trying to understand whiskey. its a losing battle tbh

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OMG love me a nuthatch

White Breasted Nuthatch. Late summer 2024.

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Yeah that's a strong disagree from me

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I think part of the picture is shifting culture, too. At least here in the 'States, marriage and kids used to be fully the default setting for straight people. Now marriage has been creeping later in life and sometimes left out of the picture, but kids have generally still been the default... now recently there have been a lot more childless-by-choice (CBC) folks around.

So as a younger person (I'm almost 50), even as a neurodivergent, I probably would have answered "to eventually marry and have kids," too, because it was just drilled into me as part of the environment. Maybe these days it's diminished enough that it's not squishing its way into neurodivergent brains as much anymore?

Now I'm non-autistic, but I do have ADHD, and I'm finding I have a lot of commonalities with autistic people, so make of that what you will.

My non-autistic, non-ADHD husband said that its purpose is to avoid loneliness, share your life with someone, help each other, add to each other's quality of life and *koff* intimate activities.

My possibly-autistic, 22-year-old child said its purpose is emotional support, to be around your best friend, comfort, security, being each other's support systems, and cuddles.

Me, the ADHD person? All I can think of is the reason I decided to get married a second time. See, marriage didn't mean the same thing to me anymore, because the demise of my first marriage revealed that it wasn't what I'd thought it'd be. So what was it?

Eventually I realized that it was a chance to stand up in front of everybody and say we love the shit out of each other. So the purpose of a romantic relationship is for us to spend our time showing each other that we love the shit out of each other.

Saw this TikTok where an autistic woman mentioned that at her assessment she was asked the question "What is the purpose of a romantic relationship."

She gave her answer, which was similar to mine, and then she asked her non-autistic husband and his answer was very very different.

I then, out of curiosity, messaged hubby and asked him. And he gave a very similar answer to the TikToker's husband.

So, my question to everyone: are you autistic or non-autistic, and what is the purpose of a romantic relationship?

I'll put hubby's and my answers below the cut.

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*Sacré bleu!

this is problematic of me (joke) but i really enjoy the splashing of french into english speech or writing. just adds a pizzazz

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