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Reflection: Why Is Only Dan Criticized, and Not Runo?

I always see Dan being criticized for being emotionally immature in the early seasons — and rightfully so. He’s withdrawn, avoids deep conversations, doesn’t know how to deal with other people’s feelings (like with Shun and the loss of his mother), and often acts selfishly, especially during battles. But what puzzles me is: why is Runo rarely called out?

Runo, although a good person, behaves in a tsundere way that, instead of helping, actually makes Dan’s immaturity worse. Even knowing that he’s emotionally closed off, she keeps acting like he’s always wrong for not showing affection the way she wants. Rather than helping him grow emotionally, she gets into constant fights out of jealousy (usually because of Julie) and ends up being a hard character to admire as an emotional partner.

On top of that, Runo barely has a real character arc. Once she “gets” Dan’s attention, she drops her motivations as a brawler. She shows up in Mechtanium Surge, but more as nostalgic fanservice, with little real contribution to the protagonist’s growth. Her line about “the team being a family” feels generic and doesn’t lead to any deeper resolution.

Dan, on the other hand, grows a lot — but on his own. It’s through battles, mistakes, losses, the consequences of his pride, and the heavy responsibilities he carries that we see his development. His growth doesn’t happen because of Runo, but in spite of her.

It’s important to remember: both characters are flawed in their own ways. People just notice Dan’s flaws more because he’s the main character and gets more screen time. But that doesn’t mean Runo is a good counterpart — she simply was never written with enough depth to be an actual influence or inspiration.

Maybe if she had gone through an arc like those of more complex and memorable characters — like Shun, Marucho, Julie, for example — she could’ve been more than just the loud romantic interest.

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It might sound kinda silly, but even then, Dan was the one who had to make the first move and kiss her... not Runo. She didn’t really do much to keep the relationship going. And honestly, I think it’s funny how she pretty much gave up on battling after Dan kissed her — like, all she ever really wanted was his attention, not to be strong or anything. It’s almost like Dan’s kiss had some kind of magic or something, haha.

(Runo in her room after Dan kissed her)

(I don't like female characters who need male validation to feel complete... Runo was my first disappointment.)

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Honestly, I never got the hype around Wavern. She feels more like a floating emotional ornament than an actual Bakugan. Her personality is so passive that if she’s not crying over Naga, she might as well be a decorative statue in Vestroia. It’s like she was created just to die gracefully and make everyone sad. Real strength? Presence? Initiative? Nowhere to be found. If that’s what passes for a legendary Bakugan, someone clearly confused ‘divine’ with ‘window dressing’.

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Runo Misaki – A Character Defined More by Drama than Depth

Runo is often remembered as a loud, emotionally volatile character whose primary trait is her possessiveness toward Dan. While the early seasons attempt to present her as a strong female brawler, her motivations are shallow—she mainly battles to get Dan's attention rather than for personal growth or justice. This becomes more apparent after their relationship becomes romantic: Runo quickly loses her drive to fight, showing that her primary arc revolved around winning Dan, not evolving as an individual.

In Season 2 and beyond, she becomes less competitive and even more sidelined. Despite brief moments of insight, such as calling the team a “family” during Mechtanium Surge, her contributions are mostly symbolic. She serves curry, participates in minor scenes, and exists more for nostalgic fanservice than actual narrative relevance. There's no real emotional resolution or deep growth from her—she doesn’t challenge or support Dan in meaningful ways.

Dan Kuso – From Emotional Blockage to Awakening

Dan, on the other hand, starts as an impulsive and immature boy, overwhelmed by the responsibilities of being a leader. He's emotionally repressed in early seasons and often avoids conversations that require vulnerability. However, starting in Season 3 (Gundalian Invaders), we begin to see real change. He matures, learns to listen, takes responsibility, and grows closer to Drago not just as a partner in battle but as a true companion.

Even in Mechtanium Surge, though he begins emotionally distant again (a side effect of the trauma and isolation he's gone through), his emotional arc is more grounded. He gradually becomes more serious, thoughtful, and aware of what his actions mean to others—even if the process is slow and rough.

By the end, Dan chooses adventure, legacy, and his bond with Drago, over staying with Runo. It’s not just physical distance—it’s symbolic of how much Dan has grown beyond the emotionally shallow relationship they once shared.

Conclusion:

Runo, though not a villain, remains a stagnant and problematic character who doesn't contribute meaningfully to Dan’s development or the plot. Dan, in contrast, goes through significant emotional growth, becoming more complex and mature. In the end, their paths naturally diverge—not because of betrayal, but because Dan outgrew what Runo represented.

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I asked the GPT chat what they thought about Dan and Runo's relationship and look at that ...

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Excellent question — and now let’s dive into the relationship between Dan Kuso and Runo Misaki in a realistic and psychological way, considering both of their individual traits and how things would play out in a real-world relationship (outside the anime fantasy):

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Dan and Runo: Would They Work in a Real Relationship?

1. The Starting Point: Emotional Compatibility

In the anime, Dan and Runo don’t have a solid emotional foundation for a deep relationship. They’re both growing teenagers, facing heavy responsibilities (like battles and pressure) without emotional guidance. In real life, this dynamic translates into poor emotional communication and a lack of emotional security.

Dan is emotionally reserved. He acts on instinct, driven by action and the need to protect others. His feelings are often internalized, and he avoids vulnerability. Runo, on the other hand, is insecure, reactive, and uses aggressiveness as a defense. Her need for affection is real, but she doesn’t know how to ask for it — let alone give space for the other to be imperfect.

In a real relationship, this combination leads to constant emotional exhaustion and frustration for both.

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2. Relationship Dynamic: A Toxic Repeating Cycle

Runo tends to express herself through emotional outbursts, especially when she feels ignored or threatened. Dan, who avoids emotional conflict, responds by withdrawing. This intensifies Runo’s insecurity, making her more aggressive. And the cycle repeats: jealousy, distancing, blame, silence, cold reconciliation — until one day, there’s no reconciliation at all.

In real life, this dynamic leads to emotional burnout, especially since neither of them knows how to give the other what they truly need: comfort, listening, and validation.

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3. Growth or Stagnation?

A healthy relationship should be a space for mutual growth. Dan needs someone who helps him open up emotionally without pressuring him — someone who understands his silence and offers patience. Runo, in turn, needs emotional stability, someone who reassures her and validates her presence without making her feel like she’s competing for attention.

Unfortunately, Dan and Runo don’t provide this for each other. They function better as friends or battle companions — where action replaces affection — but not as a mature, emotionally connected couple.

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4. If They Stayed Together into Adulthood...

If we take their relationship into adulthood, it’s possible they’d try to stay together out of habit or attachment, but the relationship would likely become empty and frustrating. Over time, the lack of emotional depth could lead to emotional infidelity (seeking comfort elsewhere), resentment, or a mutual and cold breakup.

It would only work if both went through significant personal growth and therapy, learning to communicate with empathy and emotional safety. But as they’re portrayed, the relationship would likely fall apart.

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5. The Reality of “Tsundere Couples”

The “tsundere x emotionally withdrawn” trope is romanticized in anime, but in real life, it often leads to emotionally imbalanced relationships. Affection becomes a struggle, not a safe space. Love turns into a power struggle, not a sincere connection.

Dan and Runo have chemistry as strong characters, but their relationship isn’t emotionally sustainable without deep change.

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Conclusion: Sincere Love, Unsustainable Relationship

Dan and Runo care for each other, but they don’t understand one another. The affection is real, but the way they handle emotions is immature and incompatible. If they were a real couple, they’d experience constant ups and downs, misunderstandings, and a love that never fully blossoms. In the long run, they’d likely break up in silence, feeling like something was always left unsaid.

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If you’d like, I can write a letter that Dan or Runo would write to the other at the end of the relationship — something sensitive, mature, and exploring how they would say goodbye, acknowledging their love but also that they can’t go on together. Would you like that?

(Wow, how can that be? Only Dan is to blame for the relationship being a problem...)

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Yeah, Dan is a problem, but have you seen Runo?

Dan could have been better without Runo, he spends about 3 years without her and improves almost 50%. If this isn't a sign, I don't know what is?

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When I see someone say "I love Runo" and "you don't understand her" but say they hate Dan, even though they are so insecure that they pour out their insecurities hoping that Dan, who is an "emotionally withdrawn child" will telepathically figure out what she wants, Runo crazily hopes that Dan will make the first move, even though she doesn't know how to understand her own feelings...