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#caffeineaddictthings#hazelnutwhitecoffeefreeze#curryandnoodles#ramennoodles#lifeisgood#whenyouchannelyourinnergoddess (at Old Town White Coffee)

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I was caught candid balling my eyes out during a formal session of a MUN 🙈. #YTSIMUN17#munsessions#committeesessions#Day2#weirdestcandidever#idothiswithmyeyes

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Because we all have been entitled to a personal journey even before we were born and for some of us,we were just meant to be strong ❤ For me the strong people are the most beautiful ones!

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#beachlove#beachgoals#sweetandspiceycorn#travelphotography#wanderlust#beachythings#wavesonwaves#waveshair

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Randomly I paired scoops of kheer malai icecream with apple pie crumbs and it just tasted heavenly in my mouth ❤ #dessert#sumptuous#desserttime#lazyafternoonthings#dessertlove

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at Eden Hotel Kuta

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Undying love for topa❤

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The beautiful breakfast place🌼 #breakfastplacegoals#nicestarttotheday#balidelights#vacacionesenfamilia

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How I like this rain-drenched landscape 💚 #naturephotography#rain#natureinstagram#natureporn#travelphotography#natureinspired

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Throwback to fajr before summer❤

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The beautiful breakfast place🌼 #breakfastplacegoals#nicestarttotheday#balidelights#vacacionesenfamilia

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*We need to stop ''labelling'' people* I came across a teacher once,who is a wise and learned man.A man who isn't just knowledgeable academically but someone who is actually enlightened and insightful.He taught me some beautiful lessons on life ❤ Subjectively,I have serious issues with *labelling* people.I hadn't really realized the magnitude of consequencs of labelling people until one day my teacher abruptly brought that topic up.I know that there are many of you,who like me haven't yet fathomed it fully,but yet somewhere in our conscious minds we know we shouldn't do it. In our society nearly all of us are widely acquainted with tags like 'Kalaiya' 'Baitta' 'Mota' 'Atel' 'Dhilaiya' 'Pagol' 'Noshto' 'Gorib' 'Khaet' 'Downmarket' ' 'Middle-class' and many more!Little do we realize the long-term effect these tags can have on individuals when they are confronted with these!A 'label' or 'tag' specifically a demeaning one can have leave a permanent imprint on someone's mind and can potentially become a scar. Unconsciously or consciously these labels can actually wear someone down.Mostly it affects the self-esteem and confidence of an individual.  We are all programmed in different ways,not all of us take people's crticism in a light or positive way and then there are sensitive and hypersensitive people,I don't think there is anything wrong in being sensitive.In case of such people a label sometimes bugs him/her longer than usual,sometimes a lifetime,they at times feel like they not capable of doing anything productive in life.They keep playing it in their head and over-analyse,which sucks out their postive energy.It hinders their psychological growth and development.And some emotional damage once done,becomes a scar and are hard to recover from.  So being exposed to constant labelling for an inherent attribute(height,complexion etc) can generate negativity in  personality and it holds individual back from seeing the good things around them. This negativity does not only restrict to themselves but also affects the people around them.They stop appreciating their blessings and it changes their behavior even towards the people who are honest with them.Little do we know what someone goes through behind closed doors,deep-seated insecurities are often the result of being constantly labelled.    And on the other extreme,a good compliment/comment,even on the most trivial of things can lift someone's mood and make his/her entire day :) If we don't like something about someone that she/he can work on to fix it,we should put it in way that doesn't sound hurtful at all and encourages the receiver ❤ Let us help each other to become the best versions of ourselves and never bog anyone down consciously,we badly-seriously need to let go of our the urge to constantly label and bombard people with deconstructive criticism.Let us make sincere efforts not to put people through sth we would never want to go through ourselves❤

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Life is hard for each of us in unique ways.We are tested in unique ways.Good times do definitely come but life;this life is never going to get any easier.Life is always going to try us,the hardships trying to get the better of us.Our skins getting saggy,energy diminishing,dreams diluting in the process of "Life".Neither our physical attractiveness nor mental strength will be the same forever. Then why in this world full of temporary pleasures and recurring struggles would we ever choose someone who isn't going going to stick through it all?It's easy to fall for a feeling that makes you feel temporarily good,not giving you butterflies exactly but relieving you from your insecurities for time being.Trust me,It will go away,it will leave you confused and drained.Wait it out,for good things come to those who wait.I know waiting isn't easy,not everyone can, but someday the hard-earned  patience will pay you back in one way or the other.For those who know the beauty of patience will be brave enough to stand alone,to fight for what they deserve.                               

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Just channeling my inner inherent model :p