majaloveschris

[majaloveschris]

Maja, I’ve been a fan of your blog for years and always respected your opinion but I’m afraid you and those who still believe this is all PR are in for a rude awakening when Chris shows up with his pregnant wife soon. I don’t like the couple and think they look ridiculous together but I’ve accepted reality. Chris turned out to be a cliche man. I hope you stick around even when the confirmation comes out this year.

Look, me personally, I won’t get to experience the rude awakening you are talking about. If you’ve been here since the beginning, you know I was always open to their relationship being real. I always said that everything is possible, and everyone should consider both theories as a possibility. Neither of us knows what the truth is, and it’s better if we aren’t being narrow-minded.

To be honest, this being real and fake doesn’t affect my life, and it shouldn’t affect anyone’s as well. If this turns out to be real, I’m sure some people will be really surprised; I will be a bit disappointed, but that's it. I don’t know if I will stay or not; we will see.

[majaloveschris]

To be honest, everyone reacts weirdly when she is being mentioned. Everyone turns so serious and weird whenever she is being mentioned. It's like people don’t really know what to say, how to react.//

I suppose the people he works with would know it's fake, as it's very common in HW and they know what people are up to. But I feel like if she were nice, they would go along with it more (and maybe he would have an easier time getting through it). It's so awful and messy they don't want it to splash back on them, I guess.

I agree. I think they know how she is being perceived in the fandom and that she and her friends are messy, so they don't really want to get involved. I wouldn't either. Maybe if they were better people and they were selling the relationship better, these people would act differently as well.

However, I also think that she isn't around that much. Like she is there when they do a pap walk, they go to an official event, or they create content (I don't think they are really doing this anymore though), but that's it. I don't think she goes and visits him on set or anything like that. Maybe for content reasons, but I don't think she is around that much. I'm not even sure if she's even met Dakota.

So I think most people can't even have an actual opinion about her because they don't know her at all. Like whenever she gets mentioned, people either don't say anything or just say the basic "we love her, she is so sweet" things, which shows that there isn't really much to say about her, probably due to the lack of depth of their relationships with her. And even if she wasn't that nice, they would never say it.

[majaloveschris]

But again, I somehow don't think she is pregnant or they are real, but if I end up being wrong, that's not going to be the end of the world either. ///

I wish you knew how many months and even years some fans devoted to rehabilitating other fans who were so traumatised that even these supporting fans had to seek rehabilitation themselves. It isn't a normal reaction, no one should ever go through such a horrible experience bc of shitty person like Chris, who is fraudulent and almost criminal. He is responsible for people losing their health.

Look, I understand that he is or was a comfort person for a lot of people, but I don’t think he is responsible for every single fan’ mental health. It’s not normal if someone needs rehabilitation or therapy because of a random person’s relationship, because that’s who he is to us: a stranger. I understand if he disappointed people or if people got sad/mad because of the people he is associating himself with, but at the end of the day it shouldn’t get bigger than that.

I don’t know where you got the criminal part, but again, blaming celebrities for people’s help is a bit much. I think we are all grown-ups here, and we can decide when to move on from a situation. If people decided to stay and ended up with mental health problems solely because of this situation, that’s on them. Everyone can walk away and take a step back when it becomes too much, and it’s not on him if you don’t do it.

I know people who completely left the fandom, who just stopped caring about this relationship or reading the news about it. Everyone has the choice, and if you decide to stay, it’s not his fault or on him. I also don’t agree with the games, and it used to affect me a bit (not on the level you mentioned), but not anymore. I have bigger problems in my life right now and I always took a step back when it got too much. Others could have done the same, and it’s not his fault if they didn’t. So no, the mental health of those people whom he doesn’t even know is not his responsibility.

[majaloveschris]

You know I clicked on the tag of albas pregnancy and it's crazy how many times this woman has been pregnant.. by now they would be on baby number 3🤦🏽‍♀️... But let's say she is actually pregnant, she is 'married' to Chris and they live in Portugal/Mass and New York,the whole drama surrounding this is bizarre since she is really a non issue as a celebrity. Like no one really cares /knows her outside of Chris, who has repeatedly made it clear he is very uncomfortable around her, is constantly vague about a three year relationship... Like what! There is never any candid or 'real' photos if them out an about in his hometown where he hides away most of the time when he is not working, it's always some manipulated third party of a third party about being spotted somewhere... It's been years!! Like by now they should be moving freely, doing life freely as the supposed cat is out of the bag. The hiding and pretend 'privacy' is just to create panic and talk in the fandom that is quite frankly non existent. Chris doesn't necessarily need the publicity. Whether we like or not, he is well known, which is actually something I feel he doesn't like unless he is promoting some work and then he vanishes. So if people were to look at this objectively, then what would be the purpose of all this drama. Like why...unless it serves a particular person who needs it. I actually saw a post on Tik tok that she was one of the actresses being considered to play Wonder woman... Among others if I may add. She may pretend or even say she doesn't want fame but all this drama is just serving her.

So yeah, she might be pregnant, married to Chris for real and they are happily enjoying domestic bliss in whatever new house they are rumored to be designing for an Architectural digest spread, but it is so unlike the Chris we have known for 20+years that it begs the question. And that man has not looked like himself in the last three years it's worrying. He looks so drained and almost dreads doing interviews because it leads to the same questions. I pity him sometimes. He has lost his shine completely, even his awkwardness was cute and comforting, now it's just seems cringe and uncomfortable. May he be freed from the shackles of all this drama!!

Yeah, I also find it really hard to believe that she is pregnant, but nothing is impossible. I mean, if a picture surfaces or anything like that and she indeed looks pregnant, then that's it, but up until that point I have my doubts. As you said, the way they behave around each other and all of the things we know about this relationship wouldn't really indicate a relationship to me that could last forever or that they would involve a kid. Obviously, their relationship could be real, just not a good one, but I don't know how much I believe that.

But if she actually ends up being pregnant this time, then I think we all have to accept the fact that whether they are in a healthy relationship or not, they aren't PR. And to be honest, I don't care if they will just fake it (I hope they would never go that far), and I won't question whether it's his or not, because I don't care. If they publicly involve a pregnancy or a child in this, I'm done with the PR theory. Because that either proves that they are real or that they would do things that I can't accept to prove this is real.

But again, I somehow don't think she is pregnant or they are real, but if I end up being wrong, that's not going to be the end of the world either.

[majaloveschris]

So I’ve gotten a lot of asks since yesterday about the new photo some people saw on someone’s private social media. I obviously haven’t seen the picture, and I probably never will, even if it’s an existing one. I don’t really know what to believe, nor do I really have any theories because this is not something of which I can really have any. She might be pregnant, or might be not; time will tell for sure.

There’s one thing I don’t understand and another that bothers me.

The thing that I don’t understand is how she was capable of hiding her belly in those pictures that were posted online of her if she has such a visible one that from a picture people were able to tell she is pregnant? I don’t think she showed anything else, but a flat stomach in those videos and pictures. I obviously know that those are a bit blurry, but I think on Justin’s you can clearly see she doesn’t have one.

But you know what, let’s assume she is pregnant for a second. And let’s say that we can’t see her stomach because she is trying to hide it.

The second thing, the thing that bothers me, is the old privacy talk. Now people love throwing that word around, proudly using it from a high horse, trying to be the moral compass of the fandom. But the minute they find something that aligns with their views and opinion, it doesn’t matter anymore. Imagine if I, for example, would’ve gotten my hands on their divorce papers and would’ve shared the news (without evidence, of course). Would people believe me? Maybe those who believe this is not real would, but a lot of people wouldn’t, because why would they? My words are nothing without evidence, and just because I hear something that I want to be real, it doesn’t mean it is. But leaking something so personal doesn’t feel right. And I’m not saying that because I don’t want it to be true, because what’s going to happen if it is? Nothing. My life will be the same. Was I wrong about them being PR then? Yeah, but my life will go on, without any chance. I just don’t like hypocrisy, and while I’m not the biggest fan of Alba, „announcing” something like this is not a random Tumblr blog’s thing to do. You could obviously say that maybe Alba wanted the info out, but she didn’t want to do it herself, so she managed to do it this way. That’s a possibility as well. But again, it’s about the hypocrisy part. Some people can do whatever they want if it proves their truth; some can’t do anything.

[majaloveschris]

Random thoughts:

Chris truly has superpowers. He isn't just able to drain batteries but is also capable of not appearing in pictures and videos when he doesn't want to.

[majaloveschris]

you seem like the most nuanced thinker here, what do you think of the camsoda/fapello development? answer only if it's not too much trouble and enjoy the rest of your day 🩷

That's really nice of you, thanks! To be honest, I don't really know what to think. The problem is that I have never been on those sites; I hadn't even heard of them up until that very moment when I saw people talking about her being on them. I don't know if the profiles are fake or not; I mean, they could be real. After that shower video and seeing what kind of projects she's been into, I wouldn't be surprised if they were real. But as I said before, I'm not familiar with those sites and whether people could just simply make a profile for a celebrity like her or if they need to provide some type of information that it's actually them wanting to register.

Either way, I don't think her being on those sites adds or takes anything away from the PR/real conversation. They could be real, and she could be on that site, and they could be in a PR relationship while the profiles are also fake.

Sorry if I couldn't provide you a better answer or opinion, but since I don't really know what to think about the whole thing because I feel like I don't have enough information, I'm not that comfortable with formulating an opinion.

[majaloveschris]

I'm just wondering why they don't go out. Forget attending official events, they aren't even sighted doing regular things like going to dinner, ball games, plays, etc. Taking the example of the couple you posted below, Andrew and Monica do regular couple things and are spotted by fans quite often when they're out and about together. They've been spotted seeing plays together, attending a basketball game, Glastonbury music festival, and now Wimbledon. And Deuxmoi has also received several sightings of them at restaurants and stuff.

Because they are so private. You know, they keep their relationship behind closed doors and only use it when it comes in handy.

Jokes aside, I find it really weird how they are rarely seen out together. Let’s assume that they hide well, and if they disguise themselves properly, people don’t recognize them, but I do think that after several years, I find it straight up impossible that they go out regularly, but have never been seen. Like it’s been almost 3 years at this point and nothing? Not a single natural sighting. It’s either a pap walk, a red carpet event, or the chef of the restaurant where they went to. It’s never a fan or someone catching them somewhere. I think the closest we've been to a natural sighting was the airplane/airport one. And no, I don’t count the pictureless sightings, because for me if there isn’t a picture, I don’t believe it.

Maybe he and she can disguise themselves as well, but I don’t buy this, especially not after several years. I think there is an easy answer to this, especially since we’ve been seeing Alba in Portugal quite frequently in the past months; they don’t really spend time together only when it’s necessary, but nowadays it’s usually just mentioning her in an interview, and that’s it.

[majaloveschris]

Would you believe Chris and Alba are real if you saw such photos of them? I mean, these two have been dating for about six months and seem more "married" than a certain married couple who make no public appearances together. I've seen these two together more times in six months of dating than the married couple who've been together almost 4 years.

https://x.com/whygarfieldd/status/1941858830268137513?t=nzU3b4Zg5n9BmmLrJ09l1Q&s=19

No, those times are over. We should’ve seen something similar to these types of pictures from the very beginning. Now, it would feel made up and faked.

Also, I don’t think they are capable of being like this around each other. It should come naturally, like it does for most real couples. I don't think they would be able to fake anything even remotely close to this for their lives.

[majaloveschris]

Hi Maja, I just wanted to tell you that since I started following this fandom, you've always seemed like the most down-to-earth blogger of all, even though you never respond to my anonymous messages. I think we share the same opinion about Chris Evans. At first, he seemed like a nice, genuine guy, but over time, we've realized he's not quite like that, especially because of the way he's handled his relationship with the Portuguese woman. I don't understand all the mystery surrounding his marriage; it makes you think it's not real, given the way everything seems so calculated. If that girl is really pregnant I think it's part of their strange relationship, personally I think Chris is the kind of man who can't live with one woman, he treasures his loneliness and all this about the invented marriage and now the supposed pregnancy that must be part of the same plan, it is with the purpose of having his offspring but not in the conventional way, I'm sure there's money involved behind the whole farce, she's just someone he hired to weave his web of lies, I think deep down he's just a man desperate for outside approval despite his own wishes, I think deep down he wants a child but not to live with the mother of it, that's why he invented the whole marriage thing.

Thank you so much for your kind words; I really appreciate them. I’m sorry if I have never answered a single ask of yours. I do get a lot of asks daily, and I wouldn’t say I’m the best at answering all of them, but I’m trying.

I think one of the reasons why I always found and still find it hard to believe this thing is real is because I think that the guy he’s portrayed himself as would never actually want to be with someone like Alba. Obviously, people can lie, but he’s always seemed genuine, and I don’t think someone can lie for decades. Is he perfect? No. But I do think he is a good person. Obviously, if this turns out to be real, that’s a different conversation.

What I find hard to decide is whether he actually wants a family or not. Not like it’s any of my business, but it could play a big factor in this. I do agree, however, that he cares more than he shows. I do think one of the reasons this whole idea was born is because he kept mentioning this whole family and marriage thing, and it didn’t really happen. I guess they thought they would be the next IT couple, the next power couple. You know, the next Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively, or Scarlett Johansson and Colin Jost, but it didn’t really go that way. I think they expected something entirely different from the fans and the general public.

[majaloveschris]

To all the bitches in my inbox asking me what I think about last night photo, or daring me to say something, cause I'm quiet about it.

Here's my thing.

I'm not saying anything cause it's always the same old fucking shit you guys are doing. Pushing that pregnancy on that woman over sweet fuck all.

She doesn't show up with Chris somewhere: she must be pregnant.

She wears something loose: she must be pregnant.

She looks a little puffy: she must be pregnant.

She's wearing a scarf: she must be pregnant.

She's showing with a flat stomach: must be early stages, look at her glow. She must be pregnant.

Add to this the thousands of fake sightings in baby stores, hospitals, or "chris having a baby seat in the back of his car", or "she refused to take a pic because "you know"".

AREN'T YOU ALL GUYS EXHAUSTED WITH THIS? She's been what... pregnant for the past hundred years????

I have many more evidence and reasons to think this RS is fake than your evidence of her being pregnant. And I'm not here clocking 16 hours a day of answering asks and posting BS like someone is doing.

So that's why I'm not saying anything. I'm just enjoying the summer by my pool, because nothing is happening. GO FUCKING PLAY OUTSIDE! YOU'LL SEE IT'S GREAT!

Ring me the day you get a hand on the ultrasound...

Meanwhile... fuck off!

[majaloveschris]

Welp, looks like Chris is gonna be a dad! That or she’s just gained a lot of weight but with her active lifestyle- I don’t think that’s likely without a cause.

Every single time we talk about something pregnancy-related, I receive an ask like this, lol. Are you the one who keeps sending me these?

I don’t know in which universe you think she’s gained a lot of weight or why, but okay. You know, people, even those who live a healthy lifestyle, could gain weight for other reasons as well. Some people, like you, always start this rumor, and then she shows up with a flat belly. I think we should stop making assumptions like this. We can say she is pregnant when she actually confirms it. I don’t know why some of you feel so comfortable making comments like this about her body. And I’m saying this while not liking her.

[majaloveschris]

Hey Maja 👋

I have a question based on a previous ask I saw here; and to be transparent I believe it is real, but I do not have any stakes in this game, there’s not prize here for any “team” really.

So just curious, as I was saying; someone said “if this turns out to be real-” my question is, what would that look like for people who believe it is not real? Is it them maybe looking more pleasantly in your eyes as a couple, idk more chemistry I mean? Is it them having children? What is the parameter here?

Thank you!

Look, I used to avoid this ask because I felt like not wanting to give them ideas, but to be honest, if they were capable of faking something like this, I’d be done with him and with this whole thing. For me, it would be her being pregnant. Obviously, it had to be a real pregnancy, but let’s hope, and I truly do, that they would never in a million years fake a pregnancy, because that would be the lowest of all in my opinion.

So let’s assume she gets pregnant; that would be it for me. I think after she was pregnant, she actually gave birth, and he gave his name to all of it. I couldn’t believe anymore that it’s fake. So yeah, her being pregnant would probably be the ultimate end for me, whether it was faked or not. Would I believe they have the happiest and healthiest relationship? No. But if she gets pregnant with her child, I don’t think there’s anything to question anymore.

[majaloveschris]

Your blog would be the blog to bring everyone back together Maja! 💞

I think many here believe it’s either real or pr but either way it’s still messy and definitely not the “love” story they are trying to sell to the general public. So to have anyone acting like she’s living a dream and like she’s some girl who got lucky and married a prince when said prince has been acting and treating her like a peasant he was forced to be with is mind boggling.

On the flip side seeing people go to whatever extreme length to try to prove it’s fake to the point of making up false narratives, claiming to hate the fandom and Chris and acting like they are in the industry is insane.

The level of disrespect either way isn’t good. So it’s either a real toxic relationship as she herself stated to be sad the year she got married or this is pr and they are both tired of faking shit for whatever attempt at career advancement. 🤷‍♀️

Oh, thank you; that’s very sweet of you, but I don’t think I would be capable of doing that.I agree that even if it’s real, they are trying to sell a never-existed love story. They clearly aren’t as in love with each other as they are trying to show. He looked way more comfortable and lovely with strangers than with his own wife, and this says a lot. Even if this turns out to be real, I don’t buy the whole „happier than ever” narrative, because you can clearly see how they are acting and behaving around each other.

I think the „making up things” goes both ways. On both sides there are people who love making up things just to prove their truth, which is sad. I don’t think they should be doing something like that, no matter the side they are on. It’s never this deep, and I do think some people take this whole thing way too personally.

[majaloveschris]

Maja if this turns out to be real, what're you gonna do? You'll leave the fanbase or stay?

I think I kind of already did. I’m not as invested as I once was, at the very beginning. As I said in my other post, after a while people get tired of this; the same thing happened to me. I'm still interested in how this will end and about the things that happen and are said, just not as much as I used to be. But I don't think this is a problem; on the contrary, this makes me perceive things even more neutrally. I will always care about him and will never forget the comfort he brought me, but it’s not the same anymore. Maybe it’s because other things happened in my personal life, and now I care and worry more about me needing to find a new job asap than the nature of this shitshow.

But how would I feel if this whole thing turned out to be real? I would be really disappointed. And not because I was wrong, because we are all human, and I can admit if I misunderstood something, if I was wrong. The reason for my disappointment would be two things: his behavior and Alba’s personality. If this turned out to be real, it would mean that they fueled the team PR side and wanted them to keep questioning things. And that it would mean he is just okay but in love with Alba and with everything she stands for, which is a huge bummer, and it would feel like the guy I liked never existed.

So would I leave the fandom? I don’t know. As I said at the very beginning, I’m not as invested and involved as I once was. Would I quit and never post again? I don’t know that. We will see, I guess.

[majaloveschris]

Hey Maja,

You’re level headed, I mean that in the most respectful way. 😅

But I had to flip the situation so to speak and really ask myself hmmm what if we’re all wrong about this being PR, like what if to Chris it looks completely different. He is just a guy from Boston who happened to get famous due to talent. He’s done pr in the past yes and seemed to be authentic.

But just like life people change. Chris was never Steve Rogers, Chris is just a guy like many of people’s exes. What if he decided to do things differently and this is who he chose regardless of how it looks. Maybe he wanted to keep his fandom and image and that’s why it’s so PR looking like he’s playing the Hollywood game, but also working to help establish his wife. I just had to the look at another pov and like Lisa may indeed have accidentally liked something, it happens. Celebs are human and you don’t think they get tired of random strangers talking shit to them or stalking friends and family, you don’t think they’d see how invested online strangers are and try to play with people just to stay relevant and also just because.

Chris is simply living his life like the rest of us and Hollywood dressed him up and he’s played along, but now he’s trying to manage that plus his private life to another celebrity that doesn’t align to the image he held for so long and it’s just coming off as so badly business and fandom wise, but to him he just thought he was smarter and thought oh if I share her online people will love her, maybe he didn’t know she trolled or didn’t care if she did. Chris doesn’t know any of us to care. We assume these celebrities actually give a damn about this fandom shit, but they probably don’t.

People lie, he speaks in interviews that goes to BILLIONS of people so I don’t expect him to tell personal stuff too much more either especially these days, people are crazy. But to the fandoms limited view they see every video dissect every move to mean more that what it actually is.

I just wonder if this has spiraled and eventually we do unfortunately learn that Chris was an image while the real Chris Evans is simply human and this is real and the life he chose to live, just him and not to uphold some fake image, but he’s forced to keep playing that role as well.

If this doesn’t end by Summer or before their next anniversary, I do hope many people start really questioning reality. It’s easy to get caught up in parisocial relationships with celebs and not even know it.

Hi, thank you so much! I think it’s already crossed everyone’s mind at least once that what if this whole thing is real? And I don’t think this thought is bad; I think narrow-mindedly thinking this can’t be anything but fake is much worse, because then you will start misunderstanding everything that comes out and think everything proves something, or your point, which is not true.

Chris has never been and never will be Steve Rogers, and I don’t remember him ever stating the opposite. I never really understood why people thought in the first place that he is like him or can ever be. He is a fictional character after all, and as you said, he is just a guy, filled with flaws like all of us.

But let’s talk a bit about the theory you wrote down: what if this is real, but he is, on purpose, trying to make it look like it was PR? First of all, that would be extremely disrespectful towards his wife. If he decided to marry her, then go ahead and show her off. If he’s actually been doing that, he just made everything worse, because after a while people will realize that he was lying and playing them, and oh, that’s gonna be another shitshow. Because him playing people to make them think it’s not real and doing this just to save himself because he chose a not-so-good person as his wife is even worse than this being real. And while I don’t like Alba at all, that would be really humiliating for her as well. However, I find it highly impossible that this would be the case. I don’t think he is that bad of a human being, and you can clearly see in his body language that their relationship isn’t any more caring and loving behind closed doors as well. I mean, for example, when the NYC pap walk came out, and that random girl uploaded that video where they were seen as well, you could’ve seen how they act when they think they aren’t being recorded.

Lisa’s like, It could’ve been an accident, but considering that she didn’t really interact with her or anything like that, maybe only after this whole thing came out, says a lot, especially when you can see that she is still supportive of Minka, for example.I think these people care about what people say more than you would imagine. Half of the things that are being said and done wouldn’t have been if they didn’t care. Because of this whole whatever-ship, his career took a hit, not even a small one. People unfollowing, fans leaving after decades. His team noticed that; he noticed that. Celebs love saying that they don’t care, but they do, more than you would imagine.

Fans obviously care more than any random person who comes across an interview of his. While I agree that some things are being blown out of proportion, I do think that we can’t deny the inconsistency of their relationship. Even if it’s real, it’s clear they want to sell a love story that most likely never existed.

I do agree that after a while we need to let this story go, even if it turns out to be not real in the end. It’s funny because will we ever actually get to know what this was? Probably not. Even if this ends one day, we will never actually know the truth. But after a while everyone will get tired of this and move on with their life. They either will „accept” her presence in his life, try to forget that she exists, or leave the fandom. Either way, I hope everyone will do what’s best for their mental health because this isn’t worth yours, that’s for sure.

[majaloveschris]

Dakota's expressions were also weird

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She was acting so weird anytime AB was mentioned lol like „She doesn’t speak english” or „bring your wife, we love her” said with a smirk told me more about it than anything he would’ve said

For me it was the way she reacted when Chris told the proposal story. Like she gave no fuck about it at all. Her expressions were like, „Do you really want me to believe this bullshit?” I assume on some level she is happy that his love life is what people talk about, because I assume she wouldn’t really want to talk about hers right now.

To be honest, everyone reacts weirdly when she is being mentioned. Everyone turns so serious and weird whenever she is being mentioned. It's like people don’t really know what to say, how to react. Obviously, on paper, she should be around when a project is being shot, when they promote the movie, and just on a daily basis, which is probably not something that actually is happening, so everyone thinks it’s better to stay silent and go along with whatever Chris says.