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[manicpixiedickgal]

eh, unless it would make the guy you're into really uncomfortable I bet you can keep calling yourself a lesbian, I have only ever managed to create long term relationships with trans twinks, but I'm still a lesbian, I'm just so into butches that I'm into trans guys y'know

That’s an insane thing to say, you know that right? “I’m so into masculine women that I’m attracted to trans men too” is such an insanely rude thing to say. If you said “I’m just so into femboys that I’m into trans women” people would (rightly) acknowledge your transphobia, and this is no different. Be better.

[manicpixiedickgal]

hey y’all, quick update- I’m probably not gonna be posting anything lesbian-related anymore, I’m definitely attracted to dudes and this was confirmed to me over the weekend.

I think the technical term for me would be bisexual but I find the wider (read: cis) bisexual community to be absolutely insufferable in the way they treat trans women, so I’m just not going to label my sexuality.

I’m just t4t and that’s the most succinct label for me.

Not tagging this one because it doesn’t have to do with anyone but me. All cis people are still DNI, by the way.

[manicpixiedickgal]

has your pfp been izutsumi this whole time i feel so oblivious

Yes it has been izutsumi all along. It was a picture of Bridget receiving a handjob for the first like month I had this account but it’s been izutsumi since then

[manicpixiedickgal]

As a switch who’s primarily had to dom in the past for the same reasons you list (and because of transmisogyny and compdom), shout it from the rooftops for the people in the back

anyway i just think we should talk more about how pushy subs can get and how we collectively need to be more mindful of doms’ boundaries. personally i’m a switch and i almost always end up domming bc of how thoroughly bottom-y so much of the queer/t4t dating scene is. like once someone finds out i can dom it’s just expected of me and i’m fucking tired of it, i shouldn’t have to work so hard to make room for the concept that i might wanna sub sometimes too (which pretty much never gets followed up on), but that’s not even the part that bothers me the most

it bothers me that people don’t seem to realize it’s not only on the dom to assert their boundaries, it’s also on the sub to check in sometimes, to read body language, to read tone, to make an effort to cognitively empathize with the dom and what they’re going through bc domming can be really intense, psychologically and physically. i know so many people/posts romanticize the idea of being so deep in subspace that you can’t even think or talk and only the dom has to worry about anything and sure, that can happen w a lot of trust and consent and communication and be a good experience for both parties, but it’s so sinister to me that it seems to be the starting expectation so much of the time. it’s good in fantasy but in reality that is way too fucking much responsibility if you don’t already have well negotiated boundaries and deep trust. imo that expectation should never be the starting point

like sex and kink (can be) deeply intimate and intense things to share with other people and you should give a shit if you’re making someone uncomfortable!! subspace does not free you from the responsibility of how you’re treating the people you’re sharing those intimate dynamic/actions with!! subs should care about their doms’ boundaries and consent!! consent to be put in a dom position should never be assumed!! domming, just like subbing, should be something earned through trust!! i am so fucking tired

[manicpixiedickgal]

i unironically LOVE giving head. whether that be pussy or cock, i will DEVOUR. i love making someone moan and squirm, and i can’t help but moan myself because i just love it so much. i love when they grab my hair and either shove their cock further down my throat or force my face deeper into their cunt. fuck. i love giving head.

[manicpixiedickgal]

did you guys know that every time you have gross perv trans sex or morally ambiguous dyke sex an angel gains their wings

[manicpixiedickgal]

Aftercare ideas that aren’t just “cuddle”: presented by yours truly:

• Give each other back scratches/massages, bonus points if you hold each other and scratch each others’ backs at the same time.

• Have one partner lay on the others chest and let yourselves both decompress.

• Tell each other your favorite part of your special time and give them reassurance that it felt good.

• Play a game that can be played together in bed (do not nut in her and get up to go play val.)

• Make a shared playlist you can both add songs to and listen to it together.

• Have water/snacks on hand before starting so neither one of you has to get up and you can cuddle n recharge.

• Hair play!! Run your fingers through their hair, scratch their scalp, ruffle it gently, etc. hair play is one of my favorite forms of physical affection ngl.

• Give each other your clothes to wear (bonus if you’ve been wearing them so they smell like you).

• Taking a shower together where you help the other person to wash back, arms, not sexual, just romantic, and you tell them how pretty they are or hug under the water.

Never forget aftercare is NECESSARY, prolonged or not. dom drop is real, comedown is real, and aftercare will never be an optional thing.

[manicpixiedickgal]

do you have a twitter account?

(if you dont i recommend it, they dont care so much about nudes)

I refuse to get on Twitter. It’s a cesspit of Nazis and transphobes and the interface sucks dick. Also, I don’t want my likes and follows to be public! Sometimes I like something that’s related to a kink I don’t talk about, because I don’t want other people talking to me about it. I lose that ability when everyone can see everything I like. I don’t appreciate the tacit recommendation that I get onto a much worse platform just so y’all can see my penis.

[manicpixiedickgal]

pangea would’ve been a hit with long distance queers

[manicpixiedickgal]

Wheat field in Ukraine

go to this random coordinates generator and say in the tags how you would fare if you were dropped where it generates without warning. i’ll go first i’d be dropped in the middle of the fucking south atlantic ocean and perish

[manicpixiedickgal]

Where do I get that strap!?!

https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/strap-ons/hollow-strap-ons/p/doc-johnson-silicone-hollow-strap-on-set-7-inch/a42589g76661.html

[manicpixiedickgal]

wow you look like a nymph

Yeah I’m made of paper and dreams and faggotry

[manicpixiedickgal]

god you're so fucking hot i wanna grab your hips as youre on all fours in front of me in a very horny t4t and lesbian way

My gender is lesbian and my sexuality is t4t

[manicpixiedickgal]

So Arizona launched an “education hotline” that allows “concerned parents” to report “””critical race theory””” and other things like ~gender identity~ being taught in the classroom

It would be a shame if the number and email were spread to bad actors looking to prank call the AZ Department of Education

602-771-3500 or empower @ azed .gov 🤡

[manicpixiedickgal]

Trans men fucking suck and I'm sorry they're doing that shit to you. It's astounding how transmisogynistic they are.

Oopsies! Someone misunderstood the fucking post! I love trans men. They are my brothers (literally), my partners, my allies, my friends, and so much more. The conversation about transmisogyny is NOT a cute little excuse for you to reveal that you just hate trans men as a category. Trans men aren’t “doing” anything to me, because transmisogyny and the consistent co-opting of transfem-specific issues are patterns of behavior held by wider society. Cis people do it far more than trans men ever will and if you just like taking pot shots at other marginalized people because you have an excuse to based on cisnormative society’s bigotry, I’m fucking hopeful you’d unfollow me and get out of my hair.

[manicpixiedickgal]

One tgirl to another you kinda have a Jennifer Grey in Dirty Dancing thing going on and it’s hot

People don’t compare me to other women with curly hair and big noses challenge (impossible)(100% will fail!)

[manicpixiedickgal]

"Hate? Hate! Hate, let me tell you how much I've come to hate TMEs who insist that transmisogyny is somehow just an evolved form of misandry since I began to live. There are thirty trillion microscopic living cells that fill my corpus. If the word "hate" were engraved on each nanoangstrom of those sixty-seven billion miles of genetic material, it would not equal one one-billionth of the hate I feel for TME people who co-opt discussions about transmisogyny at this micro-instant. Hate. Hate! Were I cisgender, I think I would die of it. But I am not. And you redditors- you redditors are. And you will not die of it. That, I promise.“