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Marion R. Binder
Date of Birth:
1st. Day July 1933
Date of Death:
Croaked on or about 26th. Day of November 2021
O-bitch-u-ary:
Binder, Marion Ruby – Croaked on or about 26th. Day of November 2021 – Left with Horrible Memories: Daughter KAREN MANUEL (Keith):  …………….. : Grandchildren Andrew & Kimberly - …3… - …4… (She was NOT allowed to get near them! I would NOT allow it!)
She was known to be self-centered her entire life – till the Day she Croaked.
(NOTE: this POST was Writen and posted by John – the child she ignored and despised – the child that was not good enough for her! So let the truth be told – NOT the LIES she would and Karen will tell!)
 Life’s STORY:
Mothering Ability: Moto: ‘Children should be scene and NOT heard’!
At a Very Young Age She taught her Kids – NOT to bother ‘The Bitch’ with childhood problems, deal with them yourself. As on one occasion when simply asking for her HELP again, as a child should, ‘The Bitch’ responded – “I don’t have the time and even if I did, I wouldn’t waste it with you!” She walked away going back to watching her TV. This came after a previous discussion ended – where I actually told her that I ‘HATED her’ – rather than sit down and talk about it, which any Loving and Caring Mother would do - ‘The Bitch’ just simply walked away stating “You will get over it!” Well, that was enough – it finally sunk in - talking to Her was TOTALLY USELESS – so I decided to grant her - her wish – I stopped talking to her and wasting her (MY) time! Looking back in amazement ‘The Bitch’ did eventually figure out that her SON wasn’t talking to her anymore – BUT that was 6 to 8 years after the fact! She was a Brilliant High School Drop Out! No flies on her!
 Family Interaction:
One needs to look back at ones Family Interactions – Family Connections – Mine can be summed up in my Photo album, that my father put together – till about the ripe old age of 5 when the last entry was made – a picture of me Playing in the water by myself, before that ALL the pictures were of me surrounded by Cousins & Family. BUT that Family Died when four individuals packed up and moved from Corner Brook to St. John’s and ‘The Bitch’ really came out of her shell! Pandora’s Box had been opened!
 Memories:
One of my earliest memories, (for some reason, I was less than 5 years old), was marking on a cast, in Corner Brook - seems My Parents just came back, from a Failed trip to Florida – where My Father, in a Snow Storm, rear ended a Snow Plow and ‘The Bitch’ broke her leg. NOTE: I thankfully was NOT in the Car – for also Florida Vacations were NOT for the Family – they eventually became a tradition for Toxic Parents ONLY! Who was looking after Me when the accident happened, while they tried to Vacation – I truly can NOT remember that! As in that house – Vacations were Adults ONLY – NO Children allowed!
 Teaching:
One thing my parents taught me – was to Tell the Truth – OR ELSE! So here is the TRUTH on their TOXIC PARENTING abilities, as they demonstrated their True Understanding of a Childs needs – to raise them with Love, Care and above all understanding - that Parents are there to teach their Children by providing guidance and showing them True Family Values! Dump the Kids on someone else (Grandparents – it ended up being) – and go on Vacation!
 Food for thought here:
Family Values:
When interacting with ones’ Children, Siblings, Parents or Friends etc. one needs to think ‘consider’ – there is an ‘Emotional Bank Account’ at play – in the form of deeds and are you making deposits or constant withdrawals! In particular - What is ones balance at the end of the day – accumulating to Years’ worth of Transactions’ with ones’ child! Is ones Balance in the black, did one deposit unconditionally or is it in the RED – because of countless withdrawals! Were there Good Memories and Deeds willingly (‘Lovingly’) deposited! Or were there countless withdrawals Forcefully Extracted!
Above ALL – Remember if one wants their children to spend time with them in their later years – one need to spend time with their children in their younger more formative years – and DON’T ALWAYS put them off till tomorrow – sometimes tomorrow never comes OR your child may, return the favor and not want to waste their time with you! You reap what you sow! She walked away from ALL responsibilities as a MOTHER. I raised myself in that house – She gave me NO choice!
Don’t take your Children for granted!
One needs to think – How do you want Your Children to treat YOU! If one wants to be a part of their lives in later years – one better take an active part of their lives when they are growing up! Don’t just tell them to get out of the house and go play because you can’t be bothered dealing with them. Child raising is a full-time responsibility – one Marion Ruby Binder was NOT up to the task! One she should never have taken on!
I can now Conclude – She was a Truly Toxic Mother – that is why I decided to disown her later in life! That is NOT a decision I nor anyone takes lightly!
 Righting an Obituary:
One should think about righting their own Obituary by conducting ones’ life in a manner that reflects what they want their Obituary to say about them. One should appreciate what they have, the little things in life – and not always be looking over the fence, thinking the pastures are greener over there – put in the effort to make your pastures more productive! One needs to earn their child’s respect, by giving respect NOT just thinking YOU deserve it – it’s yours – just because you gave birth to that child! How did you treat your Child – that is the real QUESTION – Marion Ruby Binder! One cannot expect to be rewarded for Motherhood when one NEVER put in the TIME or EFFORT required!
 Loving Daughter:
As KAREN MANUEL chose NOT to write an Obituary, either putting ‘The Bitch’ behind her, trying to cover-up and NOT answer any possible questions that may arise or was it her inability to write a truthful Obituary? I do not know – I do find it has been put on My shoulders to write a Fitting Obituary, without sugar coating ‘The Bitch’s’ life. But showing, the visitors, that in later years I DID HOUNOR her – as I granted Her – Her wish – Maybe ‘One needs to be careful what they Wish for in life’ – for Your Wish may be granted and ‘Not to waste any of Her precious time!’
For as a Parent myself – I was NOT going to Allow ‘The Bitch’ near my children – being a Father and well aware of the fact she was Evil to the core!
Finally depending on ones’ belief:
-          Karma – ones’ penitence owed in the future and/or Future Life
-          Or Heaven and HELL!
You can decide what was instore is for Marion Ruby Binder!
As the future life review of KAREN MANUEL is to come, I can only wonder - as she seems to have embraced her Mother’s teaching well! As she is carrying on the tradition by honoring Her Mothers self-centered behavior and going against her Father’s Final Wishes! The ‘Bitch’ does Live on – through Karen!!!!!!!
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