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The creator of the lesbian flag, Emily Gwen, is currently unhoused and struggling financially while suffering to chronic and mental illness.
I have already contributed to her Kofi, and now I ask you to help, especially if you have ever used the lesbian flag. Even if you can't donate, I urge you to share her Kofi around to reach more audiences
Lesbians support other lesbians 🧡🤍💗

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That's pretty much.... All opt-in stuff. No, the reward for choosing to do all that isn't getting to hit a child. My mom did most of that (besides be an alcoholic and go through multiple spouses) *and* volunteered at our school *and* went back to school herself *and* did community stuff *and* did outside work on the farm *and* dealt with three autistic/ADHD kids *and* had EDS *and* was a full-time police officer *and* eventually developed a violent form of dementia, and didn't hit us.
If your mom hit you she just sucked, dude, and her choosing to be more stressed out is her own damn fault; and doing half of that stuff is bare minimum responsibility for forcing the world on children.
On James Dobson’s death: spanking isn’t ok, but when you have kids you understand how frustrating it is.
For most of my brother and I childhood our mom was…
. getting divorced and re-married (a couple of times).
. working full time
. Cooking every single meal for our family and cleaning up afterwards
. Cleaning the house
. Attended Alcoholics Anonymous meetings
. Driving my brother and I to school, church, extra curricular activities including soccer, ballet, cheerleading, baseball, theatre, karate
. Paid for all of these extracurricular activities
. Taking care of our pets including scheduling vet appointments
. Planning our family trips and packing
. Doing all of the Christmas shopping, wrapping, decorating, cooking, etc.
. Paid for the food, decorations, presents, etc. for holidays
. Cooking an over abundance of food every thanksgiving so everyone took home lots of leftovers
. Scheduled my brothers and my doctor’s appointments and drove us.
. Packing up everything and moving houses multiple times for a variety of reasons
. Helped my brother and I with our homework every night
. Answered our phone calls during her workday
. Trying to lose her baby weight during the peak of 90’s-00’s diet culture
. Changing our diapers and potty training
. Raising angsty teenagers while going through perimenopause
Of course my brother and I did our chores as kids to help out, and our stepdad helped pay for things, but if you mom did even HALF of this of fucking COURSE your mom had a temper and spanked you dumbass!
I still think spanking is abuse, but If your mom did even half of this you call her and thank her right now!
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I'm so fucking tired of this idiot being in charge of anything.
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When ur mutuals w/ some cool ass people rb if u agree
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why do the words caregiver and caretaker mean the same thing. Shouldn't they be rival jobs that undo each others progress
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so fucking stupid that meds literally work. "swallow this pebble it makes you think" hateful
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i love things that come in glass jars because once its over the glass jar is mine
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Ice suggesting a white woman remove the Mexican flag sticker from her car. Can they all kill themselves already
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