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Motivational Monday..... How to let GO and attract GOLD......... In my last post i promised to share on why people hurt you and how to forgive them... In case you didn't read the first post , check my group(Grace made women) Moving on ........... Why do people hurt you?........ ** They are human... ** Ignorant.... **They didn't know you better..... **ill thought .... Bear this in mind that we are all human and we all hurt one another in one way or the other,we all have the abilities of hurting people but it's left to you if you want to hurt people or not.. Some of you just by hissing you hurt someone and if the person retaliate he/she hurt you back. If you understand that humans have this abilities of hurting people you will live a happy life, . Next is Ignorant, there's this situation whereby a guy is cheating in a relationship and won't know its hurting the babe because he thought its a normal things for guys because she didn't make him know about it,or a girl taking calls from guys and its hurting the guy but he always says it's ok, just because they don't want to loose each other, same as marriage the man or woman may not want to talk because he or she is scare to hurt the person by bringing it to the persons notice but the person in question don't know he/she is hurting you ..for this not to happen bring to the persons knowledge about a particular things they are doing that is hurting you in a lovely and matured way. Next is They didn't know you better..when you get into a relationship of any sort get to know the person and also make the person know what you like and dislike , don't just give out the general ones but those you don't find funny, give reasons why you don't like those stuff and if the person forgot try another (matured)method so that it will stick to their brain. .... In a situation whereby it a weakness , help the person to grow through it not shutting him/her down.... And Lastly ill thought, in the case of ill thought abstain from anyone that abuse you physically ,emotionally . stay away from those who don't appreciate you and those who do not wish well. But in case you have been abused by them forgive them and move on...

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CONFIDENCE WHEN YOU PRAY........ The covenant you are operating is voice activated , when you speak your world opens up to you...... Once you open up your mouth there's is no situation you can't come out of because the world is formed by words ,even if the devil thinks he has box you to a spot... Whatever you forbid and declare to be unlawful on earth is forbidden ...As long as your mouth is open your destiny can be salvaged..... The confidence you have when you pray is not feelings but the assurance that He answers when you pray(1Jh 5:14) If you live in the feelings it is the work and manipulations of the devil because he is a master of feelings For example you receive an alert on your phone of some money credited to your account ,that moment you' have this confidence on money you have not seen with your eyes, let say you get to the bank and the message was a service error ,you will be disappointed right ? How much more when you pray to your father who created you in His own image?... Same is when you pray believe and have the confidence He has answered you. Remember it wasn't a feeling when you got an Alert ,if not you would have called either the person you are expecting money from or the bank to confirm before going to withdraw but you had the confident and acted upon it same as when you pray let your words,actions and behaviour be positive about what you prayed for . .... If what you're asking God is in His word ,you don't need a feeling but a confidence.. Whatever you pray to God according to His will which is His word he said you will have it (Mark11:24) You may ask ,At what point should you believe when you pray ?? At the point when you pray according to His will which is the WORD OF GOD ,....... #MaryUnique.......... #GraceMade.......... #KingJ'sDaughter........

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HOW TO GROW THROUGH DIFFICULTIES / CHALLENGES When you go through some circumstances ,challenges,situations ,difficulties ,etc ,.you either come out bitter or better . ..... Coming out bitter or better depends on your choice , you choose either to be pitied or to be praised .... Some of you will go through challenges and expect everyone to greet you (eehya,eehya, sorry ooooo,it will be ok) and when some don't you tag them the enemy ..... Growing through a process is coming out of it better, sweeter,and greater ...this is what will differentiate you from those who had similar situations ,.. Growing through a process will make you outstanding but going through will make you depressed... When you encounter a problem ,make sure you change it from the root because it will have effect on the fruit.. Have this in mind that you can't solve a problems with the same thinking you use in creating them, so change your thinking and your approach to the problem... Do not just GO through challenges but GROW through them......Remember the three Hebrew boys who were thrown in to the fire , they came out without a smell of smoke or what they went through ,they never smelt like they came out of it and that was what made them outstanding.... For you to grow through ,you need to change your thinking(imaginations and how you see things) ,your words( your confession) and your actions and go down to the root of the problem... #MaryUnique............. #GraceMade............... #KingJ'sDaugther...... .....

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HOW TO IDENTIFY YOUR UNIQUENESS Uniqueness means you are some of a kind ,highly unusual ,real to find.. Your personality takes the truth from your uniqueness. The ability to finding your uniqueness is the same as fulfilling your purpose In life ..You are the only one who can run and finish your race because no body is the reason why you fail but you... Once you understand your uniqueness in life that will be your selling point.. Finding your uniqueness helps in knowing your relevance ..... . Your uniqueness will make you outstanding , it will differentiate you from the crowds and place you at the top... Bear this in mind ... Reality has VALUE, without Originality there won't be fake. What uniqueness does is it reveals your CREATIVITY, your VALUE and OUTPUT .. Don't try to belong instead fine your uniqueness because God made you so, Rule your life with what God says not what others are saying, don't run your life based on what people thinks or says because your uniqueness will reveal your packaging, presentation ,and body language... If you find your uniqueness it shows your action and reaction and in content of your personality... When you try to live and behave like others you are simply the same but your uniqueness will make your brand outstanding and you excel... Once your uniqueness is lost ,your originality is lost.. Focus on your strength not your weakness.... The value you bring to this world is proportional to your inmate uniqueness #BabyLove.......... #MaryUnique...... #GraceMade....!!...... #KingK'sDaughter.......

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BECOMING A SINGLE WITH A DIFFERENCE It's a JOY to be married to the right person but a MISERY to be married to the wrong person One of the decision you must make is to be an ASSET to the person you're getting married to.. Let the person you are getting married to be better because he married you... To be single means to be whole ,together,have yourself together.... Most ladies thinks marriage is an escape to a better life or singleness,they get into marriage hoping that marriage will CURE somethings they are experiencing in their father's house, but it WORSEN....the goal to get married is not to escape singleness or for someone to pay your bills.. It's better to be in a broken relationship than to be in a broken marriage... Divorce means the dead of a marriage or relationship ,if you don't decide against divorce you desire for it..marriage is the Pre-requisite for divorce.. For marriage to take place two different people are bringing in WHO THEY ARE. Your focus should not be to get married but to be an single with a difference ,this should be your greatest stage in life because what stand you out is your Uniqueness not the common things everyone does.. Don't think getting married gives you power over your spouse, or that marriage changes a character he has when you were courting,it may for a while but time will tell. Or as a Christian sister you are trying to get married to a Muslim brother thinking you will change him because of one thing or the other , not in all circumstances .,but be ready for whatever comes next ... If your goal is to be single ,the more single you're the better your relationship . 3 KEYS TO MAXIMISE YOUR SINGLENESS Explore your singleness: Take advantages of the space of your life,learn, sit down and read books,improve yourself,discover your hidden potentials ,work on what you are bringing into your marriage ... Enjoy your singleness:: being single is not a bondage or neither is it boring,bear this in mind that this is the only time you will be single , enjoy and find out what is going on... Exhaust your singleness: Take care of yourself ,take yourself out,treat yourself special,buy things for yourself ,test yourself

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HOW TO BUILD THE RELATIONSHIP YOU FANTASIZE ABOUT/DREAM OF... In this short note of I will show you how to build the relationship you imagine, for both single ladies and those already in a relationship ..... Building a relationship you dream of is a process of putting a materials together to achieve your desired relationship . Building a relationship you dream of requires hard work ,consistency and being flexible.... To build your desired relationship you must sit down and ask yourself ,What do I want to build? A friend with benefits or a short run or long relationship or is it a relationship leading to marriage?? When you have decided this invite GOD to build through you . A relationship that is not build with God will not last(Ps 127:1) depending on how long you want you want it to go... Things needed to build desired relationship *God: hand over your relationship to God,let him be your builder and your foundation... *Wisdom: (Hosea 4:6) Sisters you can pray and go to church and you can't cook, its not skillful.praying and Nasty is not skillfull,. Ladies be smart ,steps to take on this is Ask questions from the right people ,Learn ,Relearn and continue Learning.. *Work ..a great relationship is not a result of a mere wish,it needs work.. *Imagination ..when you see a great relationship you ,you see two people who has the right imagination.. *Intentionally .. Be deliberate and do things on purpose *Love. Cherish the person and enjoy the moment, don't wait till you have everything because any day that passes you cant get it back.. *Learn disposition ..study ,read the right books, attend the right seminars. ... *Desire..have the right desire *Drive... Innovate your relationship and have fun And don't forget if your words are right,your life will be right. . .. #MaryUnique #Gracemade #KingJ'sDaughter

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MY PROFESSION IS CONFESSION Your mouth is not just for eating but also for producing.... Your mouth is a weapon ...... Your mouth is a shaper ..... Your mouth is a director..... Your mouth is a creator....... In the beginning of the world ,God created the Earth through speaking, right from Genesis 1 ,the Earth was form by speaking which tells us how important our WORDS are ..... Your words are creating your physical Appreances, your finance, your business, academic,your job ,your future and your world. ..... Whatever you're experiencing right now determine what you are confessing Remember that saying "Whatever you say will be use against you in the Court of Law" Question . ...... What are you saying against your life that is judging you???? Pay attention to your thought because the end result is your words.. Change your VOCABULARY , because what you confess is what you see. ..... Stop caging your life by your negative words...... Confess right and you will get what you confess MY PROFESSION IS CONFESSION....... MaryUniqe..... GraceMade...... KingJ'sDaughter ......

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HOW TO BE LOVED BY OTHER IS TO LOVE YOURSELF(CONT) Loving yourself requires consistent works First thing is to Get rid of negative people which we talked about yesterday,moving on I will Next point is to connect to people who are in the same direction with you.... Develop yourself ..As a single Lady with or without a MAN you need to Build and develop your content,look at those area you are lacking and work on them. Take yourself out and be happy,expose yourself to opportunity... Lastly Deploy yourself ,No limitations except the ones you create yourself . learn and store as much as you can so that when you need of it you deploy... Happy new week everyone MaryUniqe..... GraceMade...... KingJ'sDaughter ......

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IF YOU DO, WHY DO YOU ALWAYS TELL CAROL YOU WISH YOUR NOSE IS A BIT LONGER OR YOUR LEGS A BIT STRAITER ,Then tomorrow CAROL comes and say look at your FLAT NoSE and you laugh it off while you are the one that brings it upon YALSELF.... What ever you want people to love will determine how much you love and care about that thing... . Learn to love everything about yourself for yourself before others,.. I'm not saying if you are fat and wish to slim down you shouldn't but love being fat and work on it because that may be the only time you may be fat and when you eventually become slim your love increase,but when you don't love being fat you cant also love being slim because you thought that was the solution but LOVE is...... Stop PRETENDING and get rid of those NEGATIVE INFLUENCES, stop HANGING around those things that BELITTLES you, stop FOCUSING on those laughing and start FOCUSING on those APPLAUDING you...... And lastly ......... Hang around those who are going the same direction with you, hang around those who challenges you not those you're comfortable with and Learn to SPEAK POSITIVE THINGS to yourself daily and you will see how beautiful you become ..... Happy reading and expect STEP TWO tomorrow'.......... BabyLove ...... MaryUnique....... StudentPrenuer....... GraceMade........ GracePicked......... KingJ'sDaughte

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How to be loved by others is by loving yourself first Yesterday I talked about what LOVE means and I also told you that SELF LOVE is the purest form of LOVE............ I also told you I will be discussing about the steps needs to tak....... Without wasting much time let dive into it...... The first step I will be talking about is .... GET RID OF NEGATIVE INFLUENCES FROM YOUR LIFE..... Follow me carefully and note this... You came out with your PARENT DNA but you will die with your CHOICES....... The choices you make will either break or make you so pay attention to those choices.... Most of you can't do some mind blowing things because of some particular friends or character you refuse to let go, while some can't say or air their views because some friends will laugh and talk them down but you still go out with them.... Get rid of those who think you can't amount to anything if you don't have long legs or know one person in a high place , get them out immediately because if you don't they will corrupt and contaminate your mind and you are going to need them for what God is about to do in your life... Most of you can't eat from IYA BUKKY selling food opposite your house because she gets her WATER from the DIRTY WELL and she also cooks near the CUTTER where people PEES, you prefers to cross the road and get what you want even if the other persons food is EXPENSIVE but you keep hanging aroud those people who comes and dump all sort in your mind and you go the extra length and dump it in your SPIRIT and says you don't have CHOICE but you had one when it comes to ORDINARY FOOD... Some of you wish you are either taller or shorter or fatter or slimmer because one girl somewhere is and everybody loves her. This shows you don't even love yourself because SELF LOVE is the PUREST form of LOVE, stop wishing and allowing things to be dumped into you ,you're not a refuse bin.. Some says if he /she doesn't love me for who I am then he can go ..... PAUSE!.....DO YOU LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE??

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I know at first it’s hard to believe and you don’t want to listen to the people telling you how wonderful you are. It’s even harder when you’re not surrounded by people who tell you how loved you are. I’ve been in that spot, and it’s an incredibly dark place to be. Say hello to the sunshine though, because I’m going to give you some AWESOME TIPS as to how to start loving yourself a little more each day and ATTRACK VALUABLE RELATIONSHIP.... Stay tuned as I unvail them to you starting tomorrow.... BabyLove..... MaryUnique........... StudentPrenuer. . ... . . GraceMade.......... GracePicked....... KingJ'sDaughter......

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HOW TO BE LOVED BY OTHERS IS TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST In this series I will show you how LOVING yourself will ATTRACT VALUEABLE people to you. Quickly lets dive into it. ....... WHAT IS LOVE? Love is the most powerful emotion a human being can experience. The strange thing is, that almost nobody knows what love is. if you know that the word “love” is not the same as one’s feeling of love. The word “love” is used and abused for the expression of different sets of feelings. The word love is used as an expression of affection towards someone else (I love you) but it also expresses pleasure (I love chocolate). To make it a little more complicated, the word “love” also expresses a human virtue that is based on compassion, affection and kindness. This is a state of being, that has nothing to do, with something or someone outside yourself. Since this has been establish , then ... what is SELF LOVE? ...This is the purest form of Love. Follow me carefully..... I know some of you ,, who don’t know just how special you are. You’re either busy focusing on the negative, or you’re surrounded by so many negative people that you don’t even know there was anything in life to be positive about..... I know exactly what it feels like to be your toughest critic, to blame yourself for the simplest of mistakes, and to wish with all your heart to be living somebody else’s life. Trust I've been there, wishing I could just have cars and be like my friend who has made it ....... What if I told you I was wrong for believing those things about myself, and you’re wrong for believing those things about yourself? Because we are wrong. So wrong! It’s the good kind of wrong though. We are all worth so much more than we give ourselves credit for.......

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You need to make up your mind that some of your friend will CRITICISE you ,some will LAUGH at you, some will LEAVE you and some will not BELIEVE in you or DISCOURAGE you but STAND FIRM because all your friends are not going to the same direction with you and bear this in mind that some friends are for a REASON,some are for a SEASON while some are FOREVER.. Most people don't try somethings because their friends told them it can't work, deliberately cut off those friends and move on with the ones heading your directions.. Anytime something is born there is always a PAIN PUSH and also an ISOLATION.. ELEVATION REQUIRES SEPRATION!! And Lastly get a MENTOR / COACH.. A disposition can position you .. Value your teacher,submit to them,observe them,ask questions and ask understand them,. You must know what your teacher/coach/mentor does not what they mentions If you are ready to achieve your PURPOSE you mist create an ATMOSPHERE Take action steps each day to help pull you toward you goal. Instead of focusing on arriving, be in the journey and let the process unfold. When you align with your truth and answer all of these questions, you will realize you have the power to ACHIEVE your PURPOSE ,........ BabyLove. ....... Maryumique....... Gracemade. ..... Gracepicked....... KingJ's daughter....

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HOW TO BECOME A GRACE MADE WOMAN Today is the last day on the SERIES of "HOW to ACHIEVE YOUR PURPOSE AND KNOW THE GRACE YOU CARRY" If you have been following my series on how to achieve your PURPOSE , which we discussed in the last two days and we have discussed so much about it. If you have not been following check my previous post and read up to understand the gist We discussed that for you to achieve your purpse ,you have to genuinely answer three questions 1st was ,WHO DO I WANT TO BECOME. .. 2nd HOW DO I BECOME WHO I WANT TO BE And lastly which I will be talking about today is WHAT ACTION DO I NEED TO MAKE TO ACHIEVE MY PURPOSE Quickly let move on...... "'Action they say speaks louder than voice " After you have decided WHO you want to Become and plan on HOW you want to achieve it the next and important step to take is the ACTION POINT. ... Getting to the Place where you want to BE is going BEYOND where you are now .. There's this saying that goes " A journey of (1000) one thousand miles starts with a STEP, not WISHING You need to start all that you plan to do , no matter how challenging it is START IT, no matter how shameful it may seem START IT , no matter what people say START IT, but before you do make sure you have the end in mind because that is what will keep you going ... If you want to become a Fasion Designer you need to imagine or see it end result , are you going to learn how to sew for a year and after that you go and look for something else to do or are you going to get your own office and start sewing then eventually expand to a bigger empire. If you imagine all these things and keep the picture intact, it will be what will keep you going even if you feel like giving up . Every step you take is one step you need....... Do not wait until you have all the money or until you are chanced because your choice are either making you or breaking you....

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Knowing HOW in this context is by identifying those things needed .. How do I identify? Let say for instance you want to become a STYLIST, the first thing is to identify a salon that makes beautiful hairs,do customers patronize them ,do they offer all you want to learn or are they just based on a particular style ,are they employing apprentice and how much is involved?? etc ,... Make sure you consider all this before setting out to do anything because without proper consideration you may not achieved your purpose... You need to consider all this and put them down in a book and weigh your options because this is how you achieve your purpose .. We will round up on the last question tomorrow....Stay tuned Maryunique... Studentprenuer...... Gracemade...... Gracepicked...... KingJ's daughter......

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HOW TO BECOME A GRACE MADE WOMAN Yesterday we talked about how to achieve your purpose and the grace you carry, which I stated that for you to know and achieve your purpose you need to ask yourself three questios and I treated one yesterday .. So today I wll move to the next question.. 2nd question is ........... How do I become who I want to BE?? Follow me carefully This is where the foundation lies .... After knowing who you want to become the most important thing is how to become the person you want to BE.. Let use for example!. You thought of building a house. For this house to be possible you paid for a land and you also went to the market got building materials suggested to you by the seller, getting to your land you discover the land is swampy and also inside a forest just few hunters are Iiving there..Then you were like I don't have any choice I have to continue my building and you asked them to assist you in building with no knowledge from anyone .. They all have hunts as home and you got sands,cement, blocks and the rest. You all started building without laying foundation pouring the concrete and Set up building lines etc. How do you think the house will look after you finish.? The house will not stand because you didn't do the needful like .... *Selecting a desirable place for your house, *Selecting the property on which you are going to build with, *Considering access issues. "Have a Design for your home, or consult an architect, "Survey and amount needed. Etc