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Misogyny & 1D Shipping

Misogyny and ziam / larry shipping go hand in hand.

 Misogyny's an 'entrenched prejudice against women' it’s more subtle than systematic sexism. It’s finding fault in what women do all the while excusing men. "Misogyny" is personalised, intrusive and often sexualised. And what makes the misogyny I’m about to talk about more repulsive & potent is that “hatred” and “prejudice” is coming from a group of young women aka“The Shippers”.

One Tumblr/Twitter/YouTube/Instagram post after another the names and places, dates and scenario’s might change but the narrative is identical:

The woman is the attention and/or money whore revelling in playing the beard while the closet man is the vulnerable victim being “forced” into a web of lies by the invisible men in suits!

Even when the "beards” in question have their own fortune and fame they’re STILL relegated to ruthless predatory media whores. Taylor Swift and Gigi, for example, are at the top of their game, yet they were/are using Harry & Zayn.

Gigi ...

who grew up in an $85 million custom built mansion in the hills of Bel Air to a  billionaire developer father and a supermodel/reality TV star mom

whose personal net worth exceeds $45 million,

who's been modelling designer labels since the age of 2

who's raised with the who's who children of Hollywood A listers

whose stepdad was an Oscar & grammy winning producer

who year in, year out makes Forbes most lucrative models list

is with Zayn for his fame and money? 

Of all the men in Hollywood Gigi would pursue and continue a relationship with for PR she’d select one of the most reclusive, introverted and private men in the music industry for that charade? Really?

And when her dad Mohammed reminded people that his daughter is with Zayn 'cause she loves him and is successful with or without him, Ziams ridiculously twisted his defence of his daughter as an attack on Zayn. How dare a father say his already millionaire daughter isn’t a gold-digger!

Now let’s go to Taylor Swift, a woman:

With a net worth close to half a BILLION dollars (quadruple that of Harry)

Who had already won multiple grammy’s and every music award there is to win,

Topped almost every chart in the world and whose songs and music video’s crash the internet

Who rose to fame without the aid of global TV show or the backing of a huge producer

Yet not only are Larries arguing she’d resort to being a beard, but ...wait for it... she had more to gain from faking a relationship with Harry Styles than he did from her!!

Take the Liam and Cheryle scenario, I can count in one hand the number of interviews where Cheryl even talks about her son or Liam. Yet during their relationship and even immediately after it Liam (positively) did countless interviews where he mentions her and their son. 

But if Ziams are right and she pursued the relationship for PR wouldn’t she be the one doing the talking? 

I also lost count of the number times I’ve read a post by a Ziam that “she’s after his money”, again if she’s contractually a beard and the baby is fake who’s she gonna pull that? 

“East, she’ll pimp the baby all over social media and get magazine deals", hands up if you’ve seen Bear’s face, no, anyone?

What’s weird is that Ziams are quick to dismiss Cheryl’s net worth of $40 million when they tell everyone she’s after Liam’s $50 million!!

Their next move is the ageism, “oh her biological clock was ticking so she used Liam to have a baby!” so now we’ve established she didn’t use her relationship for PR and she’s rich on her own right, so we’re gonna switch to her wanting a baby. There’s a thing called surrogacy, IVF and adoption.

If all Cheryl was after was a baby she could have gone for insemination as other celebs do!!

Spare a thought for poor Briana Jungworth! An ordinary girl who’s been inundated with hate throughout her pregnancy and long after it. And unlike Taylor, Gigi or Cheryl she doesn’t have fame and money to defend her herself or even her child’s paternity!!

Larries dumbfoundedly kept switching the narrative from her being a beard to her being a gold-digging groupie who purposefully got knocked up to milk Louis for everything he’s got. But which is it? If she’s a beard whose pregnancy is fake or whose son isn’t Louis’s how could she possibly milk him? If Freddie isn’t Louis son why would Louis have been splitting his time between LA and the UK as his mother was dying, to do what spend time with his beard and fake baby??

I said it before and I’ll say it again..

FOR A FAKE CLOSET GAY MALE STAR/BEARD THEORY TO BE TRUE THERE’S NO INSTIGATOR AND VICTIM. THERE’S SIMPLY TWO CONSENTING ADULTS AGREEING TO DECEIVE THE PUBLIC. IF THERE’S A CHILD INVOLVED IN THAT DECEPTION THAN THEY’RE BOTH CULPABLE! PERIOD!! NO BUTS, NO IFS.

If Freddie and Bear aren’t Louis and Liam’s sons then both these grown-ass men in their late 20s are consciously and publicly playing with minors paternity! And come September the same standard will apply to Zayn! PERIOD! As a Larry, Ziam or a Zerrie a simple question why are you stanning men doing a despicable thing like lying about a childs paternity, and you'll get drivel about A. them being forced to do so (misogyny type 1) and/or B. shift the blame on the "beards" (misogyny type 2). I repeat again, if you're a shipper who believes in the fucked up theory that those babies aren't Louis's, Liam's or Zayn's than immediately unstan those men!!! You can't have it both ways, you can't say the babies aren't theirs than in the same breath try to argue that's not immoral and they're not culpable.

And what’s more tragic about this level of misogyny is that the majority of the shippers are women. Women who pounce on everything other women do or say to debunk and ridicule it, just to keep a fictional ship alive!

However subtle or harshly executed, publicly relegating other women as mere beards, diminishing their accomplishments, faking their reliance on the men, attempting to debunk and twist everything they do and say, doesn’t make you an ally to supposedly closet gay men, it makes you a the worst kind of misogynist, a female one!

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Dear “heartbroken” Ziam / Zarry Shippers

I know some of you are having to deal with facing a reality you don’t want to believe and your clinging to each other for words of reassurance. But I want you to take a moment away from each other and think outside the bubble of your shipping community!

Stop and ponder questions that Liam + Louis stans who think their kids are fake have avoided for “babygate 1.0″.  and “babygate 2.0″.

Put your like or dislike of Gigi aside for a moment, even put aside the gaping holes your theory presents about how long Zayn would have to play along and focus on the most central yet forgotten point of babygate 3.0.

Think about the IMPLICATIONS of your theory, the conclusions drawn for your theories to be correct.

For your theory to be correct Zayn has to be taking part in a plot which plays with a baby’s paternity!

Now read that last sentence again, read it? read it a third time!

We’re not talking faking tattoos, moving houses or dates. We’re talking faking another humans paternity!

Are you stanning a man capable of faking a baby for publicity? Does that go with anything you know about Zayn? Zayn who doesn’t go to movie premiers? Zayn who rarely does interviews? Zayn who does less than the bare minimum to publicize his work is going to fake a pregnancy and a baby for PR?

Really, that's the kind of person you admire? a 27 year old man with a mind of his own who had the courage to leave a band and forgo millions, a man who paid Simon Cowell 7 million to break his contract early, will fake a innocent babies paternity for publicity?

Really guys?

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r.i.p

RIP KOBE and his 13 year old daughter Gianna. I’m not even a huge a basketball fan, but this hit me hard cause it’s a family tragedy like no other!

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Where’s the lie?

November 28: IWTLF gets a Grammy nomination

Ztans: We’re so proud Zayn’s in a Grammy-nominated song

Harries: It doesn’t count it’s for the writers not for him specifically

Exactly 56 days later: Dunkirk gets Oscar nominations

Harries:  We’re so proud Harry’s in a Oscar-nominated movie

Ztans: Thought y'all said it doesn’t count if it’s not for him specifically? And Harry didn’t get an acting nomination

...Congratulations Harries you keep playing yourself….

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nac but why are some ppl so certain that zayn is in rehab? its just speculation that he's a ~addict and honestly that assumption is based in racism. louis has been looking like a druggie for years, yet no one ever says anything about him. he has also said racial slurs, punched a women, kicked a pride flag offstage, all but abandoned his kid and is basically just a garbage person, yet ppl in this fandom still like him more than zayn. lol, tell me again how race doesn't play into all of this...😒

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Deborah Hogg is Perrie’s mother, and Kelsey Hemmings is her aunt. Zayn was not allowed to have a beard because one direction management would not allow it, his father was not shown in the 1d movie making it look like Trisha had divorced Yassir, when Yassir and Trisha lived in the same house and were happily married only because Yassir was a Pakistani man. They did not show the islamic decorations in his family’s house in the movie, even when they had filmed it. Zayn was branded racistly compared to his other four white counterparts. They rejected Zayn’s music, and Perrie never once stood up for him, even when she was engaged to him. Perrie, his fiancee, did not know his ethnicity (being he was Pakistani, she called him Indian even though the British were the ones who had split India into two, and they learn about it in history class), she never supported him with one direction management was openly racist to him, Perrie’s own family was racist to Zayn. Even when Zayn brought Deborah a house to live in. You do not have to like Zayn, but for the sake of humanity people should realize how wrong it is. A half brown boy did not deserve to have a boss and fiancee who were racist, he deserved a partner who was not racist to him. Every human being deserves to come home to someone who cares about them, who cares about their dreams, not to have to live with a racist boss and come home to a racist fiancee who did not care for his ethnicity or cared to correct her Islamophobic relatives. Please reblog this. Let’s trend positivity on twitter towards Zayn tomorrow, lets fix this mess. I do not know about the rest of you, but to see another desi person be ridiculed for breaking up with a toxic racist person, it just makes me cry. I do not know, maybe I’m overly sensitive, but when I see other people get abused by their racist partners who were supposed to be their friends/family/fiancee it’s just sad. I am crying this should not even have to be said.

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PREACH!