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BIRD ‼️‼️

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"Everyone, look! It's the transmasc/trans man who is whining and bitching about how his/their bodily autonomy rights are being taken away and how he/they is still a target for malpractice in the medical field and how he/they are still a target for misogyny and transphobia in the cis ran world! Everyone point and laugh!" 🤡

This is genuinely have some of you mfs sound. Stfu. Ignorance is not bliss, it actually harms people in the long run.

#You are perpetuating the same misogyny we've experienced the majority of our lives it's just in a different font now.

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you aren't a bad person if your source is terrible.

you aren't a bad person if your source is an abuser.

you aren't a bad person if your source is a rapist.

you aren't a bad person if your source has a problematic creator.

you aren't a bad person if your source is anything, anything.

However, if you blame an introject for their source, tell them to kill themselves for it, treat them like their source when they tell you not too, push boundaries or persistently ask them questions, try and make it like they should be extremely ashamed and horrified 24/7 atwhere they introjected from. You are an asshole.

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Magical girl transformation where I look exactly the same by the end except my posture and speech are different and I have to be reminded of several details on the conversation we just had

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this might be a controversial take, but I don't think "trans women need more help than trans men" right now.

we are ALL being targeted, just bc trans women are more visible doesn't mean trans men/mascs aren't fucking suffering too.

forced pregnancy.

corrective rape.

Familial & partner abuse

50% of trans mascs have been sexually assaulted.

"T slur voice"

"confused girls"

the problem isn't just about trans women, yall need to open your fucking eyes and see we (trans men/mascs) as a community are hurting!

ETA: I'm not ignoring what trans women go through, so don't even try that.

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"nobody is denying that an innerworld is not a real place" we are 👋

Like gateway systems, which are systems who feel like their headspace is an existing world, aren't that uncommon. Hell that's what we've identified as since like 2016.

We view our headspace as a real place metaphysically. It might not have the same properties as the physical world and it's a complex thing, but yeah we would consider it to be a real place overall and more a dimension we inhabit.

This isn't even a system-specific belief. There are singlets who might have inner worlds that they consider real, see astral travel/astral spaces. We've met plenty of maladaptive daydreamers too who feel their paracosms are real.

Also once again, comorbidity with psychosis and sanism aside, boy howdy you guys have to stop telling people things aren't real when dealing with dissociative disorders

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anyway. i remember a 'progressive' show i was watching had a trans female character who wasn't super prominent but was in more than one episode. this same show had an episode involving a mental hospital where one of the patients was a 'girl who's insane and thinks she's a man'.

so anyway if you think trans men don't need representation, you can go bite a brick

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i'll say this once and never again: if you use tme/tma (even ironically) as gender markers i'm going to block you on the basis of trying to create new gender essentialism boxes that intersex people like me can't fit in and never will fit in.

you're intersexist (even if you're trans yourself, because being a minority doesn't mean you are exempt from bigotry) and i wish people like you who thought the only genders are cis woman and trans woman and Man(tm) really, REALLY find some kind of therapy or medication or general internal peace tbfh

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It’s staggering how many people post in the transandrophobia tag disavowing the idea of transandrophobia existing while also simultaneously not having read a damn thing anyone speaking about transandrophobia has said.

“Transmisogyny is the special intersection of transphobia and misogyny that trans women face by being trans and women. Transandrophobia can’t exist because it’s not any special intersection. It’s just transphobia. What else is there for it to intersect with?”

Misogyny as well.

And you’d know that if you’d read anything besides the people interpreting what we’re saying in-bad-faith for you.

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Transandrophobes will say shit like “men are a priveliged group and trans men are men, therefore they cannot be victims of discrimination, unlike me” and then be white.

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Transandrophobes will say shit like “men are a priveliged group and trans men are men, therefore they cannot be victims of discrimination, unlike me” and then be white.

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SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO DON’T LIKE IDENTIFYING AS ENDOGENIC

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO DON’T LIKE IDENTIFYING AS TRAUMAGENIC

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO CONSIDER THEMSELVES BOTH

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS WHO CONSIDER THEMSELVES NEITHER

SHOUTOUT TO STRESSGENIC SYSTEMS <3

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polyfragmented more like polyFAGmented the way theres TOO MANY DAMN GAYS IN HERE!!!!!

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Where in the world did the argument that trans men don't experience misogyny ever come from. Did you guys not see the word "trans" at the beginning of "trans man".

There's a reason that I'm talked over and infantilized in cis man dominated spaces. There's a reason that there isn't a single person like me in my STEM department. There's a reason that I am forever terrified of forced pregnancy.

I sure as shit don't feel benefitted by the patriarchy, and surely neither do trans women. It's almost like we both experience systemic misogyny in both similar and completely different ways. Hm.

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what even is this subreddit bro 😭 ??

sorry guys, i guess dormancy and looking different from your source dont exist 🙏🏻🙏🏻 systems and alters can't introduce themselves, didnt you know?

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Potentially hot take but I simply think that insisting that transmascs who disagree with you are secretly closeted, transtrending TERFs is misgendering.

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we made a tiktok and guys,,,, where are the pro endos,,,,, why is it all sysmeds,,,,, wjat

literally put in the search bar # proendo, # proendogenic, etc etc and all that comes up is sysmeds ??!?!?!!!!

pro endos need to invade tiktok,,,,, /hj