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I love furries, marijuana, autism, schizophrenia, abortion, vandalism, shoplifting, Molotov cocktails, free healthcare, adderall, and gay sex

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[dies in the saw trap bc the little puppet video instructions played only once without subtitles so i don’t know what i’m supposed to be doing]

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this is hilarious and I love how non English speakers translate things in their language

that was the most sincere “oh no” at the end

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I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

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Me existing at the intersection of being an associate director of a new center with no director, switching to a hybrid WFH schedule, and preparing to give birth in under 7 weeks while still navigating a global panini 😮‍💨

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This is why I come on tumblr

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Which parts of manhood do you identify with and not? Which parts of womanhood do you identify with and not?

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hey bi people

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Places I need to be 🥺

the hotel I’m staying in is having a chihuahua conference??? some lady told me there were over 300 chihuahuas in the building and if I wanted to, I could go watch the puppy competition in the morning. I’m in Heaven

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Happy Halloween

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SZA The Anonymous Ones (2021)

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Shout out to ships with 2 black women, I need more in my life.

*Coop x Patience - All American* 

Original Cindy x Diamond - Dark Angel 

Nova x Chantal - Queen Sugar

Jukebox x Candie - Power 

Kat x Tia - The Bold Type 

Tia x Rocky - Boomerang 

Ali x Deanna - God Friended Me 

*Cassie x Alexis - All Night*

Nola x Opal - She’s Gotta Have It 

Anissa x Chenoa - Black Lightning

Kima x Cheryl - The Wire 

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I can’t believe it’s been 20 years. She’s been gone almost as long as she live, and her impact continues to be felt. I’ll never not love her.

“From childhood I knew I wanted to be an actress and dancer; a total entertainer, I would sit in a movie theatre, thinking, ‘one day I’ll be on that silver screen, sometimes I look at where I am in life and what I’ve achieved at this age and think wow”

Aaliyah Dana Haughton (January 16, 1979 - August 25, 2001)

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i'm going feral y'all want anything?