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Meet Nova The German Shepherd And Pacco The Ferret, That Are The Unlikeliest Of Best Buds .

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The Cat in the Ventilation Shaft

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Steven: Please stop ripping up the grass it isn’t even sentient and isn’t aware of you at all

Jasper:

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I’m living fucking proof that TERFs are ONLY about hating trans people.

I’ve identified as a female my entire life. I was born with a vagina, I was assigned female at birth, and developed PCOS during puberty. And they really truly will sit here and call me male until I fucking lose my goddamn mind

Like there’s no winning with them. There isn’t. And it’s funny cuz they’re all anti-porn too, and won’t buy my porn to see my Very Real vagina LMFAO

It’s fucking insanely frustrating and makes me feel crazy but trans friends, please know you will never ever please them and you should fucking live your goddamn life however makes you happy. Don’t fucking ever diminish yourself because of transphobic idiots

But god being aggressively misgendered fucking hurts whether you’re trans or cis honestly

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Steven’s taking lessons on how to be a proper feral bastard and I LOVE that

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AND SORRY TONIGHT IS ALL TERF TALK BUT LIKE

Obviously they’re terrible and awful towards trans folks, but when literally one in five people with ovaries have polycystic ovarian syndrome, that’s not a fucking issue you just ignore and call yourself a feminist. 

When one in five people with ovaries see people like me being harassed for ???NOT SHAVING??? they are reminded that the world is fucking cruel and mean to us just because our fucking ovaries don’t work correctly

We’re boiled down to our reproductive organs again and again, and literally because mine don’t FUNCTION correctly, I’m not a woman. Because my ovaries are dysfunctional, according to TERFs, I am not a woman. It doesn’t matter that I have them. it doesn’t matter that I have a vagina. I don’t /look/ like what women as “supposed” to look like (a misogynistic standard of female beauty I guess) therefore I’m not a woman. 

I could literally send a TERF video of my vagina (and I literally do sell those but terfs hate sex workers too), I could show off my birth certificate and ID and everything, and they would still deny that I’m a woman, because somehow a woman who has to beg on the internet for food money had the money to surgically alter her genitals I guess lmfao

Not everyone with ovaries is female and not every person with PCOS is a woman, but everyone with PCOS has faced this fucking hellish struggle. Some internalize it better. Some don’t have as much hair growth, but have other symptoms that negatively impact their health. I’ve had 50+ year old women approach me in the grocery store and CRY on me about how they’ve shaved their whole fucking lives, and you have the NERVE to tell me I’m a man because I don’t shave?

When you call me, a woman with ovaries and a vagina, a male, just because I grow body hair, you’re literally no better than any fucking misogynistic man. You’re worse, honestly, because you’ve betrayed women, the people you claim to stand up for. You’ve betrayed us, you’ve put us in danger, and you’ve caused us emotional turmoil. 

It took me years of bullshit medical procedures including being forced into a full pap exam when I was 15, to get diagnosed in the first place. It took me 14 years of shaving every single day to get to where I’m okay not shaving. And someone who claims to be a radical feminist has the audacity to tell me I don’t have a vagina, when I have so much fucking trauma relating to being a person with a vagina. 

TERFs can eat shit, honestly. Y’all are truly evil, horrible people. You do not help women. You only cause more pain. 

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Youre magnifying so many things, this is so dumb. Man, everyone i know was raised by their parents in what THAT CHILD CHOSE. If they wanted a barbie doll, his parents would get it for him amd play tea time together, if she wanted a monster truck toy, they get it for her and play smash the dirt. Im sorry so many peoples parents literally suck dicks, but this is a new era, so some views and the evidence on why that (dumbass) ideal should be changed, but you dont see that and continue to mock, belittle and invalidate so many innocent people, please just mind your business if you hate trans people

Female empowerment will never exist as long as our identity is being packaged into a costume and sold to TiMs who hate women so much that even when they think they're a woman, they tell us they're better than us because we don't perform as many feminine stereotypes as them :) 🥀

TiMs consistently invalidate themselves by showing that they truly have no idea what it's like to 'feel like a woman'. All they do is act out the male perception of us and, until they realize that woman is an experience from birth, not stereotypical activities that we were forced into, female empowerment will never exist. 🥀

Stop preying on vulnerable women and girls who have already been taught that they have to give away every piece of themselves, take every abuse, nurture everyone else to be worth something, and making them think they're helping you when all you're doing is reaffirming everything every abusive, woman hating person has ever engrained in them. Until we are allowed to exist without being the backbone of someone else, female empowerment will never exist. 🥀

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Calling me a terf doesn't make me any more sad than calling me a woman or my name. I don't know why people think that spewing that word is like, hurting someone? Yes, I am excluding people who are a threat to my life and wellbeing, uh, thanks for noticing?

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Calling me a terf doesn't make me any more sad than calling me a woman or my name. I don't know why people think that spewing that word is like, hurting someone? Yes, I am excluding people who are a threat to my life and wellbeing, uh, thanks for noticing?

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She really does, TERF's are really baffling

Calling me a terf doesn't make me any more sad than calling me a woman or my name. I don't know why people think that spewing that word is like, hurting someone? Yes, I am excluding people who are a threat to my life and wellbeing, uh, thanks for noticing?

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No equipment ftm workout

okay i’ve been getting quite a few asks about this so i thought i’d just make a post about it. i’ll split it into three categories based on experience - easy, medium, and hard. let me know if y’all are interested in a bodybuilding split workout then i’ll post one of those too.

easy - if you’re new to working out or strength training

knee pushups - 5 sets of 10 reps

sit ups - 3 sets of 10 reps

mountain climbers - 2 sets of 20 reps

lunges - 3 sets of 10 reps (5 per leg)

alternating arm/leg raises - 4 sets of 10 reps

jumping jacks - 4 sets of 10 reps

medium - a slightly more challenging if you feel like the above one is too easy

pushups - 5 sets of 10 reps

sit ups - 3 sets of 15 reps

squats - 3 sets of 10 reps (make sure to go down below parallel)

pike push-ups - 3 sets of 10 reps

plank - 2 sets of 60 second hold

doorway rows - 4 sets of 10 reps (link coz its a little unknown)

burpees - 5 sets of 10 reps

hard - if you’ve been working out before and want something a little challenging

pushups - 5 sets of 10 reps

diamond pushup - 2 sets of 6 reps

squats - 5 sets of 10 reps

pullups - 2 sets of 10 reps

reverse crunches - 3 sets of 10 reps

wall sit - 3 sets of 60 second hold

burpees - 8 sets of 10 reps

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So quick question.

Does anyone else just pretend like their dysphoria it isn't there, like just block it out?

I just try to block it out the majority of the day it doesn't always work but like I wait until a certain time of night to finally let it out and it's really bad when I do.

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My latest comic for The Nib was written by my friend Mike Thompson- it’s his first published comics work! 

The Nib has been a steady source of income and a huge support to me and many other indie cartoonists for years. They publish amazing work, but will be cut loose by their financial backer in July. You can read the official post about it from editor Matt Bors here.  They are still running their kickstarter-funded print magazine, but have to put digital publishing on hiatus until they figure out their next steps. If you’ve been thinking about supporting their membership program, now would be a good time. They have levels from $2 to $40 per month. I really don’t want this to be my last Nib piece! 

instagram / patreon / portfolio / the nib / etsy

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Ma'am, i have proof that some TERF's want to do exactly what you just said.

@fuckthapope sorry, but this still blows my fucking mind, had to screenshot

Trans people are always saying 'how do terfs want to abolish gender but also want to insist that someone has to either be male or female?'

This, is something that I feel is.. Below my, or anyone's level to answer.

If you can even think to ask this question, it shows that you do not listen to women, do not believe women, and see women as less than you. It's really just extremely telling of how self absorbed and either manipulative or just plain not-smart at all the person is.

For people who don't understand.

Abolishing gender roles is what we want because they are what cause women to be systematically traumatized on a mass scale just for having a vagina.

Gender roles can't be taken apart and down until people stop claiming they are trans. Claiming you are trans is inherently forcing your view that women are nothing more than a set of stereotypes. It is IMPOSSIBLE to be objectifying women in this way to also say get rid of gender roles.

We want to get rid of gender roles because they are inherently abusive and dangerous. Trans want to get rid of gender roles so that they can impose even more abuse and danger on us by claiming that our experiences and subsequent personalities and existances are up for grabs.

And yes, the effects of these roles are tremendous on men also. I don't talk about that as much because this is a woman focused blog, I am not here to educate and be fair to everyone, I am here to talk about my life and what's effected me. Me not acknowledging something online gives you 0 idea of my thoughts or actions on the topic in person

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Trans people are always saying 'how do terfs want to abolish gender but also want to insist that someone has to either be male or female?'

This, is something that I feel is.. Below my, or anyone's level to answer.

If you can even think to ask this question, it shows that you do not listen to women, do not believe women, and see women as less than you. It's really just extremely telling of how self absorbed and either manipulative or just plain not-smart at all the person is.

For people who don't understand.

Abolishing gender roles is what we want because they are what cause women to be systematically traumatized on a mass scale just for having a vagina.

Gender roles can't be taken apart and down until people stop claiming they are trans. Claiming you are trans is inherently forcing your view that women are nothing more than a set of stereotypes. It is IMPOSSIBLE to be objectifying women in this way to also say get rid of gender roles.

We want to get rid of gender roles because they are inherently abusive and dangerous. Trans want to get rid of gender roles so that they can impose even more abuse and danger on us by claiming that our experiences and subsequent personalities and existances are up for grabs.

And yes, the effects of these roles are tremendous on men also. I don't talk about that as much because this is a woman focused blog, I am not here to educate and be fair to everyone, I am here to talk about my life and what's effected me. Me not acknowledging something online gives you 0 idea of my thoughts or actions on the topic in person

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....ngl....thats really stupid AND you sound entitled to EVERYONES identity. Let people be people, please!

Going from libfem to radfem is snapping out of your own self sabotage just to realize that everyone else is too afraid of men not getting their way, even in womens spaces, to stand up for us.

It is easier to let men (TiMs) get what they want than to stand up to them

That is something I know because I am a woman and have had male violence forced onto me my entire life.

It would be nice to have a space to talk about that, but then the poor men's feelings might be hurt :)

If you're a trans identifying man, just know that no one actually supports you except for other people who are delusional and extremely, violently entitled like you. Anyone else is just terrified by your male threats of violence. If you truly had a 'female brain' (doesn't exist unless you've been socialized as female from birth because of your vagina) you'd know, but once a man always a man.