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give me possessive give me protective give me obsessive give me praise give me everything you have

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I wish I never crawled out of my fucking hole I should have stayed alone forever

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Be my baby. Let me re teach you everything you know. Let me teach you how to kiss. How to dress slutty for me. Let me guide you through how to touch yourself and suck my cock. Just be a good little angel for me. Let me take control of you.

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does it count as self harm if i don’t actually DO anything??

like yeah i’d love to break a bone but i’m too much of a pussy lol

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Autumn things 🍄‍🟫

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will's autism accent makes him overly articulate, we all know this. but imagine if when he's tired, sick, drunk, any other kind of not entirely there, he just gets very southern. suddenly syllables don't exist and everyone become "y'all"

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Love bombing is not a euphemism for "too much affection too soon," or "high desire for contact."

"Love bombing" is a term originally used in the context of cults to describe a deliberate and coordinated recruitment method that involved feigning friendship and interest in a potential recruit, via flattery, flirtation, physical affection, and very directed positive attention to everything the recruit says in order to lure them into the cult.

Since cults and abusive relationships operate in similar ways and use similar tactics, love bombing in an interpersonal relationship looks like manufacturing closeness in order to trap someone into a relationship in which the abuser has all the control.

And I know these days there's a million bullshit junky articles out there that make you think this is a symptom of cluster b personality disorders, but there is no way for you to be love bombing somebody without realizing it.

If you are an affectionate person and the level of affection and attention you give makes someone uncomfortable, you are not "accidentally" abusing them.

If you are uncomfortable with the level of affection and attention someone is paying you, they are not de facto abusing you.

Love bombing is about using someone's desire for human connection to fast track them into a situation you control that they will feel disinclined to leave.

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hate having to be ""mature"" and whatever the fuck

Let me just say what I want to say and be done with it

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thinking about this older Black lesbian i met once (genuinely older, like, in her 50s), who said that while she's polyamorous she's not in a polycule, she's part of a galaxy. she explained that some people were planets, they were a big part of her life and very consistently present, others were comets, only in her life for a little while but enjoyably so, and others were moons, present, but not as present or consistent as others. and the way she talked about it and the smile on her face were both beautiful.

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loving a flop musical is the closest many of us will ever get to delivering christ’s benediction to a repentant sinner

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